Unecessary Straps and Pouches and Belts and Clasps

A woman not shaving or wearing a dress or wearing makeup or wearing femme clothes or having styled or long hair or caring how she looks or using a masc name or whatever else is actually a neutral thing and not a sign of her being depressed or giving up or being sad or whatever

Extremely predictable, tbh, that this post, made my a trans woman about my experiences as a woman, about my relationship with gender, about how I get pressure to perform to a more feminized gender presentation, mostly from other women, is being reblogged as #radblr because I didn't actually mention being trans, since it wasn't relevant. I'm thirty or forty years old and I have very, very little interest in arguing with anyone on tumblr anymore, but if you're out there relating to this post, and also performatively yelling that trans women are men, or talking about how "you people don't really view yourself as women" or whatever, then all I can say is perhaps pause a moment to consider that our experiences are not all that different, and maybe choose empathy rather than whatever reactive hate you have been choosing.

asking me to do things i dont want to is something that experts like to call "mean"

i was scrolling pinterest and came across a panel of selina from sirens: love hurts back to back with a piece of fanart of zoe kravitz's selina and it got me thinking, i dont think ive Ever seen anyone draw catwoman with afro textured hair even in continuities or aus where she's black. zoe kravitz had a straight pixie cut and straight wig, halle berry's catwoman (who is not selina, for clarity, her name is patience phillips) had wavy hair at most and later a straight pixie, love hurts selina had a straight pixie, eartha kitt's catwoman had straight hair with a small curl at the end, like. something something black women who are considered sexy and desirable cant both be brown skinned and have coily hair because thats Too Black and thus not considered feminine enough something something

you're allowed to use labels that "don't make sense" btw. it doesn't have to make sense to anyone but you. use as many or as few as you want, just don't let anyone else tell you who you are.

can we hurry up and make it legal to have boobs out in public it's been too hot outside lately

I can’t be topless in public even if it’s legal cause some scandalized puritan is gonna put me on tiktok

i’m kinda obsessed with titans 99 garth. he spent such little time in atlantis with his wife and baby that eventually his wife just swam over to the titans tower with her bags packed like “well you can’t ignore us if we’re living with you :)”. and then he ignored them while they were living with him.

as a lover of Women Fighting & Killing media it's so important to me when they actually let the women look like shit. you know what i mean. like im so bored when a woman is in what's supposed to be a brutal fight and her hair is just aesthetically tousled or something and her makeup is still pristine. fuck offfff. if she's beating the shit out of someone and fighting for her life she should be covered in blood n bile she should look like she got hit by a truck and the truck exploded

there’s something so fucked up about how basically everyone in the hero community knows about Roy’s history with addiction and for a significant amount of time during postcrisis it seemed to be like, the first thing that you would reach for when teasing him. I mean this positively

theres literally nothing sexual

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