I’ll always hate the fact that Nesta sleeping around and having unsafe/rough sex was a problem and an unhealthy coping mechanism that she needs to stop doing, until the moment she starts having rough/unsafe sex with her soul mate.
Like suddenly it stops being a problem once she’s only sleeping with the one guy everyone (the characters not the audience) wants her to end up with.
Like which is it? Is it REALLY a problem when she’s doing it. Or do they just want her to stop ‘embarrassing’ them.
Cassian was chosen as her warden simply because they suspected they were mates. In Frost and Starlight, Rhysand said there’s some strings needed to be pulled to make Cassian happy, who at the time was all forlorn over Nesta (even tho he only has himself to blame as to why she won’t give him the time of day). Nesta BEGGED for them to choose anyone else and they refused. The whole “intervention” and subsequent imprisonment wasn’t for Nesta. It was to make Feyre and Cassian happy.














