Thabo Makhele

when you fuck up, you have to actually say "i really fucked this up & it's on me" in order to be better. there's no room for projecting or acting like a victim. no room for excuses or acting like you don't care. you have to actually grow the fuck up & take responsibility for every consequence. there's no growth without accountability.

You may feel like you lost the person you used to be due to your trauma, but remember that this trauma is not all of who you are at the present, it does not define you as a whole human being, neither will it dictate all of your future. Please remember to validate your feelings of self-loss but know that you can still be happy being a different person than the one you used to be.

Even if what you did today seems like a "baby step", you can still see it as a victory, because healing is a long and strenuous process for many of us. No step is insignificant.

You have something special to contribute to this world that is uniquely yours

crazy how sometimes u dance alone to your favorite song in your bedroom and you are like oh yeah thats why im alive

That was…..wow

What.

Well. I need a full length novelization of this.

Just… wow

fuck

Damn this is good