40s/male/Connecticut *warning, horny when caged.

Edging and 'Sadism'

Morning lovelies! What a beautiful day.

The above pic is half of one of Deborkader74's 'Edging' series; for obvious reasons, we can't show you the bottom half. I don't know why Tumblr hate horny d*cks so much. I think they are a very convenient tool for torturing guys. Anyway, take a look at the series on Deviant Art, there are four pics in all.

I have edging on my mind as I'm planning to edge p at some stage this weekend, most probably this evening. I'm very graciously giving him an opportunity to beg Me for release, despite his obvious infatuation and blatant fawning over a younger woman; yes, I am referring to K, whose marks still line his hairy bot-bot.

Something else on my mind is the recent description of L and K as 'sadists'. Okay, I've checked the dictionary and technically, I suppose it's correct, but to Me, it just doesn't feel right; certainly as regards L anyway, we don't know how K will develop.

When I think of sadists, I think primarily of really evil people like the Moors Murderers, rather than kinky people practising safe, sane and consensual BDSM; and even among the latter, there are different levels of sadism, ranging from the really serious torture enthusiasts to people who just give a little light CP.

I accept that I have My sadistic side and I haven't always even been entirely safe, sane and consensual; but I struggle with calling L a sadist just because She gets turned on by caning Barry's bum, with his enthusiastic consent and without causing him any real harm. L is lovely; She might hurt a fly, but not seriously.

I also want to say that I think that, if introduced to it properly and allowed to do it on their terms, quite a lot more Ladies would enjoy hurting and dominating a man. Dommes are relatively rare at the moment because Ladies aren't meant to act like that in society, but I'm sure loads of us have these 'sadistic' desires.

I'm very pleased that I've helped L and K unlock their inner Dommes and I hope I can do the same for others too. I appreciate that my lifestyle isn't for everyone, but I bet it would suit a hell of a lot more Women than would currently even think about embracing it.