朱美美

The biggest lesson I learnt this year is to not force anything be it conversations, friendships, relationships, attention or anything else. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for, whatever flows will flow and whatever crashes will crash, it is what it is.

You’ll come to find out that it’s hard to believe in things until you give them life. How kindness seems so unfamiliar until you’re the one who’s actively trying to be kind to others. How dreams seem far away until you do your research and try your best. How friends seem like a foreign concept until you start to ask people to lunch more often. The best things in life don’t come find you as you sit and wait. You have to go out there and decide they exist.

Lose the guilt of choosing yourself