Introduction
Howdy,
and welcome to my blog/diary.
This is a place where I discuss who I have been, who I am, and who I hope to become.
I've been on Tumblr for 2 months and it has offered an eye opening view into myself. Tumblr has altered how I think of the dilemma with men/boys and their treatment of women/girls and ultimately themselves.
This will hopefully be a collection of my mental and emotional reflections, music I enjoy, desires, confessions, and my general yapping.
Before you interact, please have a careful read over the following so we may both understand each other.
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About Me
✧ Jim
✧ he/him
✧ 28 y/o
✧degree in psychology
✧ UTC-6/7 (🏔 time)
✧ deeply curious introvert
✧ enjoy woodworking, reading and other slow, thoughtful activities
✧ partner to a person with PMDD (5+ yrs) ; she is my soulmate and here I process my half of the pain we endure together yet cannot always share with each other
✧ Old man living in a young man's body (for now) - broken rib and a torn hip make for an aged gait
this blog may contain:
✧ mature themes
✧ kink discussion
✧ emotional venting - including trauma
✧ good music
✧ fit checks
Nothing posted here should automatically be taken as my real-life morals or values. 🤷♂️
MDNI / 18+ only please.
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Ideals / Kinks / Interests
✧ Unconditional Love
✧ Peace
✧ Borderless World
✧ sexual/sensual tension
✧ #older man <3 dynamics (I enjoy reflecting people's desires back to them - this is a very common kink on Tmblr)
✧ polyamory
✧ mutual masturbation / sexting
✧ vulnerability / intimacy
✧ resilience
✧ secrets
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About Me cont.
I have a deep interest in analytical psychology, internal family systems, attachment styles, identity formation, emotional pain/regulation/intensity.
*How we people love each other in an attempt to love ourselves amidst the messiness of our whole human being - that is what I'm always trying to understand more deeply.*
I want to experience the infinite variety of people and hopefully set a better example for the both young people and adults.
*I'm not here for your nudes and I also don't want to just be used to help you get off.*
We might understand sexuality to be an intense emotional catalyst for the energy required to talk about the feelings we usually build protective walls against.
I don't take issue with using sexuality as a tool for healing but using that tool for objectifying ourselves and the people we speak with is unacceptable.
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Asks — READ BEFORE SENDING
✧ be patient & respectful
✧ don’t spam asks or expect quick answers
✧ no unsolicited pictures - ask first!
✧ don’t trauma dump without warning
✧ asks may be ignored
I enjoy receiving:
✧ deep questions
✧ confessions
✧ thoughts on love & attachment
✧ yearning
✧ weird thoughts
✧ compliments and well wishes
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Boundaries
✧ no racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, etc. (instant block)
✧ no minors in my dms
✧ no nonconsensual sexualization
✧ no harassment
✧ respect my limits
✧ I'm not a therapist, please get one if able, you will thank yourself!
This blog should feel safe, calming, and I want it to be helpful in finding your own peace.
DMs
✧ open for mutuals & friendly conversations
✧ flirting is okay if we naturally vibe
✧ please do not immediately turn chats sexual
✧ I don't always reply right away, I work odd hours
✧ I will disappear for up to several days at a time due to social burnout - thank you for understanding
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Be gentle with yourself and others and know at least this one stranger believes in you. 😊
Thanks for reading!✌️
