Don’t ever in your fucking life beg a man to be with you, spend time with you, or contact you. Don’t go out your way for men that won’t do the same for you. I never begged or plead a man to take me back or call me. I don’t stay where I am not welcomed or wanted. I don’t chase men, I replace them. I have way too many men hitting on me and craving my attention to worry about one man that won’t put any effort. 

No matter what when you first start sugaring it can be obvious that your naive, no matter how old you are. However, it’s always a good idea to lie and say you’ve had a SD or two before. That way you can also exaggerate the generosity of previous arrangements so men will hopefully not try to offer any allowances that are too low. If you want to lie about your age you can, but it’s not really necessary. If it’ll make you more comfortable why not do it.