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THIS IS A PSA BLOG!!

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A neatly organized document will soon be made with all evidence included and any victim anecdotal if any would like to participate! Any evidence and information given can stay anonymous if desired!

To clear a few things up:

- I am NOT a fictionkin.

- I do not condone harassment but I do advocate to speak up about mistreatment, criminal activity or abuse and that is what this blog is

- I do not plan to and never have I doxxed anyone. That is not who I am

- We have proof of diagnosis of all our disorders and we are super okay if it is asked for!

- We will not be giving out anyone’s phone numbers or addresses privately either. That is for only law enforcement to have and that will not change.

- I do not hate or dislike people I have not met!!!

- Things he might spread about us are most likely lies BUT we are always willing to answer clarifying questions if you want to ask about what he might be saying about us

- WE DO NOT CONDONE ANYTHING HE DID which is obvious but I still have to say that

We met on 03/10/26 and started collectively dating 03/30/26. I did not know he was freshly 18 until a few days into being friends, his tiktok account had only “adult” in the bio. I made friends with him honestly expecting the same experience with others, text a few times then never text me again but stay mutuals. But it didn’t pan out that way, we talked daily, played games and it was normal. I had a new friend. I was happy having a new friend and I didn’t have the plan or urge to date him. I gained feelings overtime as I got to spend time with him. It wasn’t an immediate attraction especially given I thought I was aroace at the time. I didn’t understand how I felt until just a few days before I confessed how I felt. I only ever confessed my feelings to him in a formal doc I put on my VRChat profile because he had previously blocked me for doing literally nothing wrong(It was related to his at the time boyfriend(15 yo)) and I wanted my friend back since I didn’t have many and I finally felt comfortable, I felt an instant click with him). He then unblocked me and eventually confessed to me and asked me out. I never planned to ask him out myself. I didn’t want to get involved because he was in a monogamous relationship and also he was clearly going through something, I’m not one to take advantage of people like that. But I was asked out and knowing I had feelings and I could treat him right, I said yes. I shouldn’t have but I did. I regret it. I regret meeting him, loving him and defending his lies.

Directed to him and his doc:

Collective blame happens when multiple alters in a system cause issues. Adam blocked us, lovebombed Evelin and abused our Jonah and gave fake apologies. Other Adam abused and fantasized raping our Jonah. A Jonah dumped us for “mental health reasons”. Cesar made promises he couldn’t keep, Thatcher as well. Cesar also emotionally manipulated us into thinking we were cared for and still wanted when that wasn’t true. And you all collectively ignored our trauma responses, our boundaries, our very clear communication. You used us for our love, support, and sexual favors. Made us block people non of you liked. Controlled our friendships, our streams, had an issue if we spent too much time with our family, encouraged getting sober but then on the same night get drunk on call with us. We had nightmares about being left again, blocked again so much so we had terrible episodes of insomnia even though we have narcolepsy. If Adam fronted we would stare at your profile terrified we would be blocked again, our Ebony split as a result of that, he has an unstable personality because he had to adapt to everyone. He felt his job was to change and change in every interaction to be sure we wouldn’t be randomly blocked again because we were terrified of it. It set of our abandonment issues with our BPD. And collectively no one communicated that non of you wanted a future with us. Non of you communicated your needs but still expected them to be met. We asked why you kept us around at that point and the first thing said was “I don’t want to be alone”. That’s not only dependency but also using us for companionship. You didn’t love us. You loved having us wrapped around your finger until we started standing up for ourselves. You’re using you’re current boyfriend too because the day before you get with him you told you know who that you couldn’t handle romantic relationships and only 3 hours before getting with your boyfriend Andre was very very affectionate with us on VRC while watching the Beatles movie with us which Andre initiated while our Jesper kept distance as to respect boundaries and only stopping when your now boyfriend would join the world. Also multiple times Adam told us to end our life. And Evelin did in fact try btw. She lied, it wasn’t just to sleep. We could have genuinely died. We dealt with amitriptyline poisoning from what Adam said to her and treated her. And our Jonah was TAUGHT how to cut styro and purposely told afterwards it would hurt a lot only to see Jonah freak out. And Adam enjoyed that. That was never addressed, never apologized for, never mentioned again. No system accountability. No improvement. Adam apologized himself before Jonah went dormant but then after dormancy Adam continued to be an asshole to Jonah. I understand not having control over certain alters, but gatekeepers are meant to do their fucking job. We have had our own issue with our Eden, but difference is our Thatcher takes responsibility for him and also Eden makes an effort to improve. And our Adi is known to be dangerous so he’s gatekept from front and for YEARS hasn’t caused a single external issue, that’s the job of our gatekeepers. If it’s that hard to get your headmates to behave then until you can get them to behave I don’t think it’s okay to have friends or partners. It’s selfish actually, knowing you have such little control and you have grey morals that affect how you treat people, and still make an effort to make friends and to date others. Everyone deserves friendship and love but NOT at the expense of other’s mental and emotional security.

You collectively hurt us when you collectively turned a blind eye to all of what your headmates were doing to us.

“17 and impressionable” You’re old enough to know right from wrong. You have access to the internet and to communities that punishes creators for saying slurs. There is zero excuse for saying racist slurs at the age of 17.

First, I don’t condone harassment or threats. Anything anyone does is NOT my doing nor my responsibility after I already made it clear publicly that I do not support that kind of behavior so don’t come to me about that. I am no ones parent. All I can do is refuse to condone behavior and lead with good example

Now how would I be the offender? I have all the proof of his emotional abuse onto me as well as proof he did in fact tell me to kms multiple times and encourage SH onto me. And proof I met him after he turned 18 which mind you I only saw “adult” in his tiktok bio for a few days before I noticed his birthday in his vrchat bio so I wouldn’t be seen as the offender in any way especially when I committed no crime against him. Me asking him to open up to me is not abuse. My setting very light boundaries with drugs is not abuse. Me letting him block me on and off until I had vivid nightmares about being blocked and woke up crying daily is not abuse.

Not only all that but are you ignoring all the proof he was 18 and saying all that on twitter? I am grown up, I am grown up enough to know that ignoring literal crimes he has committed would be selfish of me. Did you know an 18 year old sexually dating a 15 year old online and encouraging SH onto them is considered grooming and child abuse by law and is a felony? No? Google is right there.

and you KNOW that 15 year old lied to him about being 16. look at jonahs doc.

@bythornesangel is his current bf btw!!

@jonahwebs was confirmed to NOT be his account!!!

THIS IS FOR STRICTLY BLOCKING REASONS. DO NOT HARASS HIM. I DO NOT CONDONE THAT.

I am personally going to law enforcement about the cyber crimes he committed onto us so I promise you he will be getting what he deserves. Justice will be served. If any underage victims of his has evidence against him and would like advice on how to report what he has done, feel free to ask. We have experience with reporting cyber crimes to the FBI especially with involving victims in other countries. A reminder that the FBI is international and they take cases serious!

If anyone knows of his new accounts please message me with them!!! He is in almost every popular fandom you can think of so please be wary of any new friends you make even if they don’t fit his description!!! This is the internet, anyone can lie.

I gained more information about him.

He has been known to lie about age, specifically lying about being much younger than he is. He also has been caught having crushes on and attempting to date DIFFERENT minors during and after that time. He has also been known to harass others especially his exes/victims. He has a habit as well of stalking them too. Reaching out to people on alternate accounts when they attempt to cut contact. He has also been known to cheat on partners when he claims to 'change' his preference to being monogamous. He has also sent cropped nsfw art to minors! As well as said the N-word as a white-Hispanic himself.

The art that was sent to minors:

The age lying (I can confirm as someone who has been talked to by police about someone I called in a welfare check that they will inform you of said person's real age after the welfare check is performed):

The N-word:

I will be! I am taking all proof and information on him to add to these post and also to the document I am putting together for a more organized look. Feel free to message me here or add my discord to share!

This is the only public post that will be made and no accounts of his will be given in public. DO NOT HARASS OR WITCHHUNT HIM. This post is awareness and not harassment in itself. As an update I was recently threatened by him for making this PSA post. Please be careful when interacting with him. AND AGAIN DO NOT HARASS HIM FOR ANY REASON DUE TO THIS POST. I DO NOT CONDONE THAT. LEAVE HIM BE, BLOCK HIM AND MOVE ON.

I’m not so easy to threaten into being scared.

Hi this is a PSA to the general public especially the system community and TMC community. This is NOT shit talking, this is a warning to the safety of others and a discussion of his actions. Please share and reblog if you’re comfortable doing so!

There is a user on here who usually uses profiles dressed up as the characters of TMC. He goes by Jonah and Jaspyr. He is 18, a DID system who claims to have BPD and NPD. He uses he/it pronouns. (I do not specify diagnosis only because I am not his doctor nor am I him. In no way am I claiming he isn’t diagnosed by not adding that he is diagnosed.)

He has been known to have a shedtwt and shotatwt account in the recent past. He was 18 dating a 15 year old in March of this year. I won’t name the victim for their safety. He encouraged and forced self harm onto this 15 year old as well while dating. This is legally recognized as child abuse. He did in fact post on twt about having the urge to groom someone at the time of getting in a relationship with this child. I do believe he attempted to groom this child only thankfully did leave that child soon after getting together. And yes, their relationship, from what I know from Jaspyr himself, was sexual in nature.

He and us dated recently. Our name is River. We are 23, use he/they pronouns and are a diagnosed system with diagnosed BPD which has been treated with therapy since 2020 and we have been in CBT therapy since 2010. We are also very pro-recovery. This is an important detail.

In the time that we dated, we were emotionally abused and manipulated with lovebombing, victim blaming, guilt tripping and trauma dumping. He successfully gained information about our previously abusive ex, which he was eager to know for weeks, and once finally told we noticed he used the same tactics and patterns she did. The patterns and tactics we mentioned. He used his systemhood and disorders as an excuse to give incredible amounts of love and affection to specific alters in our system only to tell them later to commit or encourage that we harm ourselves and unfortunately taught us how to harm deeply when we never have done anything like that before. He has also confessed that some alters in his system have fantasized about raping us and us attempting to fight him off and fail. And not in a joking or CNC manner. He has as well had quit therapy willingly and refuses to get clean from his substance abuse and SH habits, he does not believe in change. He does not desire to recover and heal. This is dangerous as NPD and BPD can be destructive and cause detrimental harm to others in nature if untreated.

We have also learned he does in fact fish for specific sourcemates in systems with the aim to date them due to source attachment. He does not care to get to know the real you, he will have a ready curated image of how you should be based on source and assume he knows you completely due to that when in reality he knows only what he expects you to be.

Again, DO NOT HARASS HIM. I DO NOT WANT THAT FOR HIM OR ANYONE. I DO NOT CONDONE THAT. THIS IS STRICTLY FOR AWARENESS SO YOU MAY ALL STAY SAFE.