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there are days where NO ❌️ video games are played and there are days where video games are played for 10 or maybe 14 hours straight

Am I crazy or has the "nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny" shifted into the "trans people don't have to transition to be valid :) don't transition. Don't transition. Don't t" zone of #positivity posts. Like I see more people telling me it's okayyyy to look cis than people saying nonbinary people can, like. Be trans. Putting it way too bluntly they're gonna hunt me for sport. But like you know what I'm talking about though right you've seen it

It might be a mangling of the more nuanced "nonbinary people don't have to perform A Very Specific Flavor Of androgyny" (i.e. short hair, thin, white, implicitly transmasc but not taking testosterone,) which I agree with for obvious Native American Reasons but idk. Gang we might need to step back a bit. Remember Transitioning

If anything . Equating that ^ extremely white western ideal with what it means to Be Androgynous just reinforces it. Like,

I feel like we started saying this to point out the uh white supremacy & transmisogyny of it all & at some point it just tipped over into whatever this is. We went from like "nonbinary people aren't cis women lite we can look like literally anything" to "it's okay to be cis woman lite <3" what are we doing. Do we think they're the demographic of nonbinary people most in need of #representation in 2026 ? I Don't

every time ralsei gets angry my affection meter goes up

that is actually my main principle of explicit fic is that the personalities stay On during sex.

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