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When you're man enough to not be intimidated by toys but instead use them for Y'ALL benefit

In my younger years, doggy style was the go-to move. Any position that would have you bent over and your ass poking out was my fave. I remember when missionary was thought of as boring. The more you're into a woman, the more you want to see her. The deeper I fall for you, the more excited I get by looking at your expressions when we make love. I love matching your mouth with your moans. I love watching your eyes roll back and you gripping the sheets, I love seeing you bite your lip after swearing at me. Talking nasty to each other is one thing, but looking into each other's eyes while talking $h!t is a totally different level.

As of late, I've been putting you in positions that allow me to admire you. Whether it's us scissored from the side, or missionary, or you riding me or the one we're in now. It gives me the opportunity to see it all.

Not only do I get to passionately kiss you, but I can raise up off you a little and see your breast bouncing back and forth. I can grab your ankles and admire them thick thighs and calves. I can devour them toes. I can grab you right behind your knees, pin your legs to the bed, and see you all the way and totally open for me. I get to see how messy you get for me, how your juices are all over my thickness, your stomach, my abs, and your inner thighs. I get to watch every inch of me disappear. Or I can lean forward with your ankles on my shoulders, grab your wrist and get ready for my favorite pastime, watching you cum for me.

Yeah, face down ass up is cool but any position that allows me to look at that beautiful face of yours is better.

SEX HACK:

FELLAS‼️ Learn to control her orgasms.

It's not just about MAKING her cum, it's also about denying and delaying when she does. It's about being disciplined. It's about taking control and teasing and edging her to the very tip of explosion and telling her, "Unnn unnn, not yet. I'm not ready for you to release. I'll tell you when I'm going to ALLOW you to cum!"

AFTERCARE

I've learned that what I do to and with her after s€x is just as important as what I do during.

Whether its Bdsm, bondage, a night of rough s€x, or a passionate love making session. Whether she's my nasty b!tc% my good girl, my babygirl, my pretty lady or Goddess, I make sure afterwards...SHE GETS PAMPERED.

Going to sleep right after is for amateurs. Mature lovers know they have a responsibility to make her feel that s€x is NEVER just sex. I want her to feel wanted...after. I want her to know that I appreciate the submission that she gifted me, that I absolutely loved how she obeyed every command perfectly, how perfectly her body responded and communicated with me. Now its time for Daddy to gently caress you and cuddle and stroke you and be affectionate with you, and to bond and connect and restore and recharge, pour into and love all on you.

You are my responsibility before, during and after s€x.

Breakfast...the most important meal of the day.

Tell her that she's your good girl and how good she's making you feel. Tell her how soft she is when your fingers trace her body. Tell her how pretty she is while she's begging and moaning and gagging. Always remind her that you love how she €ums for you. Tell her before she does it, tell her while she's doing it, and remind her afterwards.

Me: Were you a good girl? Did you do what Daddy instructed you to do?

Her: Yes

Me: Yes? Yes what?

Her: Yes, Daddy, I did!

Me: And what exactly did you do babygirl?

Her: *bites bottom lip* I wore my panties all day for you.

Me: Your panties?

Her: I'm sorry Daddy, your panties. I wore your panties for you all day.

Me: And do you know why Daddy always instructs you to do this?

Her: *smiles from ear to ear* Mmm yes I know Daddy.

Me: * mmmm* Tell me then baby.

Her: Because my scent is the drug that you're addicted to and everytime you sniff my....I mean, YOUR panties, it makes you realllly really hard and you always...ALWAYS fu%ck the sh!t out of me afterwards.

Me: That's my good girl, now give me what's mine............*inhales* Mmmm MINE!

-Daddy

Here's the difference that I learned FROM WOMEN and then from paying attention. Cumming is the amazing feeling you get from the explosion. Sometimes this can be with squirting as well. Usually when you're having multiples back to back to back that's you cumming. You can cum 10 times and still not O.

Now the big O, that's like the snowball rolling down the hill of snow. It's more of a building up of. When that happens it's typically an OUT OF BODY experience and usually it's "DON'T TOUCH ME, don't touch me." Usually it's not yes keep going give me more. And orgasm is when everything in you comes outward and you're spent. You're drained, you're exhausted. YOU'RE FINISHED!

That's when things connected all day. Anticipation, and teasing, and getting treated good, and foreplay and passion and a few cumms built up. Sometimes depending on the toy tho you can get that too.

Cumming can be quick and easy, Orgasm usually takes a little more time. Cumming sounds like "ahhhh ahhhh ahhhhhhhhh" Orgasm sounds like "OAVXDDRUINVDZJVCYT.....AH.....SHHHH.......FUhhh!" But yeah cumming is the CUTE, Orgasm is the BEAUTIFUL!

Ps (there's a difference in taste and consistency too afterwards.) For the connoisseur who realllly pay attention 😋

The way she blooms and blossoms when she's able to be vulnerable because she TRUST you, is simply amazing. If you have alot of complaints about what women aren't doing, chances are she either don't TRUST you or YOU don’t make her feel safe.