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i know that a lot of perisex people love to appopriate and propagate intersexism to speak over people, but, to other intersex people: y'now you don't have to concede in your deshumanization? if your circumstances were the same mine, growing up, y'now you can actually try to unlearn the stigma infered on you by medical and psychiatric authorities? you know that you don't have to put up and let people instrumentalize your context to make it look like your identity is synthetic? what i mean here is that our existence isn't a transition into formality, if you identify to how you were initially assigned, that makes you cis as you didn't had to debate authorities on that, which is the distinction with being trans. transitioning into what has been determined for you just because of the medical process and ambiguity your condition may come with is transmedicalist theory, which is very ironic to see that kind of idea being promoted by people who actually pretend hating transmeds...it's the same idea. it comes from the same place. and the intention is the same: selling the impression that gender is synthetic and variation from the cis perisex model are disordered. it's exactly what people like john money, patricia jacobs, harry benjamin and ray blanchard tried to prove and every single of these people failed to do so, yet are still granted far too much authority and the repercussion of their work on culture have been nothing but a disaster. also, it's extremely western centric in application and rooted in white suppremacy, it's just fascist pseudo-science adjacent to phrenology in the end. it should be discarded instead of reclaimed as it's not the subversive flex a lot of people seems to think it is, stop it.

some people will be like "it's okay to ask for help" between constant reminders of what they think about people they consider to be helpless and that asking for help is the limit for as long as we expect nothing out of it or never let the building anxiety we get out of it as a consequence show in any way whatsoever unless we want to be isolated even further.

i really hate how masking and other things to accomodate immuno compromized people cost money and how talking about it more often result in people using that as an excuse to claim that expecting people to mask is classist and not that being homeless while immuno compromized is practically a precipited death sentence to a very short extend. in many cases we're too poor to access more than our home we barely leave because we can't access to the accomodation to make it viable more than we can allow ourselves already, so if we lose that also it doesn't give us much ressources left. and, very often we're stuck in another vicious cycle which is how we often can't properly take care of ourselves and also left on our own, so we can't even accomodate ourselves properly on our own, it's a mess.

one of the funniest social mistake is when people start trying to fish sympathy by asking me what i would do in their situation that would require me to be better afloat to get in before it's even considerable.

it's really annoying how the only times people care about scams is when people are in a deliberate place to make the choice they're coerced into making. and that's probably why the only time people seems to care is when poor people make a profit out of rich people's generosity instead of people who have the means to prey on precarized people and exploit the loopholes to get away with it without proper compensation. the irony is that very often the first is the facade of the second and the result affect every precarized people leaving them even more vulnerable to that cycle.