Sans titre

making pansexualphobic posts occasionally is the tumblrina equivalent to firing off a gun to keep to the property values down

i got Groomed on tumblr by women like a true intellectual So I can’t relate to the perils of the discord moderators

it’s so hard for me to listen to heartbroken/angry breakup songs by straight men bc no matter how good the song is i’ll be like i’m not sure if i fully believe you. let’s hear her side of the story.

honestly sometimes to save money you do have to spend it. if you deny yourself the things you want to really do like take an art class or start a gym membership or go on that vacation you've always dreamed of but don't have any budget plan to get those things, you won't actually save money. you will hold on to your money without purpose, denying yourself enjoyment, and then you will justify one hundred "little" expenses a week that don't really give you joy and actually cost way more than the $100 a week you want to spend on that bougie yoga studio. oh me and my girl friends can't do a fun brunch every sunday because that's going to cost me $60 so I'm going to be so sad but anyway let me get 6 or 7 $20 purchases a week from starbucks because a pathetic little sandwich and a shitty coffee drink makes me feel better. STOP THAT! instead of waiting around without a plan, spend the money you want to spend on worthwhile things and learn how to make that money stretch. Learn how to save for the things you can't lose by investing in those things, not waiting.

I think a lot of people expect to have a woman in their life doing all this work for them. so when they don't have her they think "I'm poor, because if I wasn't poor I wouldn't have to do this myself with my own money." mostly men, but I think some women think this too. cooking + cleaning + kin keeping, that's "women's" work aka mommy's work. I think soooo so so so many people see mommy's work as detached from time, effort, and money. mommy is supposed to buy christmas ornaments. mommy is supposed to plan my birthday party. mommy is supposed to keep the kitchen spotless every day. it free, it's supposed to be free. if I don't have it, it's because I'm being oppressed, I'm burdened, I'm the lowest class. etc etc etc. and that extends to political action, too! I can't organize my friends, I have a shitty apartment! I'd have to buy pizza! I'd have to have a couch! I'd have to cook! I'd have to clean my bathroom! I don't have mommy to do it!! So it can't be done!! It's self evident of my station!! you know what I'm saying?

I can’t believe Hunter Biden and I have beef with the same dude

the most important virtues for the young woman are as follows: time theft, selfishness, orgasms, irreverence to authority, sacrilegious behavior, a questioning mind, and eating regular meals.