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A few times a week I receive messages from different guys and not “hey how are you? nice blog” messages. It’s always some dolt that is trying to find another tumblr hook up and not taking the time to realize who they are sending the message to. Now what I have learned is there are too many men making decent men look like idiots. Too many men say hello with a dick pic or an overtly aggressive come on. Too many men don’t even bother to look before hitting send. It’s sad to be honest.

So my question becomes how do you send a woman (or assumed woman) your dick, or a demand, or just the most offensive bullshit possible without at least making sure you are sending it to the appropriate sex?? Or taking thirty seconds to read someone’s description?? Or saying hello before being a pig??

No wonder so many women assume guys are mindless jerks. Fuck I’m a guy and I’m stuck shaking my head at my own kind.

Some important things to remember:

1. Just because a woman likes sex does not mean she’s easy or wants to be bombarded with random dicks and aggressive messages.

2. All men have dicks, at least introduce yourself before waving yours around like they’ve never seen one.

3. If you’re going to send someone your dick would it kill you to, I dunno, shave it? Clean it? Present it with some dignity. Too often you send some of the grossest looking shit and it baffles me.

4. If the best thing you have to offer is your dick that’s just disappointing.

5. Let’s try and have some manners. Let’s try and act like gentlemen. Let’s try and show the women of the world that not all men are assholes and pigs.

Well that’s the end of my rant….have a wonderful day folks…

Inkd😈

I see a lot on tumblr lately regarding the defense of underage participants in a certain community, as well as the underage participants expressing anger that they are not welcome on NSFW blogs. As a NSFW blogger, as well as someone who has come to know various sex laws due to their career, I thought I would clarify some things:

1. It doesn’t matter what the age of consent in your state is. Age of consent refers to the age that you are able to consent to sexual activity only.

2. Even if you are able to consent at age 16 or 17, by law you are still a minor. Pornography cannot be sold or viewed by minors.

3. If you are under 18 and you post explicit photos of yourself, you can be charged with creating and circulating child pornography, as the images contain a minor.

4. It is normal to have interests in sex and kink, regardless of age. There are safe spaces on the internet to seek these out and ask questions regarding your interests. Spaces where you can communicate with other teens, that are well moderated and do not allow adults to freely graze and prey. Scarleteen.com is probably the greatest example.

5. As a minor, showing purposeful disregard for another blogger or a website’s request that no minors be present on the site (and for some explicit material, 21 is the age for legal viewership) puts the owner of that blog and/or website at risk. No one wants to see awesome sex bloggers get shut down or sex friendly spaces on the internet get hit for having underage members. Think about more than just yourselves.