TheWomanInsideMe

There’s No Reason for Guilt

Allow me to ask you a few questions:  Is it wrong to want to feel confident?  Is it wrong to want to feel comfortable?  Is it wrong to want to feel at peace?  Is it wrong to want to feel pleasure?  Is it wrong to want to feel passionate?  Is it wrong to want to feel happy?  Is it wrong to want to feel excitement?  I suppose that I could come up with a whole list of questions; and to each of those, I’m certain that you would answer them the same way–with a big fat “NO”.  So, why would you answer this following question any differently?

… “Is it wrong to want to feel like a woman?”

No, it is not wrong, and no, there is not a good reason to feel guilty about it.  You might feel some nervousness, some anxiousness, maybe some timidity, but you shouldn’t feel guilt.  A boy feels guilt when he steals a pair of panties.  A guy feels guilt when he cheats on his partner.  A man feels guilt when he lies about his credentials in an interview.  Lying, cheating, and stealing, in my opinion, are wrong.  When a person does something that is a compromise of their integrity and negatively impacts others, feelings of guilt are an emotional response of the conscience (again, my opinion).  Feeling girly, dressing feminine, wanting to be womanly, embracing femininity, etc. is not wrong and should not create guilt.  It’s not impacting other people negatively for a man to dress like, talk like, move like, think like, and love like a woman.  It’s not a compromise of integrity to want to feel feminine, girly, and less manly.  There should be no guilt because there is no wrong.

Being true to our girly selves should never cause us to shamefully wander into the dark prisons of guilt.  Let the light shine on your femininity and let the girly boy express himself/herself–at least a little more freely.  No matter how secretive you might be about “the woman inside”, you might keep her hidden because of your own circumstances, but never let it be because of guilt.  Guilt will destroy more than your girly self.  It can really hurt your overall being.  So, be done with feeling guilty over wanting to feel like a woman.

Let’s all sparkle a little brighter today without shame,