JareBear

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I accidently gained 10 pounds on vacation and split my pants open. Everyone saw my fat ass burst open the backside of my pants at dinner. "woah, better slow down on the fries there bud" they said. Humiliated and aroused I had to go jerk off at home.

*** HONEST ANSWER***

So here is the Tea on gaining. I've been in the community 10 years and I've never really seen it addressed. It kinda kills the hot gainer man façade so I get it. But y'all new kids need the education.

Ahem, THE URGE TO GAIN IS INCONSISTENT

Doesn't matter who it is, no one wants to gain all the time. The only way I can really describe the feeling, is as an urge that comes and goes over random large spans of time. Lol i cant grammar.

Let's take this current gain as an example. Feb 28, 2021 my bday. I'm turning 25. I have 0% urge to gain. I haven't for about a year at that point. Though gaining porn is still my preferred porn don't get me wrong ... crickets ... Boom! March rolls around it's all I can think about. I'm horni all the time and constantly consuming gaining content online. 3 months of that and i regain 50 pounds. (which is stupidly fast i may add, I don't recommend.. though it was fun. My knees just hurt lol). Now that it's summer I am more or less happy with where I am, however I seem to still be slowly growing due to my increased apatite. I don't have any thoughts of stopping right now. chill. Though, this current gain will inevitably come to an end. Which poses a new challenge:

MAINTAINING WEIGHT DURING OFF SEASON

This is why you see SO many fking accounts just get deleted out of the blue. This is usually due to a bout of self hatred, which sadly happens sometimes :( Confidence is awesome and feels good when you have it. But that too is inconsistent. When u don't have the urge to gain, ur not horni at all, just trying to get through the day and ur clothes dont fit. Then ur fking mom comes in with the "ya know you really should think about joining a gym". Bruh!!! FUCK OFF. I know it sounds like a fantasy, but sometimes it sucks. Don't act like it doesn't

When the urge to gain is gone you really rally have to rely on your horniness to keep up your eating. Eating is just no longer a priority so your lucky to get excess calories in. I have failed every time at this step so im gonna try better next time. :P

I don't want to end this on a low note so..

Any advice for baby gainers trying to increase appetite? Just comes with time?

Thank you and for sure! Your capacity will increase as you grow, which correlates to some extent with your appetite. But gaining at my size often includes some aspect of eating beyond what you have appetite for - and I think smaller gainers should learn from that. You may need to actually push yourself, not just eat until you feel “full.”

I often challenge younger gainers with this question (if they’re not growing like they want to) - Are you having dessert with every meal? I don’t care if you felt full after the burger. Go get a milkshake. It’s stuff like that where a lot of guys just won’t make the effort.