hi!!! im not new to red dwarf by any means and I've seen the whole series and everything, but what is the appeal of rimmer/lister ship? /gen btw, im not disrespecting and i dont dislike the ship, im just curious and want to understand!!
Hey! Always happy to answer questions like this about the ships I like, haha! Apologies in advance because I always set out to give a succinct answer, and then... well, that rarely ever happens 😂
I didn't always ship Rimmer/Lister, actually! I've been a lifelong RD fan, and the first time I started writing fic and engaging in online RD fan spaces was when I was a 13yo closeted kiddo who never considered putting the two of them together, because "what, no, they're just straight friends. Why would anyone pair them together?"
But then I started actually reading fic with them together, and I went back to watch the show with the idea of them as a couple in mind, and... it sort of clicked. I'd even been writing some fem OC fics around that time, fics where the OCs were... basically just gender swapped versions of one of the boys that I could pair with the other. Their dynamic was always what I wanted to engage with, I just hadn't considered actually putting them together because I was 13 and stuck in heteronormativity hell 💀 (Literally, I've held onto this old RD fic for decades now because this author's note kills me every time... 13yo me you had no idea what was coming...)
I absolutely understand seeing them as friends and nothing more than that, and I think their relationship is lovely regardless of whether they end up as something more than that. But I think that's part of it for me - the dynamic they have, especially when you get to see it grow and change and evolve over 30+ years of canon content... it's just so easy for me to see that becoming more with time? Even when they bicker, even when they get on each other's nerves... they miss each other when they're away, and they're so close, they share a room and an entire life together, they become so intertwined over their decades spent together... and they didn't have to do that. They chose to do that, to stay like that, and it's sweet to see it as something between them that grew to be more than just friends, y'know?
I'm so curious to hear what the appeal is for other folks, though, because everyone has their reasons for enjoying the two of them together!