Sissy Jamie

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So you want to become a bimbo for real do you? It’s easy! You can message me to get direct advice and possibly full training, or you can start on your own with a few tips. 

Becoming a bimbo does not happen over night. It can take years and years if your older, or if you’re younger, it could only take a short amount of time. Just know that while you may not look like a bimbo today, or tomorrow, or even next week, you can start acting like one right now!

Starting out:

First know that becoming a bimbo is all about attitude. You have to commit to the attitude of a bimbo. You have to want to be desired, want to be the girl everyone stares at because of her looks. You have to want to be on display constantly. Everything you do, every action you take, is designed to show off. For Example: bending over to pick something up stops being from the knees and starts being from the waist. You still have to go to the grocery store, but now you do it in 4in heels and a tiny skirt. EVERYTHING is about showing off.

The 3 Rules a Bimbo Lives by

These are the rules that guide a bimbo’s life. All training and bimboifcation revolves around these 3 rules. A bimbo constantly obsesses over these 3 rules. They are ALL that she cares about.

Always be showing off - A bimbo does all she can to show herself off to the world. This includes wearing small outfits that show lots of skin, and making sure she is seen as much as possible in them. A real bimbo doesn’t ask “is this to revealing?” She asks “is this revealing enough?” A true bimbo also  takes lots of selfies and posts them online so the entire world can see how she looks. She doesn’t think: “I hope nobody sees me like this.” She thinks “I hope everyone sees how hot I look!”

Have something worth showing off - With the first rule, she has to have a body that is worth showing off. Is her hair right? Is she tan enough? Are her tits big enough? Is her ass tight enough? Is her lipstick sexy enough? Making sure she is always in shape with a tight body, big tits, and fake everything else is one of her obsessions. She will want to show off more and more with all the effort she puts in to keeping her body worth being on display.

Do everything you can to please men sexually and physically - For a bimbo, it’s a man’s world, and her role is to support men. She is a man’s play thing. She is his object, his arm candy, his fucktoy, his submissive. She is obsessed with pleasing men. She is always smiling at them, making them feel comfortable, and giving them everything they ask for. Whether she can just get you a beer, or the best blowjob you’ve ever had, a real bimbo obsesses over pleasuring every man in every way she can and as best that she can. A bimbo does not think about her self first. She does not get a boob job because “I want people noticing my boobs”. She gets it because “Men like big tits and I want to give them something to look at.” She does not dress sexy because “I want to find a hot guy”. She does it because “Men will have something nice to look at wherever I am”. A true bimbo puts her desires and needs behind the desires and needs of every man out there. She lives her life to please men, all men, until her master puts limits on it. 

Training!

Now that you know the 3 rules, we can start the training. I break training down into 3 stages. The first stage is a basic bimbo stage that most girls don’t get past. Some will make it to stage 2, and the real bimbos make it all the way to stage 3.

Let’s begin! 

The First Stage: Fashionable Girl

So now that your ready, lets take the first step. These are the first steps you can start today to work towards being a bimbo. I call this step the “fashionable girl” stage because most fashionable women do this anyway.

Join a gym! Go 5 days a week, for at least 1 hour. This include weight lifting, cardio, and other exercises. A personal trainer is recommended if you have a lot of weight to lose, but being a bimbo is about not just being thin, but also having a tight body.

Eat better! Go either all vegetarian or eat less unhealthy food. Again, a thinner body is better. DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! This is not only unhealthy, but goes against weight loss. Eventually your appetite will decrease naturally.

Go shopping! You may have some work body wise, but you can still buy smaller outfits now. If you are wanting to ease into it so people don’t notice, just buy outfits that are slightly small and tighter than you would normally wear. Make sure they are vibrant and scream ‘look at me’. Make sure they are shorter skirts than you normally wear and show more cleavage as well. If you are not a step or two outside of your comfort zone, you are not doing it right.  

Go to the salon! Go get a new hair cut. Maybe you don’t go blonde today, but you can still get your hair done. Longer is better as well as a solid color with extensions. It is a good first start. Lots of body and fuller is better. A salon can also give you makeup tips.

Wear more Makeup! Every day, apply more and more. Look online for video how-tos (i provide in real training) and look at photos for inspiration. This also includes lashes, nails, and makeup that highlights your eyes and lips.

Tan! A bimbo has a slight tan. If you live in a cold climate, a tanning bed is a must. Go a few days a week until you get a good glow yo your skin. 

Buy lots of heels! There is nothing wrong with heels for any occasion. If it’s at work, out at night, or even around the house, you never have enough heels and should wear them as often as possible. Try for heels 90% of the day, everyday. 

Take lots of selfies! A real bimbo always shows off. When you are all dolled up, take a selfie and post it online. Facebook, tumblr, twitter, doesn’t matter. A real bimbo is proud of her body and always wanting to display it to the world. 

If you slowly follow these steps, within a few weeks, you’ll feel more confident as a bimbo. This is the hardest stage and will take the most time. Maybe 6 months to a year depending on weight loss. So don’t get discouraged and stick with it! This stage also provide a solid base that’s needed for stage two! 

The Second Stage: Basic Bimbo

So if you mastered all the steps in the first stage, you are ready for stage 2, but you must have first mastered the first stage, no exceptions. They are all required to be routine and your “new normal” before continuing.

The next stage brings you from a ‘pretty and fashionable girl,’ to bimbo level 1. This is where you really transform. 

Dye your hair blonde! No exceptions here. Bimbos are blonde, period. Get the most platinum blonde hair you can and maintain it. Remember, longer is better and you want fuller hair up top, thin hair leading down the back.

Get plastic Surgery! A tit job is required and should be no smaller than a DD. Also, you may now realize you need to get Lipo. This is fine. Everybody is different and sometimes diet and exercise just isn’t enough. Lipo all remaining bad areas.

Get a Bimbo Job. A bimbo job requires you to show off. This could be a Hooters girl, a Promo model, or a stripper or whore. You’re choice, but pick from one of those. This may not be your full time job, but it will facilitate your desire to be shown off.

Get Horny!  You heard me, make sure you always want to have sex. As a bimbo, you’ll find you can sleep with better looking guys. Make sure you are doing it. It’s your goal and your job to please them. Being a bimbo is about pleasing men. Your reward is their cum in your mouth. It’s your test for success. (Tip from my bimbo friend at http://xsubmissively-yoursx.tumblr.com/) To help you get horny, masturbate to the edge of an orgasm daily, but never allow yourself to cum. Only a man can allow you to cum. This should keep you horny all day long.

Increase all the 8 items from the first stage. Work out more focusing on specific areas, get shorter skirts and tops that show more skin. Increase the amount of heels you buy to the point that you can’t find flats in your closet aside from your workout shoes. Continue to eat healthy and take more and more selfies. 

Understand your role. As someone who wants to be a bimbo, you have to understand that bimbos are there for the pleasure of men. Understand that your role is to do nothing more than please men. You do this by the way you look and the way you act. Men are the object you crave. All men. You do anything and everything you can for men. Your reward will be their cum in your mouth. It is how you gauge how successful you have become at being a bimbo. 

Once you have finished stage 2, you are now at the beginning of being a bimbo. Stage 3, the final stage, is where you go from sexy, beginner bimbo, to full-blown fucktoy bimbo.

The Third Stage: Total Bimbo

So, you’ve made it this far. For you to continue, you must have mastered all the previous steps. You have to feel like there is no more surgery you can have, no more weight you can lose, no more you can show off. Now you are ready to become a true bimbo because yes, you can show off more, dress sluttier, and have more surgery.

Forget about everything! Well, not what I’ve taught, but everything else. Forget about what is going on in the world. At this point, your life should be consumed with: how you look, how you look to men, how you look in the mirror, how you look in that outfit, how you would look with bigger tits, how you would look with a shorter skirt, how you would look…… Nothing else matters except how you look. Sex with any man and his cum is the prize for your look. If a man wants to fuck, you get a lovely reward at the end that validates all your hard work. 

Change your Job! Had a bimbo job before? Now you need a slut job. Stripper, whore, cam girl, or house wife are your 4 options. No exceptions. You have too much work keeping up with your body to wait tables or answer phones.

Clothing is as tiny as possible. No dress is too short, no top too small. A man will tell you if it’s inappropriate, but until he says something, show as much boob, skin, and leg as possible. Bras are not required with how perky your fake tits are and panties aren’t really desired. All in a room should see your tits and your pussy whenever you bend over.   

Understand your new role. You are there to look good and fuck. Nothing else. Your opinion doesn’t matter. You’re not to speak unless asking permission or unless spoken to. You’ve gotten so air headed you’ve let a man make all the decisions in your life. In fact, you aren’t even letting him. He just is because someone has to and you go along with it. While men are talking, bimbos are ensuring they look good and fuckable when their man is ready, which is any moment. They are at the total control of their man who regiments their life, so all a bimbo has to do is worry about how she looks and how well she fucks. 

Not everyone will make it to stage 3. In fact, most women who want to transform really don’t want more than stage 1. That’s fine, they are just not full bimbo material. 

Take the first step regardless if you don’t think you’ll get to the third. You never know where you will end up. 

Good Luck!

Wear short skirts or dresses with no panties if possible. When wearing skirts or dresses that aren’t tight fitting hope for breezy days that could “accidentally” expose you.

7 Ideas to Feel Girly that You Should Try

Many of you know what it’s like.  You are expected to be a man.  You ARE a man.  At least, you’re male.  But you want to be girly.  You want to wear dresses, skirts, lingerie, heels, cute outfits, etc.  You want pretty hair, smooth skin, a softer walk and gentler mannerisms.  You also want to be accepted as your girly self, but that’s not going to happen–at least not publicly and maybe not in your lifetime.  You have family or friends, work, school, and social activities where you’d like to feel girly, but you know you must portray “man.”

That’s tough, isn’t it?  But is all lost?  I don’t think so and I want to share with you seven ideas that can help you feel girly when you must be “boy.”

Before I post, I want to give a quick nod of gratitude to the many fabulous girly boys who chimed in and shared their thoughts.  This list is a combined effort and not one i could have come up with on my own.  It’s also not an exhaustive list.  Also, I would encourage you not to try and implement everything.  Just try a few of these ideas, even if it is one at a time.

1) Smooth Out Your Image

Get smooth and fine.  I personally enjoy shaving my upper legs and trimming my lower legs.  I wish I could shave the entire bit.  I keep my chest, topside of hands, and armpits shaven and even shave the underside of my forearms.  Shave your groin too and keep the hair above that area short and groomed.  Additionally, you could try your hand at plucking eyebrows to a thin, but subtle arch.  I used to do this without any question. Just make sure you pluck eyebrows at a time when no one will see you with temporary reddish plump from the plucking.  It goes without saying that man-hair problems should be taken care of anyway.  Keep the nose trimmed and the ears plucked.  Ear hair is gross.  Other options include, but are not limited to body lotions and conditioners, bleaching what hair you keep, and being conscientious about all areas of hygiene.  Mostly, when it’s said and done, simply clean yourself up.  Your outer boy will benefit just as much as your inner girl–it just feels great and feels clean. 

2) Spoil Your Girly Self

Learn to enjoy the spa treatment.  Take scented bubble baths, do facemasks, and moisturize with girly lotions.  Paint your toenails feminine colors and use clear polish on your fingernails.  Don’t forget to clean your cuticles, having them softly tapered back.  You could also try some slight growth that you could file to a more oval shape.  Use a little foundation on your face or maybe a bit of eyeliner or eye shadow.  Try lip gloss instead of chap stick and keep it on you to use at any point during a day.  Fruity flavors and perhaps some glittery gloss can add some excitement.  If you’re feeling it, be a little more risky with some subtle mascara, blush, or lipstick.  Get a pedicure or manicure.  Get yourself some perfumes to spray on religiously.  The point is, treat your inner girl like a princess.  You she deserves it!

3) Be Girly Under There

If you want to feel girly, there may not be any better option than panties.  You can go as fem as you wish and as small as you can handle.  No one will ever see, unless you show them.  Learn to enjoy a good Tuck.  Keeping the little boy in check and his friends up and out of the way might be a bit of a pain at times, but it’s so worth it not to have a bulge.  A step up would be stockings or pantyhose.  What a rush when you opt out of socks!  And then, there is the bomb: the bra.  It’s not always going to work out as an option because of whatever kind of shirt you choose to wear.  Some other secret options are things like girly temporary tattoos, garters, feminine socks, chemises, panty liners, or maybe a choker underneath a collar and tie.

4)  Embrace Androgyny

This might be my favorite.  Girls clothes that can pass as men’s clothes.  Women’s jeans are a great go-to.  I have a few pair of womens jeans in boot cut and skinny.  There are some options that won’t work, but there are plenty of options that can.  Do your research.  Also, although women’s shorts are generally short, there are long shorts made for women.  I almost got a pair of women’s cargo shorts once.  I own a women’s swim short that passes.  Like jeans, you can find cute shirts, and unless someone can tell that the buttons are on the opposite side, you’re golden.  And alas, my absolute favorite.  I’ll admit, I’m quite stricken by women’s sneakers.  What I love about shoes is that people don’t normally look down at feet, and if they do, they’ll either not care or not pay attention.  Trust me, there is no one going around checking to see if you have on narrow shoes or to see if your shoes have pink highlights.  I’ve walked through streets, malls, shops, parks, ballparks, etc. etc. in Keds, cheer shoes, or flats without even the slightest second look (even though i kind of wished for it).  I have a whole collection of women’s sneakers and wear them frequently to various public spaces.  Never once have I been questioned for it–even in the cutest pairs.  If you wear something larger than a 12 in women’s shoes, companies like New Balance and Skechers make size 13 now and many companies are finally making 12′s as a regular.  Thank goodness!  But it’s not just tennis shoes.  There are several casual flat options that are simply narrower versions of men’s styles.  Obviously, if you’re trying to maintain a guy profile, you can’t wear heels, but you can try subtle platforms. Androgyny may not be as sexy as “all out” but it’s great to have the option.  even if it does look semi-manly, at least you know.  I could continue to write more, but I must move on.

5) Accesorize (yeah, I didn’t spell that right, oh well)

I’ve not done much with this one myself, but I can see where it would be awesome.  Rings, earrings, belly button rings, toerings, necklaces, bracelets, ankle bracelets, or watches.  I’d love to have a girl-size apple watch and band.  It’s your choice in how much you’d like to glam it up.  Purses might be an option too if it could pass as a man-bag.  What about a girlish backpack or sling? What about a semi-girlish phone case, computer bag, or a women’s wallet?  Here’s an idea!  Care to try a hair band?  Or if your hair is long enough, a scrunchie.  Another option might be ladies’ eyewear frames or sunglasses.  In cold weather, ladies gloves, scarves, or toboggans.  How about cute hats or visors?  When you’re at the beach or pool, use girlish towels.  When working out, girls’ lifting gloves.  The idea here is to add a little something girly that makes you feel special.

6) Practice Feminine Posture and Gestures

So, you want to feel girly?  Start acting like it.  Talk softer, move more gracefully, sit more precisely.  Cross your legs like a woman when you sit.  Get into a car as if you have on a dress.  Walk narrow as if on a thin line.  Limp your wrists and point your toes.  Act like you have hips.  Twirl your hair if you’ve got it.  You may not want to camp it up too much, but you can certainly improve your mannerisms subtly over time.  I definitely could use some help in this area.  I’d say that the hardest part is developing the habit.

7) Do Girly Things 

The options here are perhaps endless, but I’ll try to give a few.  I like the idea of keeping a diary and writing in girlish strokes with pink or purple pens.  Put little hearts for dots on your i’s.  Doodle flowers.  Watch chick-flicks (I know, that sounds sexist).  Window shop often.  Go to women’s shops frequently and take in every opportunity to go into those special places with your girlfriend or wife.  With your significant other, cuddle like a girl would and be tender with your kisses.  And, of course, it wouldn’t be a Gym Bunny Candie post if I didn’t say it: “Dress girly for a workout.”  Even if it is in the sanctity of your home, wear a sports bra and yoga pants, cute tops, maybe even a tennis skirt.  It’s not about having a sissy workout.  It’s about transforming your body while luxuriating in the feminine garments.  And don’t forget your girly sneakers!  LOL  One thing you could always try is early morning or late night walk or runs in your girly gear.  I live on a golf course and so I will sometimes get girly and run the course at night on the golf cart path.  It’s such a rush! There are just too many options.  I’m sure you could think of some.

Well, that’s what I have to offer, and by tomorrow, I’m sure to come up with dozens of other ideas that didn’t come out.  But I hope these ideas help you in some way to bring a little girliness into your mundane male life, that, for some logical reason, you cannot escape.

Do you have anything to add?  I’m sure it’s a good one.

Have a great girly day, girlfriends.  Love you all!

By Scandalous Sissy

**Thank you to u/sissy-sophia on Reddit whose ‘The Sissy Guide’ was used to create certain sections of this guide. The information provided in the following sections of this guide are accredited to u/sissy-sophia: Dieting, Exercise, Demeanor, and Shaving. If you would like to check out ‘The Sissy Guide’ by u/sissy-sophia, the link is below:

https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/comments/52hwsu/introducing_the_sissy_guide_a_comprehensive_guide/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=hot&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=sissyology

Introduction

What is being a sissy, you may ask? Well, she is simply a variation of the traditional household wife. The traditional wife, in this society, is bound to the home and tends to the children; as well as executing the chores around the home. The sissy would do the same. If their dominant master, or “dom.” for short, decided to have children and start a family, the sissy would be the household aid. Though a sissy is not a maid. The sissy is in no way a second wife. The sissy is a wife, though many exceptions exist. In many cases, the sissy may be a household servant, similar to a maid, or an additional wife. Though the sissy in a two-person relationship is, in fact, just a wife.

Pronouns

If you have not noticed, the sissy, despite being male by birth, uses feminine pronouns, with some exceptions. Though, the sissy is not always a transgender. If one is unsure how to refer to a sissy, it never hurts to ask.

Duties

The foremost duty a sissy must bear is the responsibility of pleasing and appear attractive towards their dom. This may be in a sexual sense or public sense. Sissies should indulge in cooking, cleaning, and other household chores that a housewife would be expected to do.

The distinction between a sissy and a man are very important. They are in no way similar. Sure, they may be similar in a biological sense, but not strength or personality wise. Sissies aspire to date strong men with large penises.

It is also very ideal that the dom. indulges in the realm of B.D.S.M. with their sissy; sexual punishment is a very usual activity.

Exercise

It is not ideal for a sissy to perform relatively extensive exercises that have the potential of creating muscle mass. Some sissies are expected to remain thin, but anybody type, thick or slim, can fit a sissy. Typical daily exercise includes the following:

Sidekicks

Hamstring curls

Lunges

Deadlifts

These exercises will allow the buttocks, thighs, and other regions to expand, giving sissies that nice, thick feminine body.

Dieting

Sissies should consume foods that produce natural estrogen. This is done to allow certain areas of the body to enlarge and appear more feminine-looking, like the buttocks for example. Dieting should include the following:

Agave and honey (as sweets)

Tofu

Drink Soy

The avoidance of red meats is advised, for it can increase testosterone.

Basic Pleasure Necessities

The three most standard and quite necessary items for a sissy include the following:

chastity cage

butt plug

rubber dildo (though plastic, while not ideal, is acceptable)

Other miscellaneous items are not mandatory, but they are gems to own.

Shaving

First and foremost, the realm of shaving only takes place in the shower. A sissy is advised to take a warm or a hot bath beforehand can allow their pores to easily open, making shaving a breeze. The use of an electric trimmer (electric razor) is recommended to shorten body hair before the traditional blade is used. Shaving in the tub, especially with the grain of a sharp razor, is recommended. Shaving cream or shaving foam helps as well, but it should not be lathered all over the body. To conclude shaving, a cold shower should be taken to closes a sissy’s pores and forces out oils and any dirt.

A sissy should use an electric shaver to trim her hairs before using a hair-removal method. Exfoliate the skin. In essence, this involves using shower loofah and scrubbing your body with it.

Using a high-quality oil-free moisture lotion is recommended. Neutrogena, while expensive, is worth the extra money. Coconut oil also works in the exfoliation of the skin.

Demeanor

Sissies generally are light on their feet and swish of their hips when walking. The arms move with each step in slow, yet graceful movements. Sissies should have their wrists limp, their shoulders back, and their spine arched.

Behavior

Sissies should remain positive in public and in private. This does not mean a sissy should hide her feelings with a facade, it means that she should try to remain lively, vibrant, and stylish while remaining to appear relaxed. If a sissy and a dom. ever run into a disagreement or even an argument, they should listen to each other and make a strong effort to work it out, just like any other partners in a relationship should.

Sexual Behavior

Achieving what is called a “sissygasm” is one, if not the most, important sexual achievements for a sissy. What is this sissygasm? A sissygasm is an orgasm that is achieved through the pressing against the prostate, while the penis is limp, not erect. The pressing against the prostate should not be a violent pressing, for that can result in damage to the prostate and severe problems. It should be moderate to relatively gentle pressing.

The chastity cage is used to restrict the strength and erections of the penis, allowing it to remain limp. This is done so that the sissy may only achieve an orgasm via sissygasm.

Lexicon

Vocabulary is important for a sissy. When talking to their dom. or out in public, if they so choose, specific word choice should influence their speech.

Suggested synonyms for the word good include the following:

Yummy

Pretty

Cute

Sweet

Sexy

Proper

Superb

Happy

Fabulous

Another example includes “Small” or “Little” (when referring to themselves or other sissies) and “Big” (when referring to their dom or other men).

Suggested synonyms for the word bad include the following:

Yucky

Silly

Ouch

Boring

Crazy

Wild

Scary

Sad

Prude

Gross

Improper

Wrong

Horrid

Hard (when applied to penises)

Other important suggestions include using the following:

Yes Sir

No Sir

Yes Madam (or Ma’am)

No Madam (or Ma’am)

May I

Please

Pretty Please

Thank you

Excuse me

Sorry

This is done to further solidify the sissy’s subservience through obedience and politeness. When referring to their dom., sissies ought to use “Master” or “Daddy,” and “Mistress” or “Mommy.” Every term used by the sissy to refer to their dom. must always be capitalized when written.

Wardrobe

A sissy’s wardrobe must only or mainly consist of feminine clothing, this includes:

Dresses

Skirts

Tank-tops

Brassieres

Panties

Lingerie

Maid Gown

High Heel Shoes

Corset

Tights

Stockings

Leggings

Tight, High-cut Shorts

Leg Warmers

Arm Warmers

Slippers

Female Sneakers (preferably pink)

Mascara, lipstick, and maquillage (make-up) are a must for the face of a sissy. They enhance the features of a sissy and give them that desired feminine visage. Ear piercings are standard, though any other piercing is not mandatory.

Conclusion

Being a sissy should not just be a state of mind in a sexual sense, it should be a bonafide lifestyle. You should not just be subservient to your husband or wife, depending on your attraction, you should be genuinely attracted and connected to them. That is what a humble partner in a relationship is after all. If you are simply a sissy for the purpose of being sexually aroused, then this may not be the lifestyle for you. It could perhaps be that you would prefer the private sexual relationship over a public lifestyle subservient to your dom. If this is the case, then, by all means, do what it is that makes you happy. Now go out and be a proper sissy.

Why bother with pants?

No, seriously, why should we bother with pants? They are horrible to put on and peeing in them is a huge chore. They don’t even look that good. Sure some tight ones can look good, but an average dress is often much sexier and a sexy dress just wipes the floor with any pants. And yes, hotpants are sexy and can be quite enticing, but mini skirts are equally as sexy if not sexier.