It’s funny bc I had met this girl. My bd & I were both looking for new cars, and let me just add we were looking for new cars because he TOTALED mine. Anyways. We went to all the dealerships together bc we were looking at basically the same car. He wanted an s4, I wanted an a5 or an s5, whichever one I could find a good deal on. So we go to this dealership. We get this girl as our sales person. I’m there thinking she’s cool, she’s nice, etc I THOUGHT me & her were getting along really well and I actually wanted her to be my sale’s person. We come back a 2nd day in a row and that’s when I started to feel off about her. I don’t think I had any specific reason to but my intuition was saying something to me. I even made a joke to him like “I think she likes you”. Whatever, I brushed it off, we went home with his s4. Me & him start fighting, no particular reason, but something in me is telling me he’s cheating. We start fighting bad. And it was all a surprise to me because we were doing really good. We were both at a really good point in our life. We were getting new cars, and I was also supposed to get my boobs done. But when the bad fighting started to happen I decided to let us have a break and I left my apartment to stay at my family’s house for a few days. There was one specific day where my anxiety was acting up so bad and the only thing I wanted was to be comforted by him. I was calling him every few hours, texting him, etc and he was always there to reassure me that he was going to pick me up when he was off of work. He would answer the phone just to tell me he WANTED to be there for me. That part just replays over & over in my head. Then he just stops answering. Then his phone goes on & off with being on & off. I haven’t heard from him in a few hours. I’m obviously freaking out.. I just made myself go to sleep. I wake up at 1am, no texts or calls from him. My intuition was going crazy. It knew something was going on. I woke my brother up, because mind you I still didn’t have a car at this point. I told him I needed to go to my place to get some stuff. And I walked in to what seemed like an empty apartment. Then I walked to the bathroom and heard a girl laughing in there. Honestly, I thought it was his coworker in there. He had something going on with a coworker that I had a feeling about, but no actual proof until AFTER this situation with the car dealership girl. So I bust my bathroom door open, he’s in the shower, and the car dealership girl is just standing in front of my bathroom sink doing her hair, whatever she was doing and my heart sank to a place I didn’t even know it could go. I literally could’ve fainted right there. Now how fucked is that? To tell me you WANT to be there for me? Then have another girl at MY apartment? And for that girl, how fucked up could you be?? You met him with me right next to him. You knew we had a child. You’re 32 with a daughter & a son. Obviously things go down. She locks herself in my bathroom. He ends up putting his hands on me. My brother called the cops the first time because she wouldn’t leave my apartment. They were called again because he hit me. He choked me and dragged me by the hair on the ground. When they knew the cops were called they left. 3 police reports were written by me, my brother, and my friend who was also mutual friends with my bd (I actually met them through him). She sends me a text the next day saying I’m not shit. I’m broke. Etc. saying I need to be a better example for my child. I’m broke, but you were in MY house? I’m broke but I gave my bd extra money to put down on his car? I need to be a better example for my kid, but you have a daughter old enough to date and what you did is a good example of how to date??
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