okay beloved mutual your vent about friends becoming distant entirely different people after getting a romantic relationship is SO based and real
LIKE it's so great they can find love and new connections yay!!! BUT AT WHAT COST. LIKE. WHY WOULD YOU SUDDENLY TRANSFORM
like I guess it makes sense that they of course would be busier and have less time to hang out and such šš but it still feels kinda assholeish to just ditch the people who were there for you and cared for you long before you got into cahoots with somebondy š
Mutual I wish you the best of luck whether you decide to cut out these people or not!! I always want you to know that you deserve nothing but the absolute best, and friends who care for you and are there for you!!
I wanted to give a more lenghty answer but ended up just ranting abt this whole issue even more and it's honestly not really something I wanna waste my energy on, overthinking it and so on, so let me just say thank you for your understanding, it does mean a lot to me <3