equal parts sexy and suicidal

phantom wings are normal. everyone has those. it’s people without phantom wings who are weird

the invisibly disabled & the visibly disabled should be best friends btw

do not start gambling. go outside and locate a bug. now post it on inaturalist. bam. nature's gacha game

it's cool to voice your wants and needs actually

sitting in the sun. yes it's gonna take all day. sorry.

cast iron? yeah thats a pretty common spell to learn

skillet issue

rub her booty and tell her you're ok with her being completely insane.

being polyamorous and having no game is so humbling. yeah im poly but i don't have any girlfriends. im just in love with all my friends and nobody wants me

i don't know who needs to hear this, but guilt, self-hatred and shame are not sustainable sources of growth and healing. you can't hate yourself into feeling better, or being better. you can't repeatedly punish yourself for your flawed humanity and expect wholesome results.

I know it sounds fake but you really do have a lot of silent lovers on this planet who look at you and wish they had your smile or your hair color or your humor or your intellect or your intentions or your heart, your manners, your eyes, your ease, even just you. People who are too shy to tell you what they admire about you or what they wish for you or who they see themselves becoming bc of you & they’re too shy to tell you. even tho it isn’t verbalized, the universe has still heard and the universe has loved you for helping out on its creations. You’re that person. You’re you.

it’s important to engage in at least some small degree of criminal activity in order to remind yourself that you don’t have to ask for permission