In this post youâll find everything you need to know about the Law of Attraction, what it is, how does it work, etc!
What is the Law of Attraction?
Like its name says, itâs a law. What this law says is that our thoughts & feelings create our reality. Whatever we give energy to & focus on -good or bad- we create more of.
Achieve our dreams in a more effective way
Feel more confident and secure
Realise & learn the power our words, thought and emotions have
Feel happier about our current realities and situations
Exposure & openess to new experiences
In what ways can we practice LoA?
First and most important is gratitude: give thanks for everything you have & receive. Even the little things, like a glass of water youâve just had.
Visualization (=daydreaming, picturing vivid images in your head of what you want, conjuring good emotions)
Two- Cup Method https://bit.ly/2SqYtGl
55x5 Writing https://bit.ly/2DRxSdI
Letters to yourself/The Universe: https://bit.ly/2St1oOS
Vision Boards: https://bit.ly/2StjbWf
Scripting: https://bit.ly/2GNWYMy
Abundance log: Write out all the abundance that enters your life everyday. Example: 24/8/19 +$3000⌠(Thank you for my payment) This applies to gifts you are given, things for free, money you encounter somewhere. This is a money focused technique.
Subliminals ( I have my own channel: my-witchinghour in YouTube)
Charity work (giving back when we can, is always a good idea)
What are some keywords of the Law of Attraction?
Energy & vibration: Everything is energy in The Universe, thus everything has a vibration. Understanding this concept will help you align better with the energy & vibrations of your desires.
Manifestation: Anything that comes to the physical world that was previously an idea, a thought/desire/vision/dream.
Alignment: Adjusting your attention in relation to how you want to be feeling so that they match.
Limiting beliefs: Beliefs about our world that were imprinted on us since the day we were born and are holding us back from getting what we want. Any sentence you catch yourself saying and starts with âI canâtâ â I am not Xâ BAM! Negative belief.
Resistance: Any negative thoughts, beliefs, habits.
Detachment: Itâs the most important part for you to receive what you ask. Let go in order to receive.
Whatâs the biggest thing youâve manifested using LoA & How did you do it?
Iâd say that all the things I manifested using the Law of Attraction are important to me, but to mention some of them: my first job (lots of visualization, telling myself I would have that kind job over and over again, positive affirmations) a meet and greet with two of my favourite bands (33x3, guided meditation/visualization, Subliminals to help me detach from the outcome), my first tarot card deck (I wrote down what I wanted + added some characteristics of how I wanted it to be, visualization).
How do you get rid of doubts/limiting beliefs when manifesting?
I write them down. I just take a moment to be present, breathe and think âWhatâs stopping me right now?â. I write it all down and then I analyse where do these limiting beliefs come from. After this, I start rewriting said previous beliefs into positive affirmations to reprogram my mind. I also remember every success Iâve had/ previous manifestations & accomplishments to boost my confidence.
What you need to know about detaching:â¨đ https://bit.ly/2Twox02
Do you have to stop visualizing in order to detach?
No, thatâs not necessary. What you have to detach of the urgency of getting what you want, of the how & the when is it gonna happen. Visualising your desire in your head & getting into the feelings youâll get when you get it is not something bad. Focus on the WHAT and not on the HOW & WHEN.
Can you manifest a specific person with LoA? Even if they donât know who you are?
Yes, you can do that and go at it just like any other manifestions. Should you manifest a specific person? No, I donât think you should and let me tell you why:
When you attract a specific person, you are limiting yourself to the endless possibilities that the Universe has to offer you. You might think you want to be with that cute guy or girl from your class but the thing is that they might not be the right person for you. Furthermore, you are messing up with their free will. You will succeed in attracting them, but you cannot manifest that they love you. You cannot force someone to love you out of the blue.
However, here are some things you should consider when you are thinking of manifesting a specific person ( this goes for manifesting a relationship as well )
Change your self perception: Donât see this person as someone who is above you/ a prize/ a trophy. See them as your equal. You have to feel worthy of being with them or anyone else for that matter. For example: it is very common to idealise a person when we barely know them and we tend to put them on pedestals, thinking they are way out of our league (celebrities are an example of this). If we see ourselves as below them, we are not seeing them us our equals, thus our energy is not matching theirs.
Write down all the possible negative outcomes of attracting and being with this person. Are they logical? Do you believe them to be true? Can you move past this fears? If so, go back to where I mention how to let go of limiting beliefs.
Write down all the things you love about yourself and that you would bring into a friendship/relationship with this person. You canât expect someone to like/love you if you donât already like & love yourself first so self- love is key.
Visualize yourself with this person on a daily basis and focus on the feelings youâll get from this. Think about what would you do, the places youâd go, first dates, what would you be wearing, any new adventures, etc.
You have to be open with yourself above everything else. This does not mean âbe positive and happy 24/7â, this means you donât have to wait on anybody to do the things you love. Go live your life, and do the things that you love to raise your vibes and the rest will follow.
How would you explain free will?
Following the concept of âeverything is energy & has a vibrationâ, all of us human beings have the ability to choose what kind of energies we want to surround ourselves with. Thatâs free will. Our ability to pick and choose what we want in life.
Having said this, when you want to manifest a person but you donât see yourself worthy, you lack self-confidence, you are insecure, you are desperate to be with them, you are projecting those vibes into The Universe, thus pushing them away. Think about it this way: If you had a girl or a guy texting you 24/7 to go out on a date with you but you have already said ânoâ numerous times, this guy/girl is projecting needy & desperate vibes towards you and you are rejecting them, because thatâs not how you vibe. Your energy is not matching theirs so thereâs not an alignment. They are not seeing you as their equal but rather a prize they are desperate to obtain. If this guy/girl approached you from a loving, more confident place, you probably would reconsider going out with them.
Your manifestations & desires have to come from your heart; they have to be genuine. Do not let your ego get in the way.
What is the difference between manifesting from your Heart Vs manifesting from your Ego? Can we manifest from our Ego?
Most of the time, we find it hard to detach from our desires because we are constantly thinking about them. We obsess over them. Thatâs our mind getting in the way.
When we approach our manifestations directly from our heart, we are manifesting from love, pureness, truth, honesty. Now, when we are manifesting from our Ego/Mind, we encounter lots of resistances, and blockages that stop us from getting what we want.
The heart doesnât struggle. Your mind does. A good way to realise which one is which, is to sit for a while and really reflect on your intentions behind your manifestations. Why do you want X? Really take the time to ask and ask again until you come up with the real reason behind what you want.
The way to focus your attention to your heart and not your head, is to first let go of the belief that everything has to be rational and has to come from your mind. Movies, series, media in general always portray that following your heartâs desires gets you in trouble and that you should think with your head instead. The Universe operates so much easier from emotions than from thoughts. Let me give you an example:
You can repeat all day affirmations like âI am lovedâ âI am wealthyâ like a robot machine. However, if those thoughts are not aligned with your feelings about it, they wonât manifest so easily. If you canât connect with your feelings and emotions, your head will have an easier job at saying â Youâre unlovableâ âYou are poorâ and youâll believe it. Thatâs when blockages appear.
That being said, you can manifest from your Ego, yes. In fact, most of our material desires come from our Ego. However, it is easier and more organic to manifest from your heart.
Can you use the Law of Attraction to change our appearance?
Yes, you can. Of course, this is within whatâs humanly possible, you canât just grow two heads on you or an extra arm/leg. Let me go into much detail about this.
Since the day we were born, weâve been picking up on othersâ opinions on us and the way that we look. As a kid, your parents & people around you may have told you âyou have beautiful eyesâ, âyouâll grow into your noseâ, âyouâre chubbyâ and so on. Believe it or not, those comments have created the way that we look now. Those perceptions of others about us, have become our perception, thus manifested into out physical form. This means that you have the ability to change it.
1) Believe that it is easy for you to change your appearance using the Law of Attraction. If you believe it is easy, The Universe will show you proof that it is so.
2) Visualization (or daydreaming): Visualise yourself the way you wanna look in your head every single day.
3) Say how you wanna look out loud, to everyone without any desperation. Make it fun.
4) Find a Placebo that works for you. Can be anything from drinking 4 coups of water to manifest a flat belly, to eating more carrots to manifest a more tanned skin.
5) Act as if/ begin to behave as if this change has already manifested. For example: If you want to manifest losing weight, start buying clothes of a smaller size. Want bigger boobs? Buy bigger bras.
6) Start appreciating the quality that you want to change in yourself, in other people. Instead of feeling jealousy or envy when you see another person with the rocking body that you want, start feeling excitement and you because you are beginning to align with their reality. You can take it further by complimenting people who have that physical quality that you want.
7) Release resistance. Stop beating yourself up for the way that you look. Love yourself and your appearance because when you focus on the positive, you attract and create more positive.
About signs from The Universe and that the Law of Attraction is working â¨
The Universe, our spirit guides, angels or whatever source of great power you believe in, have many different ways to communicate with us.
We usually get signs from them to reassure us in our path, or when there are things that need a little changes/modification so we can align with our soulâs true purpose. When we manifest and set our intentions out into The Universe, it is very common to start noticing signs that what we want is coming to us.
While these signs are extremely personal to each and every one of us, depending on our associations to certain symbols, and the beliefs that we hold. There are some common signs like:
Synchronicities: They are meaningful coincidences. These are casual events that occur with no casual relationship yet they seem to be meaningfully related. For example: Youâve been thinking about this song you havenât heard in a long time, and then out of nowhere, that afternoon you hear that song on the radio.
Dreaming more often and vividly: It is very common to get messages from The Universe/our guides during our sleep. Write down what you dream with every detail you can remember. Think about how you felt during the dream. It is also very common to dream of our manifestations happening, which is a great sign that they are coming.
Increase in your abundance/money: I noticed that when my manifestations were coming into fruition, I always started to get more money from people (my parents, for example)
Heightened intuition is also a sign of LoA working. Intuition increases your awareness and that helps you notice the signs, figure out the next steps you need to take, etc until your manifestation comes to you.
Angel Numbers/ Repeating Numbers
Seeing rainbows or feathers is a common theme too.
You can always ask for a sign to The Universe to help you reassure you. Asking for specific things to be shown to you as a sign is always better. Make sure thatâs something that holds a positive meaning for you. You could ask to see a read feather or a blue dart. Of course, this also depends on your personal associations with the things you ask. One thing to remember about signs is not to ask for them over and over again because that creates the feeling of lack (of faith) and resistance.
Should I do more than one manifestation method for it to work? How do I pick up whatâs the best method for me?
The Law of Attraction is more than just doing methods to manifest what you want. The most important thing is to believe that what we want is already ours and will be in the future no matter what. Itâs also key that you remember what can you use LoA for (which I mentioned at the very beginning of this post).
Having said this, I want to go into the this next topic. When choosing the best method to use LoA, remember to focus on your feelings. What do I mean by this? Letâs say you wanna manifest a new phone and you read about the scripting technique. Do you feel good about doing it? Do you feel itâs not worth it? Do you feel itâs too much work? Do you feel excited and inspired to write everything you want as detailed as possible? Does it feel natural and effortless to do so? If you get good feelings about doing X or Y, you should go for it. Take into account that you could come up with a âmethodâ of your own and that would be just fine. You donât need to follow the steps by the book if they feel like a lot of work and you get no joy from them. Do what works for you.
One thing to keep in mind tho, itâs to pick one method for each desire. If you chose to do 55x5 to manifest a certain amount of cash, donât go and do the Two-Cup method for the same thing because that creates the belief that what you previously did, didnât work. Detach and let go. Donât overdo manifestations.
Can I manifest for someone else?
Yes, you can manifest for someone else IF that person wants the same thing as you want for them. You canât force anyone to do anything they donât want to.
Can I âmess upâ a manifestation? What happens if I forget to write a word or misspell it?.
The only person who can âmess upâ your manifestation is you and only you.
Your manifestations will not work if you:
Tell other people who do not believe in this stuff about your manifestations. Itâs best not to discuss this with people who are constantly putting you down.
Focus always on the negative side of life & things. Yes, shit happens and sometimes we canât control that shit but we can choose how to react to it.
Havenât worked on your negative/limiting beliefs about a certain topic you want to manifest. Example: money, love, etc.
Come from a state of lack. If you are always saying âI donât have X or Yâ, the Universe will keep giving you more of not having X or Y. Be grateful for what you had, have and will have. Act as if itâs already yours and you donât need to worry about it because it is yours. You have it.
Keep asking for reassurance about them from your guides/ tarot or any divination/guidance source.
Write your intentions to manifest when feeling doubts or fears.
Nothing happens if you misspell a word or forget to write it as long as you donât believe & feel it will mess up your manifestation. You can always add that word, or start over if you feel you âmessed upâ. If you were doing a method that takes various days to keep up the writing and you forget to write for one day, again: Nothing wrong happens.
This is what I could come up with for a basic âbeginnerâs guideâ about the Law of Attraction. These are the most common questions/topics I got in my askbox so I figured Iâll finally put them into one post for you to read. If thereâs something else that comes up, I will be updating this post.
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