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"with gifts, flowers, candle or love letters." But if they asked me on a deeper level, I would say I want to be loved in a way that feels safe. The kind of love where I don't have to overthink if it's real or temporary. I want consistency, someone who stays not just when it's easy or exciting, but even on quiet, ordinary days. I want to be understood without always having to explain every piece of myself. Someone who listens not just to reply, but to truly understand.

I want a love that chooses me every day, not only when it's convenient, but especially when it's hard. A love that doesn't walk away at the first sign of difficulty, but instead learns, grows, and stays. I want to be loved gently, honestly, and intentionally.

This is America. Because some I literally had to dig to find out their stories and what happened. Different deaths and causes but.. the media coverage has been minimal on all of them including the hangings While we hear about 47 and foolishness daily. Their lives mattered. Our lives still matter. Celebrate 4th of what?? Not every story becomes a national headline. Some of these individuals died in police encounters. Some were reported as suicides. Some died under tragic or still questioned circumstances. Some cases received brief local coverage and then faded from the public conversation. Regardless of how they died, every one of them was a human being with a family, dreams, and people who loved them. We don’t have to compare tragedies to acknowledge a painful truth: too many lives are lost without sustained attention, accountability, or remembrance. May we honor them by saying their names, seeking truth over speculation, and refusing to let compassion be selective. ~Gwendolyn

"Tonea Miller, a 27-year-old Black woman, was found lynched from a tree after traveling to Miami, to celebrate Juneteenth, the annual June 19 holiday that commemorates the emancipation of enslaved African Americans." Dade County Sheriff concluded her death was suicide! What Black woman would travel to Miami to celebrate Juneteenth, go to a wooded area and tie a heavy rope on a tree, climb the tree and place the noose around her neck and unalive herself?!