hiiii, so about jel/reth/hassian wedding headcannons~ :3c
preferably with a nonbinary partner
Aoi I so sorry this took genuinely 84 years but we're here nonetheless-
Mind you, I don't know anything about weddings of any culture.
Oh and basically all of my headcanon are gender neutral unless specifically asked for otherwise :P
First off, if his partner went with the tradition of not letting him see their outfit before the wedding it is torture to him.
He wants to see his muse in beautiful wedding attire so bad. He wants to bask in their elegance and beauty. He wants to take in every detail.
The other option is him design their outfit of course. He tends to their every whim and opinion. Every bead, every fold and ruffle, every cuff will be made just to their liking.
This is one of the few times he fully enjoys all the planning and prepping.
Even the food. Dragon Reth suffers because Jel keeps changing his mind on the dishes.
Tish also obviously helps with the decor.
Jel needs to be reminded it doesn't have to be "perfect". His partner tells him that all it needs to be perfect for them is him being there.
Oh and I just know the Omiata had like a family crest and Jel is absolutely enthralled with his partner wearing it. Especially after the wedding.
He'd also be thrilled if his partner took his last name. His family legacy is so important to him. He is thrilled to know his partner wants to be part of it.
Oh dragon, oh goodness gracious, save him. That man never even thought anyone would ever want to marry. Deep down he is still scared that he's gonna be left at the altar.
He becomes more and more clingy the closer it gets to the date.
He notices this himself tho.
Actually quite early on. He realizes that hes incredibly nervous about the entire thing.
So, he seeks out conversation with his partner.
He's a bit ashamed, he worries they'll think he doesn't trust them. But they assure him that if he wants they can just do all the planning and getting ready and the celebrations as a couple.
After this conversation he's a lot more at ease and actually having so much fun planning the wedding.
The whole gang is involved (Tish and Jel).
His favourites are late nights with everyone there and his partner in his lap sipping on some drinks just yapping about what colour the tablecloths should be.
Oh dragons. Oh my. He wants to follow literally all the traditions. He wants it to be "proper". But not only for Majiri customes, but also human customs.
He's so determined to do it right.
We all know he was a bit sensetive about the whole marriage thing after.... you know....
But his heart yearns for that bond. He wants it official and properly.
He wants people to know. He wants everyone to know his spouse is with him.
Tau is the ring bearer obviously.
He had a nightmare a chapaa stole the rings at one point.
Hassians partner does the first draft of a seating chart and they include Taylin which results in Hassian having to leave the room in order not to cry (/pos). He doesn't understand how they understand him so deeply. He never thought he'd ever feel this deeply connected to someone. Yet he does.