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A boy who wants to speak to you will message you, if he’s not messaging you then it’s probably because he doesn’t want to. He’s not asking you out on a date then it’s most likely because he doesn’t want to take you on one.   Calling you ‘crazy’ or ‘strange’ is his way of trying to make you feel like your feelings are unnecessary, don’t stay with someone who makes you feel stupid for having feelings. You never really know what he’s thinking so don’t for a second think you do because you’ll end up getting disappointed. A boy who truly likes you will never put himself in a position to lose you. Know when to walk away, you will find a boy who appreciates you. Don’t chase him, if he wants to leave let him. If he really did like you as much as you liked him he wouldn’t be walking away in the first place, remember that. There’s always someone else, they might not be right for you either but there will always be someone you find after them and eventually you’ll find the right person. Don’t ignore the red flags, if you think something isn’t right then trust your gut, you’re probably right anyway. If he likes you then he’ll want to talk to you and only you and will make an active effort to do so. “I’m not looking for anything serious right now” means “I’m not looking for anything serious with you”.   A boy who likes you will want to be with you.  If he tells you he’s going to bed but is then actively on social media then don’t dare message him the next day.   A boy who likes you will want to speak to you everyday, not once a week or whenever it suits him. Watch out for the boys who speak to you in their free time and the boys who’ll free their time to speak to you, it’s important to learn the difference. If he ignores any of your messages, whether they’re messages that have an answer to them or ones that could be ignored then he’s probably not interested. If a boy is interested in you then he’s going to message you back even if your last message was one he didn’t have to reply to, if he likes you he’ll want to talk to you. Actions will always speak louder than words, don’t believe anything he says unless he actively proves it with his actions. Boys say things they don’t mean.   Once it’s over walk away, he’s made it clear how he feels about you or rather how he doesn’t so leave it at that.

this is literally it. male idea of oppression is women not being sexually available to them when they want them to be. that’s why whiny internet men cry so much about the friend zone. this is literally it for them.