cowboy enthusiast and tragedy enjoyer

Sometimes you'll see a character that's not canonically aromantic but when you see them shipped with another character you think "ok this feels like aro erasure"

two characters who absolutely Will Not say "i love you" trying to tell each other that they love one another is so good actually. more of that please

torture the character some more. put her in her worst nightmare and don't let her out

do you want to play dead bodies with me

floats along your dash face down and quiet and cold

a feel like the new generation of fanfic readers NEED to understand that clicking on a fic (interaction) does nothing. ao3 has no algorithm. your private discord discussions of fic do not reach the authors. if you do not actively engage with writers they will stop posting. this isn’t social media this is community.

right before you have major life commitments is the perfect time to get into a new fandom

You deserve love now. Not once you lose weight. Not once you accomplish that thing. Not once you move. Not once you get on medication. Not once you start therapy. Not once you get that job. Not once you're more like them. Now. You don't have to earn the right to be loved. You deserve it right now, and always have.

the sexiest thing a man can be is only an extension of someone else. the sexiest thing a woman can be is angry. this is true

"just write a little every day" ok but what if i write nothing for 3 weeks and then suddenly type like i’m being hunted by god

being as i am an idiot, and having been one my whole life, i just wanna say that i find it very easy to do nothing, and go nowhere. i eat chocolate late at night in the dark. i stand in the garden also. and i’m often waiting for something to happen. and i’m stupid.

The BEST trope is when a character tells another “let’s run away together, we can leave all of this behind and start a new life somewhere” and gets rejected. And then the rest of the tragedy unfolds

making stuff is one of the best parts of being alive

Also being aroace does not exempt you from having to avoid unwanted advances, threats or cohersion, medical neglect, pressuring for uneccesary medical intervention and gaslighting, issues with bodily autonomy and reproductive resources, conversion therapy, bioessentialism, sexism, misogyny and issues with legal autonomy when it comes to things like home ownership estate planning, medical power of attourney and adoption.

Reblogging this chain during pride month because yeah