permanent hiatus

Y'all, it’s an app specifically for ace people.

They have so many choices in terms of romantic orientation, too!

“transromantic”

Cool! So y'all are just totally fine with chasers???????

You’re also having issues with people being attracted to femininity like that isn’t a real thing. That’s actually a more valid attraction that saying “I’m attracted to women” and if you’re a nonbinary person, what does “homosexual” even mean what doesn’t “heterosexual” even mean. If you’re a nonbinary person presenting more fem and you’re attracted to people both cis and nonbinary who also present femininely you can’t say you’re heterosexual or homosexual or pansexual or anything so gynoromantic.

but asexuality could easily be argued to not be a sexuality, but rather the spectrum of not having a sexuality. but in terms of it being a sexual orientation i would say it’s quite indisputable.

i feel it’s similar to, say being agender.. being agender is a gender identity/alignment, but i feel it’d be odd to say it’s a gender? maybe it isn’t.

anyway though, one can be asexual, asexuality is most indisputably a thing. it’s a very common identity, and being asexual is a completely normal thing.. independent of if you would could it a sexuality or not..

so to NB people with queer attractions: 

i love you 

you are not “basically straight” 

you are awesome

you don’t have to fit into a binary box for your attractions to be queer and valid

it’s ok if you’re still learning to love yourself because it’s hard

regardless of your appearance you are valid and your attractions and how you label them are valid

stay hydrated as best you can 

regardless of whether you lean masc, femme, in between, whatever other direction you want, or don’t have a direction at all, you are valid and your attractions and how you label them are valid

i hope you find money on the sidewalk and your favorite candy is on sale

i hope you get to pet a cute dog next time you go out

If your aroness or aceness stems from past trauma, you’re a valid aro or ace.

If your aroness or aceness is an integral part of who you are as a person, you’re a valid aro or ace.

If you have no idea what your aroness or aceness comes from, you’re a valid aro or ace.

using ‘queer’ because you like using something broad and non-specific

using microlabels because you like detail or organizing your identity

using a generally recognized label because you like people to hear it and immediately understand you

using something you made up because it means exactly what you want it to

using one specific term because you like having one specific identity

using a few terms because you like describing different parts or facets of your identity

using lots of terms because you like having different terms or because there are a lot of pieces of your identity you want to reference

not using any terms because you can’t find one you like or you’re still looking or you don’t like labels or you like being mysterious or you like describing things instead of naming them or it’s not anyone’s business or you just don’t understand labels or you can’t pinpoint your terms or there isn’t anything that describes you

Prideful Plant Puns!!!

I’ve been working on these since pride month, and I feel bad they weren’t finished in time but I’m so happy with how they turned out! These basically happened because I called my best friend a lesbean-sprout and she loved it so much I decided to draw the first one, and things kinda,,, escalated. 

I really hope you guys love them as much as I do!

They’re all available on my redbubble!!

So I did a thingy… It’s supposed to be that you can print this off on cardstock or something (1st pic front, 2nd pic back) and it’ll be a note card you can give people when they ask you questions about Asexuality. IDK if the lettering is too small, if it is, I’ll take off the back and make the front front and back

The back was kinda random based off of this post, and the responses were off the top of my head. If you want one like this, I can make you one on any topic (for free obviously)  (Asexual, Aromantic, Genderfluid, Transgender, Demisexual, Pansexual, etc.). I can also change around the format so if you want your own responses to questions, I can put that on there.

Feel free to add tags. Hope someone likes this!