Awareness

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Prior to project-solace-callout being made, a user who wants to remain anonymous was being groomed by DespairingRat who had a personal vendetta against princeleonis aka official-project-solace due to an incident with the victim in which said victim stated firmly not to mention the incident at all as they were handling it on their own. The partner sys of the victim's headmate (in black) can attest to this as shown in the screenshot below.

Vesper left the group chat soon after, only for Rat to call both Leonis and yellow censor groomers. Yellow censor being called a groomer over not accepting Rat's apology after he threatened to kill her and her family. Rat did not take accountability for any of the other abuse whatsoever. Someone in contact with the victims has shown Leonis the screenshot of Rat doing such so if he chooses to, he is able to verify this text portion of me telling you of the situation as I am not comfortable putting that one here.

This is not everything, but this was all from within the past 24 hours and is the only evidence yellow censor's headmate's partner system was willing to give us at this time.

^ "Why does animal jam let you say this."

Actively questioning.

Image they are claiming is pedophilia:

what the image is:

Vesper proceeding to not only insinuate abuse but then proceed to justify the abusive behavior. This is a reoccurring occurrence.

This is from research, it is officially referred to as "Narcissistic grooming" so as such that's how it will be posted. I do not agree with this term so in the future, it will exclusively be referred to as grooming.

Narcissistic grooming is a subtle psychological conditioning process where a manipulator—such as a romantic partner, parent, or boss—systematically breaks down your boundaries and builds emotional dependence. The goal is to make you easier to control, validate their ego, and accept abusive behavior. [1, 2]

This insidious manipulation typically unfolds in these key phases:

1. Love-Bombing (Idealization)

The relationship starts with intense, overwhelming affection. The narcissist showers you with praise, gifts, and undivided attention, making you feel as though you are soulmates. This creates a powerful, intoxicating emotional bond. [1, 2, 3]

2. Mirroring (Data Gathering)

During the "honeymoon" phase, the abuser pays close attention to your vulnerabilities, childhood wounds, and insecurities. They mirror your interests and values to make you feel completely understood, while actually collecting leverage to use against you later. [1]

3. Boundary Testing

The narcissist slowly pushes the limits to see what you will tolerate. They start with minor infractions—like invading your privacy or making a backhanded compliment—to gauge your reaction. If you don't push back, the offenses escalate. [1, 2, 3]

4. Isolation

To solidify control, they work to separate you from your support system. They may subtly criticize your friends, create drama with your family, or make you feel guilty for spending time away from them, leaving you entirely dependent on them for validation. [1, 2, 3]

5. Desensitization to Abuse

If you are reblogging our posts for any reason, please reblog this one first for further context.

Prior to project-solace-callout being made, a user who wants to remain anonymous was being groomed by DespairingRat who had a personal vendetta against princeleonis aka official-project-solace due to an incident with the victim in which said victim stated firmly not to mention the incident at all as they were handling it on their own. The partner sys of the victim's headmate (in black) can attest to this as shown in the screenshot below.

If you are reblogging our posts for any reason, please reblog this one first for further context.

Prior to project-solace-callout being made, a user who wants to remain anonymous was being groomed by DespairingRat who had a personal vendetta against princeleonis aka official-project-solace due to an incident with the victim in which said victim stated firmly not to mention the incident at all as they were handling it on their own. The partner sys of the victim's headmate (in black) can attest to this as shown in the screenshot below.