Oh oh ohhh, well thereâs quite a lot youâve overlooked here. (And tbqfh, it might be a great idea in the future if you DONâT tag your character hate with said characterâŠthe only people in his tag are fans. I direct you to this post in case you still donât understand.)
Tywin Lannister isâŠTywin Lannister. If that doesnât make you shudder with fear, well, it should. At this point in their lives, Tywin Lannister had obliterated two entire families and no one knows this better than his children. No one knows this better than his children because he spent days lecturing them about strength, legacy, and ruthlessness to the point that they adopted that identity for themselves. Tywin Lannister is a cold, calculating, ruthless guy and absolutely frightening. You know whatâs even more frightening? An infuriated, spited, shamed Tywin Lannister. Just picture it.
Do you really think gallant, brave to a fault/foolishness, does-everything-for-love Jaime would be moved to make such a lie by anything other than being completely scared shitless? And Jaime had every right to be, honestly. Tywin proves time and time again that he controls their lives and itâs pretty clear how devoutly his children fear him. (Otherwise how else would he have forced Tyrion into an unwanted marriage, and likely wouldâve done the same for Cersei should he lived?)
And if you watch that scene in episode 1x07 of Jaime and Tywin closely enough, youâd see how emotional he gets over daddy. Tywin has a predominant sway on all of his children. Profoundly. To the point it really fucks them up. Thatâs not to say Jaime couldnât have told Tyrion the truth, but it is certainly an intimidating factor.
Yes, Jaime lied. But it haunts him for the rest of his life and he expresses several times that he wished he wouldâve told him the truth by now. But yâknow, love is a funny thing. It would hurt Tyrion, it would turn him against the family, it would turn him against him; so itâs just not that simple. Selfish, yeah. Based on being unloving, no. We canât really say many of the Lannisters are selfless, either, can we?
Jaime actually releases Tyrion against Cerseiâs express wishes and Tywinâs implied wishes. This would get him a lot of shit â he does it anyway. No matter what you think are his intentions (which we donât ACTUALLY get, because the scene is in Tyrionâs POV, so your assumptions that he only does it out of guilt are a stretch, tbh) he still goes to free Tyrion risking the remaining relationships he has with his family. Maybe his life even, if his involvement got out. He also STILL releases him even after Tyrion has verbally wounded him in return, because he wants him alive. Ohhhhh, right!
Re: not sticking up to Cersei, well, this could be true. But unless Iâm mistaken (and I could be, Iâm no expert scholar on Tyrionâs chapters), there arenât any/many instances mentioned in which Cersei abuses Tyrion as a child in Jaimeâs presence. (The most specific thing I can remember is her tugging on his genitals as a baby, which Iâm sure she didnât bring Jaime along for.) And anyways, from what we know about Jaime, heâs not averse to telling Cersei sheâs overreacting or telling her to shut up. Theyâre very sibling-oriented that way. So if she DID send anything more than casual insults his way in front of Jaime, wouldnât it be very consistent with his character if he told her to cut it out, sheâs acting a fool? âŠyeah, seems like it to me. (Jaime repeatedly tells her in ASOS and AFFC that sheâs overreacting, jumping to conclusions, and being paranoid. He also hushes her in the same way during her Bran reactions. Likely heâs acted this way with herâŠforever.)
[[Honestly Iâm a little baffled at the hypocrisy/apologism here, because Tyrion does relatively the same thing. Once Jaime comes clean, Tyrion tells him a lie (that he killed his son) with the EXPRESS PURPOSE of HURTING him. Thatâs some good-brother-behavior for the guy who just saved your life, isnât it? The point is that their relationship is not that black and white. Itâs complicated. Like everything Lannister, really. But itâs textually evident that Jaime has a big bag of love for his bro, even if he doesnât show it like he should.]]
Yeah man, Jaime is not a good guy, but to say he doesnât love his brother or that he hasnât at the very least tried to be good to him whenever he could is a vast misunderstanding of his motives and his character. He is driven by love. All the time.