I'm here to bitch

I see a lot of hateful rhetoric on the internet. We are anonymous here and we trick ourselves in to thinking that means we can say and do anything without repercussions. There are a lot of conversations that happen on here that I do not believe would happen in real life if both parties were face to face.

This blog exists for when I see this hateful or harmful rhetoric and I want to call it out. This blog exists 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥. Here i will write posts where I disagree with people and what they say, professionally. My hope Is that the people I disagree with will read what I have to say and at the very least start to have more compassion for the other party I feel like they hurt, and at the very best change their mind.

I know that's a tall ask, and I know it's unrealistic. But I want to attempt to change the way we talk on the internet, and to be honest I need a healthy outlet for my anger that's actually constructive and I feel like benefits the world. I feel like when we have arguments on the internet it turns into a screaming match, where are both parties are hurt and angry and and has no constructive results. This often leads to waves of harassment that can become seriously dangerous. People threatening harm on others because they disagree with something on the internet. I think that's stupid. I'm here to put my energy into changing that.

If you disagree with me that is fine, but I will not respond to any harassment. I'm here to conduct an argument and if you disagree with it after I put a lot of work into writing it I don't think there's anything more I could say to convince you, so I probably won't speak much outside of my original argument.

I will be passionate in these arguments. I will be honest about what I feel and that does not mean I will always be nice. I will not attack people based on something irrelevant to the argument or impossible to change, like their looks for example. But may attack them based off whats relevant in the argument, like their actions.

Read these posts and these blogs with caution. I will try to tag everything correctly so all trigger warnings can be filtered.

If you ever want to recommend me drama, you can in the ask box. However the ask box will not always be open if I have essay I have planned already, or if im not in a good state of mind to deal with drama, or if i just posted an essay, because i dont want to deal with harrassment which anon is mostly used for. So anon will not be on very often. This is a hobby, and i have a busy life. Im not gonna be on here going back an forth of "im right! You're wrong" that is not a constructive argument and is a waste of time, health, and peace for both parties.

If you hate my guts, feel free to block me. I will do my best to not write about drama of the same person multiple times unless a reasonable amount of time has passed and i feel they really need to be talked about again. This blog is not a harrassment blog nor directed at one person.

I see mean shit online, i say "thats fucked up and here is why" and then i dissappear from that persons life.

I do not condone harrassment. I do not want you sending death or dox threats to either party. EVER. If you do, you are an immature child directly causing the harm im activity attempting to eliminate. And i dont want you on my blog. I will block you if i find out who is doing it.

The goal here is 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴, harrassment and bigotry and hate LITERALLY goes against that goal. So do not fucking do that. Even if you hate them, even if you think they are a bad person, harrassment is legitimately useless and helps no one. There is a difference between calling someone out and saying "hey this was fucked up" and you spamming death threats on anon. Grow the fuck up.

Im hear to have an adult conversation, to a human being. One i believe is flawed, but not irredeemable. If we tried to eradicate everyone we hated, no one on this planet would be left. What you say on here MATTERS. What you say on here can cause direct harm or threat to life.