Rilindja

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

♡ thank yourself for holding on and surviving ♡

when it comes to feeling stuck, it's important to not become fascinated with your vision/goals/wants, and to prioritize small actions that will lead to consistency

and to be self-forgiving, not despondent, when big wants do not come to fruition. big things are tied to big risk, so isn't it only natural that big things will be the hardest to get?

you can’t believe what you think about yourself after sundown and you can’t believe what you think about yourself on your period and you can’t believe what you think about yourself when you’re hungry and you can’t believe what you think about yourself when you’re tired, the only time you can believe what you think about yourself is the split second after you’ve made someone laugh but only if it’s something other than “i should be a standup comedian”

and when will there be a friday when i AM in love? When.