What do you consider to be the 10 most important rules a feedee must follow in order for you to achieve your goal together?
In a general sense these first ten rules apply to most feeder\feedee relationships, these ten ten rules are the same as with a non feederism relationships and I would list them as
7) She must genuinely get aroused and horny when being submissive to a dom who tells her what to eat and chug and gain similar to BDSM stuff but only about weight gain and eating.
8) A full understanding of the consequences and advantages that such a drastic life change towards weight gain over 30 or 40 lbs that will accelerate and draw concern and judgement from family and friends yet regardless doesn't diminish her genuine desire for death feederism and extreme dark feederism I love so much especially the absolute understanding and acceptance of the reality of life too fat to move. Unable to move to the restroom from a combination of hundreds of lbs of fat and a perpetually stuffed stomach so full that barely a touch will cause pain, nausea, and sometimes a soft gag. That lifestyle I believe can be amazing, but lots of work has to be done and an absolute awareness of good and bad must be present before making that leap. hat gets aroused when being told to do things by her feeder in a quasi BDSM sense, as in, making her finish her food full or not.
9) A firm financial and employment and family stability situation, to provide stability and a future with protection, anything to keep my feedee safe, secure, happy, and leading a life as fulfilling as possible while still immobile and gaining.
10) An understanding that death feederism is so sexy to a point, a man can eat himself to death from heart disease without even gaining much weight, and a 600 lb woman can have a fine heart, but massive amounts of excess fat overwhelming her body. So, focus on the weight gain, and the death feederism indulge in carefully, and if my feedee was already huge and truly wanted to die from a weight related issue, that she would have to feed herself over that particular finish line, as that sub-kink is as sexy as it is dangerous.
Those are true for many of the feederism couples ive read about or met, but there are other rules that would if not followed derail the goals that are more personal and vary from couple to couple.
For instance, if you are asking about the rules a feedee in order to reach my goals which ideally we would share, are more specific and many are very negotiable as love is something I must feel for my feedee and being willing to compromise another foundational pillar means that the pleasure and fun can be maximized for us both via good communication and a give and take.
But one thing I would be sad to give up as a goal is pursuing a booming modeling career, I would give up this dream if my feedee so wished it, without a second thought.
For the truth is no sacrifice I could possibly make would come close to my lovely girlfriend willingly eating herself to a level of overweight that would be seen as severe and changing at a scary fast rate. dangerous and scary degrees of overweight and sacrifice a fundamental ability all humans share (walking) potentially for the rest of her life, or at least never without at least 1 or 2 helpers which is immobility and more as the endgame, and the building of a successful and large business around my feedee making professional feedee content as a full time job and stay at home making stuffing content and funnel chugging content, tight clothes try ons, weigh ins, gain challenges and calorie challenges etc., livestreams with tips triggering food to be eaten, and customs all of which would help fund my feedee in her gaining, and all would have in addition to all the modeling binges, also all the food I wish to feed her when I am home from work.
They would also need to be naturally highly submissive and obedient (within reason and safety), and give up control of food consumption and weight gain amount and speed to me. They would also need to be in love with me, and me with them and be absolutely sure and determined they want to be on the path to helplessly fat and unable to move or escape. They would have to understand and accept that once immobile it would be nearly impossible to reverse, and health issues would be a constant thing to manage.
would have to adhere to in order for my own personal feeder dream goals are, well, thats different.
