idk infj

Hi, this is so overdue and I am so late and sorry and AAHHAHAHAHHAAH. I’m sorry about doing this so late but not sure if this will still help anymore. 

Well reserved and reserved is fine. I think the first thing to do is to get to know him better (I be Captain Obvious). So maybe hang around him more and find similar interests. ISFPs generally keep their true selves hidden in a way, so the key is to not get frustrated I guess. You have to be patient as always and get to know him and his interests. Probably be accepting as well and caring too. It takes time for a loyalty and friendship to develop, especially when both of you, both types are reserved. ISFPs are generally conscious about being judged, especially in an extroverted world, so never pressure or force them to do anything they don’t want to. To approach him (if this still helps anymore), probably only with him and by himself. I guess don’t make it too awkward or pressurizing in a way, for you and for him. Casual conversation, possibly about college topics of some sort too, don’t rush things. Comfortable could be the key word. 

For both types, as you get to know each other you start to notice more things about them and their secrets, possibly even their negative sides that both types try to hide in the beginning. From then on, I guess it’s up to you to decide on how everything goes from there.

As for INFJ/ISFP relationships, I believe anything will work. As said above, but types are quite reserved in general and start showing their true selves after a while so yea.

I have a cousin who I believe is an ISFP based on my own typing. I know him the most and hang around him the most, and he is just a wonderful person (no sarcasm). We play lots of video games, honestly basically only video games together and we share very similar interests and our personalities are quite similar too. I guess that’s what makes everything works; we are both loyal to each other and let each other make decisions. Example:

Me: So uh what do you wanna do now?

Him: Idk what do you wanna do?

Me: Idk, it’s up to you.

Him: Idk, you choose.

(Repeat process)

Coz I’m a liar and I never updated. But on a serious note it’s been 3 months of silence on this blog and I’m not sure anymore. I have been dealing with stuff, emotions, pressure, stress, expectations. I think it’s time to get back and do this for real now and get life back on track. Dealing with anxiety and disappointment in myself, disappointment at life right now is....a struggle. 

Hi, this situation seems to be up to you. If it were to me, this would be up to what you valued and how it would affect you. If you find that being friends or becoming friends with him is a struggle, then maybe some things aren’t meant to work out. 

First of all, does he even want to be friends? Sometimes, I find that there are people that just don’t like you no matter what you do, and that’s just how it is. I’m not telling you to give up, but there are times you can’t do anything about it. It could end up with a funny friendship in the end if all this works out though :)

However, from what it seems like your view on him seems like there are lots of things about him that bug you. It doesn’t seem like much of a debate from my perspective and what you’ve described too. There are quite a few things that bother you. But, don’t let my opinion get in the way. If you’re passionate about this friendship, then find a way to work past this and believe in yourself!

Welp, I guess you have a vague idea of what this is, but THANK YOU FOR 1000 FOLLLOOWERERERSSSS!!!!! Yea the spam isn’t necessary but (cliche alert) words can’t express how much happiness I feel right now. I’m a little delayed on this message but yea, sorry about that. Truly, I thank everyone for sticking with me, and spending time and sharing posts <3 Thank you so much!

As for updates, I haven’t been keeping up much with the blog a lot or answering asks much and I’m sorry about that :( I’ll try to answer the asks as many as I can but I really don’t want to give a cheap ass answer so I need some time to write them too and sometimes work and time doesn’t permit blargh. I’ll definitely try and make some time though so don’t worry! If you ever want to talk or message or having a rough day, feel free to message me @camokroala.

INFJs play nice if you play nice. Simple as that, or not? If you treat them badly, they’ll treat you badly. If you are encouraging and nice, they’ll return the favour and be nice too. If you argue with them nonstop, well let’s not delve into that....

I have been an idiot the entire time and welp apparently you can’t message on group blogs. I have a friend on the blog who really helped me out when the blog was new and honestly, this blog wouldn’t have been started without her. 

So from now on, communication through messages can be through my personal blog @camokroala. There’s not much on the blog, frankly nothing so yea.

Some are true and some are false. Some are stereotypes. I guess that’s up to the person.

-The doorslam  :P

-Psychic

-Cool with majority of types and people   @(^_^)@

-Private and secretive  ಠ_ಠ

-Perfectionist

-Willing to do anything for friends   (ʘ_ʘ)

-Provide good advice

-Always want to help people out

-Sensitive and feely  [‘ᴥ’]

-Are good at everything and set high standards

-Pretty smart and creative  ^_^

-Are Gandhi or always represented as Gandhi

follow other people’s instructions?