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Just a few ideas of teases, jokes, taunts, and exciting promises to your little one to make them as blushy, little, and regressive as possible.

"I love you, too... but I still think you need to stay little a bit longer. Don't worry, I'll take care of you, little one!"

"Aww, you LOVE being mine, don't you? Come on, you can tell me."

"Who's my good little baby, huh? Is it you? Who's my blushing baby, hmm?" (Extra points if you peel their hands back when they cover their face)

"Well, I think my little angel might need a diaper bag, hmm? Are you big enough to hold it, or should i?"

"That's ok baby, I know you can't handle all those big adult things. That's why I made you my little baby again, isn't it, huh?"

"I love you, but I don't think you're ready to be big quite yet.. maybe if you're very, very good I can give you a shot at pullups... but not quite yet!"

"Does somebody need a trip over my lap? Somebody just needs a spanking to know how to be good for me?"

"Awww, you don't like being babied? But you seem VERY excited down here..."

"Hey hey hey, hands off unless you need mittens! Maybe you need those hands protected..."

"What, do you get EMBARRASSED thinking people can see you be my cute baby? Huh? Well... good. I love when my sweetie is nice and blushy!"

"I just love how cute you look when you're feeling nice and snuggly"

"We should get dinner somewhere nice. Do you need extra layers, or do you think you can hold your potty like a big girl/ big boy?"

"Now honey: I know you want to be big, but I'm just not sure yet. Don't you just love your stuffies, and being a good little one? Hmm? Exactly! No more of that silly 'big boy/girl' talk"

"Awww, i just love seeing you so cute and baby brained!"

"Well SOMEBODY needs an early bedtime... and I don't think it's the (big girl/big boy), or the (mommy/daddy), do you?"

"I just love how SWEET you are when you're all little and needy for me. I might have to keep you this way..."

"I just love it when you get all cute and blushy for me baby. Come on... show me those cute blushy cheeks! There they are!!"

"Awww, you LOVE it when I talk all cute and condescending, don't you little cutie?"

"Please, now, come along or do I need to show all these nice people what it looks like when you get a spanking, huh?"

"Good baby: I love finding you already nice and little for me!"

"Awww, is somebody blushing? Come on, you don't need to hide from me!"

"Oh silly, nobody cares that you're a crinkle pants, and I'm sure nobody will notice anyhow!"

"Don't you want to be my good baby? Hmm? Or do you need a STRICTER caregiver, huh?"

"Are you wet again already? Really? Did somebody go potty in their diapee, huh?"

"Well who could have known: a Wet diapee? I guess I was right to keep you nicely padded, wasn't I sweetheart?"

"Nobody will care, baby: you just let me worry about that, no reason for babies to worry!"

"Seems like SOMEONE really enjoys being my helpless little crinklebutt, huh?"

"Aww, don't hide that face! I need to see you being all flustered and cute!"

"Nope nope nope! We can't possibly leave until you've used the potty, and shown me your nicely wanted hands, little one!"

I'll add more as they jump to mind, but feel free to add your own and your favorites!

•Generally baby them

•Lots of petnames (baby, little one, prince/ss, etc)

•Don't let them do things for themselves (cook for them, tie their shoes, get them their drinks, etc.)

•Do things like hold their hand while you're walking, help them down and up stairs, carry them if you can, etc.

•Tell them how teeny they are. (ex. "You're such a cute little baby", "aw, is someone feeling small", "my little one", etc)

•Encourage their little space. It goes a long way

•Get them their little things. A stuffie, paci, bottle, etc. Anything that helps them feel small.

•Pick out their outfits for them or help them pick out their outfits

Diaper pats

Forehead kisses

Back rubbies

Frequent infantilization

Bedtime snuggles

After work babying and regression

Morning cuddles

Nini stories

Cute hand holding

Gentle teasing

Cute reminders

Diapee checks/ potty checks

Paci or thumb for suckling

Holding hands to cross the street

Being dressed, instead of choosing yourself

Diapee/ pull up changes... especially extra blushy ones

Stuffies, all the stuffies

Bath or shower time!

Bath/ shower TOYS!

Constant regression!!

And thank you for reading my silly baby thoughts!

When you give her an instruction, don’t be overly polite.

Don’t say:

“Would you please hand me that book?”

“Could you please get me a coffee?”

“Would you mind handing that newspaper to me?”

See, in your girl’s mind, those are decisions to be made.  “Would I please?” “Could I?”  “Would I mind?”

Decisions like these complicate her world and the last thing she needs is more complications in her life.

At the same time, manners are important and by using them, you’re setting the politeness bar for her.

Instead of the above, try:

“Please hand me that book.”

“Get me a coffee, please.”

“Hand that news paper to me, doll.”

See?  Much simpler.  No decisions to be made, no thinking involved.  Easy, concise instructions make her head clearer and her heart lighter.

So when you give her an instruction, don’t leave anything to chance.  A short, memorable command - not request - is what she needs to hear.

And she’ll obey without question.

☁️ you are never a burden to anyone ! Not your friends , not your partner , not your family , not your caregiver , or anyone just because you’re a tiny bab 🤍

🌱 your regression is never dirty or gross . Your valid in your regression if you wanna cry , if you wanna scream , if you wanna fuss . Your valid . Regression isn’t always happy ! Mine isn’t always happy either . And that’s okay !! You’re valid in how you cope little loves 🤍

🐭 once you regress there’s never pressure to age up again . You do that when YOU are ready and it’s safe to do so

☁️ no one is going to take away your things ( I.E toys , comfort stuffs ) they’re with you and that’s where they’ll always stay !

🌱 it’s okay to have boundaries when small . And it’s okay to express those boundaries with your carer , Sibbies , frens , trusted person !

🐭 it’s okay to have outbursts ! You’re not scary ! I have them too !

☁️ it’s perfectly okay to ask your carer to hold you , to give you attention , etc . If they can’t right that second or are busy doing adult things that doesn’t for any second mean they don’t care , or they don’t love you ! They love you always ! 🤍

🌱 no one hates you ! Or your regression !

Since the first post seemed well received, here are a few more!

If you're planning meals, plan two different types: a normal adult one for you, and one for your partner with nothing but soft and easy-to-eat things like soup, applesauce, and milk.

Get them a water bottle with a spout or bite valve, and playfully refer to it as their "sippy cup."

Give them a sticker or gold star for doing simple things like washing the dishes.

Ask if they had a stuffed animal when they were little or would like one; if so, find one and tuck it beside their pillow every night for bedtime.

Try storytime together: reading aloud in bed. Even if it's not a super babyish story, the closeness and atmosphere will likely tickle them and put them in Little space.

Message them during the day and casually ask if they're being a good boy/girl/baby.

If you're going to be away from them for awhile, lay out rules about what they should wear while you're away. Bonus points if you prohibit them from wearing adult underwear.

Wondering how on earth to combine diapers and sex? Think of it as a wearable condom that keeps everything nicely locked away, for starters. And if you're comfortable doing so, try massaging their padded crotch or grinding on them when they're padded and watch what happens. (Warning: Grinding on a diapered partner can be super addicting!)

Try giving them your fingers to suck on during cuddles or sexy time.

Do they grind their teeth during the night from stress? Give them a pacifier at bedtime and tell them it's for their own (teeth's) good!

1. Dumb- This is a good place for any daddy (or mommy) to start properly training and regressing that special little girl in their life. It’s important to set the right expectations early on, so there’s less confusion later when they try to use their brains for something they used to be able to do when they were big girls. Trying to grasp those concepts once they’ve been regressed will be like grabbing a fistful of sand from their sandbox; slowly slipping through their fingers because you were smart enough to ensure that they became your dumb, mindless, empty-headed baby that now primarily exists to please daddy. You took away all the objects, all the little reminders, all the responsibilities and opportunities and the worries of her ever being a big girl that she had been in the past. “That was just a silly dream,” you’ll tell her. Gone is her makeup, her jewelry, her cellphone, her car, her grownup clothes. Lost forever is the free will to put whatever she wants on tv, to eat whatever she chooses, to dress how she wants, to go to bed when she wants, the ability to make even the tiniest, smallest little decisions in her life have been removed. Replacing all of those yucky adult problems are the items and ideas more suitable for a baby to have. She can have some plastic play jewelry and make-believe makeup, a nice pink squishy toy cellphone, and a childish steering wheel that attaches to her carseat so she can pretend she’s driving just like daddy does. Beep beep! Look out for that crazy baby driving with the drooly chin and vacant smile on her face! Dress pants are replaced with shortalls and overalls covered with flower prints and Disney character patches, anything considered “sexy” replaced with the most modest and babyish attire, little sailor dresses and onesies and footed pajamas galore. Disney Princess t-shirts, and ruffled socks, the choices are endless. The most embarrassing panties can stay, as you’ll need those later for another key component of proper regression. Everything else is replaced with thick, thirsty diapers, disposable and cloth alike, training panties and plastic panties. The television should be restricted to only play children’s programming, and I don’t mean anything for teens. Sesame Street, Blue’s Clues, Dora The Explorer, Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood, Baby Einsteins…only shows and movies that would be appropriate for a baby no older than 1. She needs to be protected from the harsh realities of being an adult, so you can’t take any chances that she might accidentally turn on something ridiculous like the news or see something disturbing on the internet. All of that’s controlled by daddy now, so he decides what’s best for the baby to see and hear and know. Eventually her big girl brains will start to atrophy, and you’ll have a compliant piece of Play-Doh for you to mold as you wish. Having all those decisions and responsibilities taken away will force her mind to seek engagement elsewhere, and the only thing left available to her will be the simplicity of an infant’s life, eventually succumbing to the stupidity of it all, as you’ve successfully gaslighted her into believing she’s not a big girl, she’s never been a big girl, and she’s never going to be a big girl.

In our relationship we have days in which I might fully or partially regress. We call these 'Little days'. On a little day I might be dressed up in baby clothes, fed all my meals and play all day long. Or we might go out on child like trip to the zoo. Obviously not everyday can be a 'Little day', partially because we have plenty of adult life we enjoy together and partially because Mummy is a switch, so it's fun to indulge her every now and then by swapping roles in the dynamic. However, @littlekittengirliepie is the sweetest Mummy ever for all the little things she does to subtly indulge my abdl side, even if I'm being completely big for the day. Here are just ten of them:

Mummy keeps me in diapers 24/7: Okay, so I admit that committing to wearing diapers 24/7 isn't a small thing. However, it has formed a sort of shared secret in our relationship that's created a bond. For example, I go to work like a normal adult, I hang out with friends like a normal adult, I shop like a normal adult but all the while Mummy knows I'm secretly wearing my diapers for her. I imagine it's a similar sense of submission is felt people who wear collars or other accessories of kink subtly in public. Before me and Mummy started living together, my diapers were also a comforter to me, a constant daily reminder that even though she wasn't with me, Mummy was always looking after me.

Diaper pats: If diapers are the ultimate tool for reminding me that I'm always Mummy's little girl 24/7 (even in adult head space) then diaper pats are that alarm bell that you habitually wake up 5 minutes before but wait to get out of bed until it goes off regardless. Mummy usually give me a diaper pat on the bum at least once a day in the privacy of our apartment just as a check to see if I'm soggy and need a change, however I've been patted in lots of public settings too. Casual groping goes both directions in our relationship 😁, but as I'm the one in diapers 24/7, it's usually a reminder of that difference between us and the powerplay.

Mummy picks out my diapers: Surrendering choice and control is a really significant thing for me when regressing. So I love the very simple thing of letting Mummy pick which diaper I'll be wearing when she changes me. A word of caution though, this has gradually lead me to being in thicker, more babyish diapers day-to-day. I can scarcely believe that when I started wearing 24/7 it was in medical diapers.

Mummy expects me to use my diapers: You are probably thinking that I've already told you I'm 24/7, using them goes hand in hand. There is little more to it though. Back when I was expected to work in an office everyday, I used to be able to send Mummy a text and request to use the potty if I needed. We'll, I've been working at home this year and Mummy no longer sees the need for me to be using the potty since she's always on hand to clean me up. I ask anyway because she used to let me away with it sometimes but the answer is "you can use your diaper." This one moment I'm fully in adult space working away at my desk, the next I'm in the other room filling my diaper. Nothing makes me fe more little that toddling back to Mummy in a messy nappy to tell her I need a change 🙈.

Sippee cup: Mummy bought be a lovely one for Christmas with the world's 'Mummy's baby' printed on it. If she is making us juice, she will often give me it in the sippee cup rather than an open cup or glass. Yesterday it was left out on the draining board (because we use it so frequently) and I think a friend spotted it. Oops 🙈. Oh well, who's to say they ever join the dots?

Mummy very occasionally spanks me: I'm not a naughty little girl so I don't think I've ever been held over Mummy's knee until I've been kicking and crying. In fact, dare I say it, I think I spank harder than her 🙊 Despite this, I can be a cheeky little girl and this earns me the occasional swat on the bum to remind me to be good. To be honest, I couldn't avodocate spanking as a technic in real parenting, but it's certainly fun between concenting adults!

Bathtime!: If I'm having a 'Little' day, I might have toys and foam letters to play with if I'm having a bath. Otherwise, on more adult days, it's just a lovely gesture for mummy to give up some of her time to bathe me and offer TLC.

Mummy coos me: When we're watching TV in the evening Mummy will coo me and tell me I'm her precious baby. Tbh I'm a little dissapointed in myself that sometimes I'm too tired or adult minded to reciprocate to it but appreciate Mummy for it never the less because if I am in a 'Little' mood, it's something that helps guide into the head space.

Mummy communicates: I think the tumblr abdl community is pretty clued into the notion that communication is important in a kink dynamic. I'll simply comment that Mummy has always been very good about it. She knows how to let me ventre a little out of my comfort zone whilst maintaining an invisible safe net.

Mummy cuddles me to sleep: Every night she invites me to lay my head across her chest and cuddles me to sleep. It's a lovely bonding experience which makes me feel small because my head will naturally be resting lower than hers. I almost always fall asleep on her and she will briefly wake me and let me roll over to my side of the bed.

Bound to be a baby