i am yagit

— Hank Green, A Beautifully Foolish Endeavor

F**k what others think. Be you. And remember: love is love.

— just-useless-things

Halatang okay kana, walang bakas ng kahit na anong pag iwan sa iba. Ikinasaya mo yan ah? Mukhang sanay ka sa ganyan. Walang pasabi basta na lang hiyaan mangyari ang lahat. Kung sana nakapagready din ako. Pero mukhang yun ang mas kaya mo. Salamat sa lahat at kahit papano may natutunan ako. Yun ang mas maging masaya nalang sa naging desisyon mo. Mejo plastik to. Pero yun naman talaga e totoo. Ang gulo ko ano? Pero eto talaga. Tangina mo.

Essena O'Neill has decided to quit social media — and, in the process, expose how what we see isn’t always what it seems. O’Neill has deleted nearly 2,000 of her photos, what remain have new captions explaining how she really felt when taking it, what it took to get the shot and how much she was paid. In a powerful confession video, she explains why she had to do it.

Day 1: Introduce yourselves! What are your names, and ages and what do you both look like? Day 2: Where do you both live, how many miles apart are you, and what’s the time difference? Day 3: How long have you two been together? Day 4: What was your first impression of him? Day 5: How did you meet? Tell us your story! Day 6: How often do you see each other in person? What about over video chats? Day 7: What was it like the first time you two talked? Day 8: Do you two have a song, or a song that reminds of you of them right now? Day 9: What are your favorite pictures of each other? Day 10: What do you hope for your relationships in the future? Day 11: Name 5 random things about your partner! Day 12: How did you tell your family and friends about your relationship? We’re they supportive? What about your partner? Day 13: What are some things you two have in common? Day 14: What was your first kiss like? If you haven’t kissed yet, what do you think/hope it will be like? Day 15: What are your favorite things to do together when you’re apart? Day 16: Name something your partner dislikes about themselves but you love! Day 17: Have you ever watched a movie together? Which one(s)? Which ones would you like to watch together? Day 18: If you started your relationship online and then met, what is one thing you noticed that was different that you hadn’t noticed before you met? Day 19: Have you ever given them something of yours? What was it? Day 20: Post a .gif that you feel represents your relationship! Day 21: If you haven’t met yet, what’s the first thing you’re going to do together? Day 22: What do you think are important qualities for two people to have in a long distance relationship? Day 23: What is your favorite memory together? Day 24: What are both your dream careers? Day 25: What is something he/she does to purposely annoy you (regardless that it makes you smile)? Day 26: Do you have any nicknames for each other? Day 27: How long was the longest time you’ve ever not been in contact for? Why did that happen? Day 28: Describe the look of your dream apartment/house together! Day 29: Do you remember what you were both wearing the first time you video chatted (or saw each other)? Day 30: If you two could go anywhere in the world together where would it be and why? Day 31: Describe his/her personality in 6 words! Day 32: How are you able to afford trips to see each other? Do you find this aspect of the relationship challenging? Day 33: Post a photo of something sweet they’ve messaged you/mailed you! Day 34: What are some negative impacts you feel distance has made on your relationship? Day 35: What is your favorite thing to hear him/her say to you? Day 36: Share the story behind one of your inside jokes! Day 37: What do you think your first meeting will be like? Day 38: What is the most romantic thing they have done for you, and what’s the most romantic thing you’ve done for them? Day 39: Plan on getting any pets together? Which ones? Day 40: Have you ever broken up? Why? How long did it last? Day 41: What do you both mostly argue about? Day 42: If you’ve been together in-person for an anniversary how did you two celebrate the day? If not how would you want to celebrate it? Day 43: What is your favorite physical feature of theirs? Day 44: What are your partners turn on/offs? Day 45: When did you two first say “I love you”? If you haven’t said it yet, how do you think it will happen? Day 46: Post of photo of you together (if you don’t have one physically together post one from a video chat)! Day 47: What is the reason you and your partner aren’t physically together right now? Day 48: What are the most common means of communication that you two use? Day 49: What are some positive impacts you feel distance has made on your relationship? Day 50: What is your and his/her favorite movie? Day 51: What are your biggest fears in this relationship? Day 52: What’s the longest phone/video call you’ve ever had? Day 53: Have you ever talked about your past together? How did that go? Day 54: Is there anything you regret in this relationship? Day 55: What is the most interesting thing your partner has ever told you? Day 56: Do you watch the same television shows? Which ones? Have you watched them together, or would you like to? Day 57: What is the most important thing in a relationship to you? Day 58: What makes you feel better about the distance when you’re down about it? Day 59: What do you think are the biggest obstacles in your relationship? Day 60: Where do you see your relationship in 5 years? Day 61: Describe your dream date! Day 62: Does your partner still give you butterflies? Day 63: Do you play any games together? If so, which ones? If not, why? Day 64: Do you think your partner has a good sense of style? Would you change anything about how he/she dresses? Day 65: What is something you two always say to each other? Day 66: Have either of you ever made dinner together (in person or over video chat)? What was it? If not, would you ever? What do you think you would cook? Day 67: Share a cute story!! Day 68: What’s the most embarrassing moment you’ve ever had together? Day 69: What are you most excited to experience together? Day 70: Do you have high expectations for your next or first visit with him/her? Day 71: How do you cheer him/her up when his/she is sad? Day 72: What are some gifts you’ve given your partner, and what has he/she given you? Day 73: What would be the breaking point that wold make you end your relationship? Day 74: What do you like most about them? Day 75: Do you believe in soul mates? Do you think your partner is/could be your soul mate? Day 76: Has being with your partner made you a better person? Day 77: How does he/she cheer you up when you’re sad? Day 78: List 6 things you absolutely adore about your partner? Day 79: What are some things you see in your everyday life that reminds you of your partner? Day 80: What do you think is the most important quality for two people to have in a long distance relationship? Day 81: What was the most emotional moment for the two of you? Day 82: Do you know any stories from his/her childhood? Share one? Day 83: What do you enjoy about being in a long distance relationship? Day 84: If suddenly, you could be with your partner for the next three hours, what would you do together? Day 85: If you had to describe to someone what being in this type of relationship is like, what would you tell them? Day 86: What do you hope the future holds for the both of you? Day 87: What are at least five things you really want to do together when you see each other in person?! Day 88: If you had to promise one thing to your significant other right now, what would that be? Day 89: Have you guys ever talked about your future together? What was the conversation like? Day 90: Congratulations for completing this thing for 90 days!! Good on you. For the last question, what advice would you give to other couples?

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