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Your feelings and symptoms can never appear out of thin air, or of your own doing. If you’re hurt over it, it was bad. If you can’t stop debating it inside of your head, it was extremely significant to you. If you have trauma symptoms over it, it was traumatic. If you’re crying your heart out over it, it was awfully painful to you. Nobody can tell you how something was for you or what you should be feeling, it’s your feelings alone that show you just how much something affected you.

 I’ll never know. I’ll never know how I affected my family, how my friends are doing, what I could’ve accomplished, what I could’ve experienced.– Guest Submission

Support long distance relationship

Believe long distance relationships can work

Are in a long distance relationship

Signs that you’re living in abuse:

Behavioral patterns of living in abuse

Was I abused? Checklist

Not knowing you are a victim

Signs your family is abusive

Making excuses for your abusive parents

Experience of living in secrecy

What they taught you was abuse

Emotional experiences of living in abuse

Shame and guilt: how abused children feel

What makes parents abusers (actions)

Have I been manipulated into believing abuse was my fault? Checklist

Am I being held hostage by abusers? Checklist

You are not allowed to mention the past

Why you still love abusive parents

Parental behaviour that isn’t normal

Shit parents aren’t supposed to say to you

Experience of “not belonging anywhere”

Red flags for abusive parents

Healthy vs Abusive Chores

Was my childhood abusive or just had some bad parts?

Rules always change (unpredictable environment is abusive)

Breakdown of abusive parent’s behaviour:

“This is my house” rule

Start living in the real life!

Why all the children aren’t abused equally in an abusive home

Common abuser hypocrisies

Do your parents want you to be happy or look happy?

Why do they try to convince you that you’re worthless

Why do they pretend you’re a burden? Controlling behaviour

Why your abusers are not good people

Abusive parents are keeping you in false hope they’ll change

Are your parents preventing you from succeeding?

Abusive parents pretending “it wasn’t that bad”

Double Bind (why every choice you make ends wrong)

Incorporating trauma in raising children

Abusers will not allow you to call them out on abuse

Signs your parents are narcissistic:

Stuff delusional narcissists say

Shit narcissistis parents say

Recognizing emotional immaturity of narcissistic parents

Examples of narcissistic behaviours

Being punished for growing up by narcissistic parents

What children of narcissists go thru

Signs you’ve been thru sexual abuse:

CSA (Childhood Sexual Abuse) Symptoms

Signs you might have endured CSA

Was I sexually abused by adults as a child? Checklist

Signs of abusive friendship/relationship:

How to tell if a friend is not a friend

Am I in an abusive relationship/friendship? Checklist

Manufacturing insecurities

Red flags for abusers

Have I been thru social abuse? Checklist

You can recognize abusers by how they make you feel

How abusive childhood teaches you to stay in abusive relationships

Recognizing abusive friendship

Signs you’re struggling with trauma

Trauma processing information

Experiences of traumatized children

Signs you’re recovering from long term abuse

Things abuse survivors think/say

Thoughts of victims of child abuse

Your brain on trauma

How long term childhood abuse develops into complex trauma (comic)

can i apologize in advance for basically everything i will ever do

i eat cake everyday because i know somewhere out there, it’s someone’s birthday

i give up on school already

its hard being hilarious when everyone ignores you

i’m happiest when left alone with internet connection and food

can i just sleep for a year or two

i wonder how many calories I burn when I run away from my problems

i don’t want feelings, i want new clothes

i initially planned on being a casual fan, but then I thought, “why not just let it consume my soul instead? “

no mom i already have a job its called being hardcore

sure relationships are cool but have you ever tried stuffed crust

schools have stairs so you can throw yourselves down them

“true beauty is within” for example opening your fridge

i wish i was a cute youtuber but im boring and bad at everything

you guys should start talking to me now before i become famous

hey date me // free 2 week trial

*intensely doesnt care*

team i don’t know what i’m doing with my life

sometimes i actually get my shit together but then i lose it again like 2 days later

wanna make a secret handshake it involves us touching our mouths together for three hours

never trust a person that screenshots everything

wearing all black today to mourn the death of my motivation

if we hate the same people we’re already friends

I dont hate you, i just… nevermind i hate you.