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i believe there already is one by someone else!!

If I ever met my clone we'd definitely want to cuddle but I hate being the little spoon and we would both want to be the big spoon and it wouldn't work very well. Sadness.

i guess this is the one time it's a good thing for us cloning doesn't exist lolz (but consider laying facing each other, like the opposite of spooning but so both people are more like the big spoon)

Hi! I had 2 questions I only realized I was autosexual/romantic a few days ago- I always thought being attracted to yourself was a regular part of being attracted to your own gender, and only just realized that’s not the case. How have people reacted so far when you came out to them? Also, is there any autosexual/romantic community that you know of? I’d love to talk to others like me and get some solidarity. I’m glad I found your blog, it’s already made me feel less alone

hi :) i'm glad you've found some solace here. i don't really know of auto communities, which is why i started this blog (though it has been three years since i started this blog so i'm sure there are a few more now). i've found a few other tumblr blogs centred around auto culture and orientation, a quick search should find those though there aren't many at all.

as far as coming out, people have reacted better than i expected. i also made sure to tell only the right people. the only thing is, people don't always think it's a real orientation and don't see it as coming out. they will be like "ok cool, i like alone time too", and i don't think they really understand how big of a part of your orientation it can be. but of all the negative reactions you could get, i would say this isn't really bad :) thanks for asking!! happy valentine's day!!

I think I might be autosexual, how can you tell if you are? (Serious question, not a troll!)

i don't think it's that black and white, and the label isn't as important as how you feel. do you prefer to be with yourself over an s/o or the same amount? do you feel the same way about yourself as you do an s/o? does it feel like it's putting it lightly calling it "self-love"? do you do things with yourself that would be dates if you did it with others? most of all, do you feel deep down that the label describes you? hope this helped :) and again, labels aren't the most important thing when it comes to this

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im auto and i don't plan on coming out to anyone ever. it's not a huge part of my life, more a footnote i keep to myself, but sometimes i struggle with it and feel lonely and weird, and i usually end up on your blog reading through you posts bc they give me a lot of comfort and help me with self-acceptance. i know it's not an active blog, but i hope wherever you are now, you are well.

i'm not really active, but i do come on here occasionally and lurk, and rarely i will interact. thank you for your kind message :) it doesn't have to be something at the forefront of your life. it used to be for me, when i created this blog, but now having since been in relationships with others it's a smaller part, and that's completely fine. it's always nice to know you can fall back on yourself. i don't know how long ago this was asked but i hope you are doing well too :) happy valentine's day

Hi, I'm sending you this text to thank you for creating this page! It's very comforting to read good things about autoromanticism after getting comments invalidating my sexuality all the time, and all that stuff about confusing it with narcissism too. It may sound silly, but having a page like this that welcomes everyone who identifies themselves as autoromantic with kind words, as well as tips and information makes my heart warm.

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Hi! I’m here because of a pride post with a flag and identity i didn’t recognize, and it turned out to be autosexuality and/or autoromanticism! (idk how terminology works) I’m very glad i learned about this and although I won’t be following because it’s not my cup of tea, i hope all autos (is that the term?) have a wonderful day!

this is so sweet, thank u dear

What are some ideas for treats/dates with myself? Ive just recently discovered my autosexuality and im already planning on splurging on a few toys

hi :) most dates you do with others you can do with yourself with a bit of innovation. i’m making a list of dates more than “treats” since this is mostly an sfw blog. as with any date, put in the effort! dress in a personally attractive way that makes you happy, set mood lighting, don’t constantly be on your phone. to replace the dialogue you’d have on a date with someone else, you can journal. here are some specific date ideas:

picnic. not just any picnic, a nice aesthetic picnic with your favourite foods and drinks, read, make art, etc.

dinner. you can either go out to a favourite restaurant, or cook something yourself and have a fun time out of making it

go on a walk/hike

stargaze

decorate for the holidays

have a photoshoot (use the timer/video on your phone)

go shopping, whether it’s thrifting or antiques or a bookstore, etc.

bake/cook something challenging

take a drive

stay in a hotel for a night/weekend

(after covid) go to a concert/cinema

i hope these helped :) have fun!

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Hello! In one of your asks you said this: "another misconception is that autosexuals/autoromantics are limited to themselves. which is NOT true. we can also have other partners/not be limited to ourselves (which would then be considered polyamory)." Does this mean that a non polyamorous person can date you and can still be considered polyamorous? P.S. I love learning about more obscure sexualities so that I can properly portray them in my stories any your blog really helps!

well if a monogamous person was dating you, and you were autosexual/autoromantic AND dating them, then the monogamous person you’re dating would still be monogamous because they’re only dating you, but you could be considered polyamorous because you are in a relationship with them AND yourself. i hope this helps :)

Hh am I hugging my pillow pretending its me? Maybe- -🌌

same dude. am i making my friend cuddle me because we both enjoy cuddling and i’m auto so it’s a double win for me? maybe--

I’m not well informed on autosexuality, and the concept seems a lil strange to me personally, but I wish you and all others all the best! I can see you guys aren’t making it up, you aren’t doing it for the clout, and I really hope you guys get your acceptance from those you love and live a great life with yourself! (Not being sarcastic btw lol) have a nice day :)

no one has ever been so nice to me about my sexuality before, this completely made my day :) i am on the verge of tears because this is just so nice! thank you

What is autosexual?

definition:

autosexual is being sexually attracted to oneself.

autoromanticism:

in my case, i am also autoromantic. i enjoy going on dates with myself, spending time with myself, buying myself cute and sweet gifts, i think i’m cute, and i prefer making love (which i also consider as primarily a romantic experience) with myself rather than others.

misconceptions:

it’s not narcissistic, nor does it make somebody schizophrenic. being autosexual/autoromantic does not necessarily make somebody mentally ill. i have gone to doctors and they agree i don’t have narcissistic personality disorder, and also that i don’t hallucinate my relationship with myself.

another misconception is that autosexuals/autoromantics are limited to themselves. which is NOT true. we can also have other partners/not be limited to ourselves (which would then be considered polyamory).

i hope i explained this well :)

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Ya’ll reblog this or comment saying how many people u came out to or if you’re out completely i am out to 10 ppl so far (if u want any help or advice,dm me!)

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i’m out as autoromantic grayautosexual to 4 people, 2 of which are teachers, and 2 of which are somewhat good friends. but i’m completely out as lgbtq+, just not as autoromantic grayautosexual.

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i think i may come out to my lgbt club tomorrow but i’m not sure bc there are quite a few people in there, and i don’t really like attention, but i probably will and i’m so excited and nervous and ahhhhhh mostly excited

except explaining autosexuality is difficult and i’m afraid some of them won’t get it :( but it’s an lgbt club so i guess they’re all pretty open

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update (not that ppl really care): i’m not going to come out today, but i did come out to 2 more ppl yesterday :)

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