black forest cherry love !

Reminder for my disabled selfshippers: They still love you when your disability isn't pretty.

🌟 Your f/o still wants to stroke your hair when you haven't washed it in a week.

🌟 Your f/o still wants to hold you when you haven't changed out of yesterday's clothes.

🌟 Your f/o understands when you're irritable from pain, and isn't upset if you want to be alone.

🌟 Your f/o enjoy an evening in when you're bedbound just as much as a night out.

Your f/o's love isn't dependent in any way. You are loved with your disability, not despite it!

shoutout to disabled selfshippers!

ᯓ★ self shippers with invisible disabilities

ᯓ★ self shippers who can’t indulge with their f/o as much as they want because their health gets in the way

ᯓ★ self shippers who suffer yet can’t get help or a proper diagnosis because the healthcare system sucks

ᯓ★ self shippers who have a hard time being active in the community for various reasons (low energy/fatigue, burnout, pain flareups, etc.) despite wanting to

you are seen. you are loved. i’m glad you’re here, no matter how frequent or infrequent you pop in. thank you for being part of our community.

your f/os love you so much, and i know they’re beyond happy to support you through anything and everything.

you won’t walk this exhausting path alone. they won’t let that happen.

Comparing hand sizes with your romantic F/O!

Is their hand bigger, smaller, or just the same size as yours?

You can see the length of their fingers compared to yours. You can feel their skin and the pads of their fingertips and palm. Are they soft or more rough? Does their hand feel cold or warm to the touch?

They close their fingers between your own, intertwining their hand with yours. As they caress the back of your hand with their fingertips, they scan your skin, your flesh and bones, taking note of how precious you are to them, how precious each part of you, each vein, mark, crease and line of your hand, is to them.

Your F/O embraces your hand with both of their hands, wrapping their palms around you as if they were hugging you entirely. Just by this small gesture, they expressed their love for you.

a reminder to fellow selfshippers that it's okay to be protective over your interpretation of your f/o

you're allowed to dislike other people's interpretations of them

you're allowed to disagree with the popular headcanons that get called "basically canon"

you're allowed to prefer your version of your f/o over everyone else's

you know your f/o in a way that no one else does, and that's really special <3

[pro/comship DNI]