just a soul whose intentions are good

jacob is sitting in front of a huge canvas right now with a charcoal pencil in his fist trying to figure out how to make the ottawa centaurs logo look like it's performing autofellatio

like I’m sorry but surely you can see the potential for messy painful ambivalent feelings about your best friend—the person you’ve been sleeping with since you were fifteen, who knows your body and your heart and your history like his own—pulling away from you sexually and emotionally. keeping something a secret from you when you’ve never kept anything from each other before. letting his walls down for someone else in ways he’s only ever let them down with you. don’t you see how sveta can be an independent woman with her own life and her own priorities but could still struggle with one of her most foundational relationships changing in ways she has no say in? and just the muted grief of losing the easy familiarity and constancy of ilya… I feel like sex and friendship, intimacy and trust, have always been inextricably woven together for them. so who are they to each other when that changes? what happens when you used to be able to come home to each other, physically and emotionally, and now he goes home to somebody else?

i dont understand people who think cajun food is spicier than like thai food. unless you are drowing your food in tabasco sauce cajun food is mildly spicy at best.

im always thinking about the time my mom made hamburgers for my dad’s (texan) family using only salt pepper and garlic powder, and several people came up to ask her if this was a special “cajun burger” because it was so spicy. so maybe you people just dont know the difference between “seasoned” and “spicy”

we need a cultural revolution in america.

im surprised nobody has tried to mechanical turk a self driving car yet

it rly is insane how even more aggressive the major tech industries have gotten in terms of outsourcing manual labour to foreign nations. more and more companies are just going mask-off with their facade of "revolutionary AI" just being piloted by someone in Asia or Africa who is either skirting the poverty line, or already under and struggling to stay afloat. like i am struggling to find the words for how outrageous this is. honestly sickening

crazy that you can meet heterosexual people on the internet. im so used to gay people in my phone. sometimes there are straight people in my phone too. big news if true.