System of a down

Imagine you're a paraphile who joined the radqueer 'community' because you felt like nobody else would accept you, and then when you start looking into leaving you see so much paramisia, death threats, rape threats, demonization, etc. from anti radqueers. Would that not push you further into the "nobody else would accept me" mindset??

Imagine you're a darkshipper who joined the radqueer 'community' because you felt like no other community would accept you, and then you start looking into leaving and it's all "proshippers are pedos" "proshippers should kts" "proshippers deserve their trauma" "proshippers should be arrested" "proshippers can't be trusted around children and animals". Would that not push you further into the "only radqueers accept me" mindset??

Imagine you're a nontraumagenic system trying to leave the radqueer 'community', or you developed OSDD/DID-like symptoms trying to 'transition' like we did with NPD, or you're just a strongly pro-endo traumagenic system, but when you try looking into leaving, so much in the anti radqueer tags is posted by anti-endos and anti-willos if not specifically tagged as anti-endo?? Would that not push you further into the "all antis are hateful bigots who can't even handle endos" mindset?? I think that would be especially bad for systems with OSDD/DID-like symptoms from trying to 'transition' because then they wouldn't even have a garuantee that specifically pro-endo spaces would accept them.

Imagine you have atypical dysphoria and use transIDs to cope with it and you're considering leaving the radqueer 'community', but when you start looking into anti radqueer spaces it's filled with "transID DNI", directly tying transIDs to radqueers by phrasing things like "radqueer/transID", and people saying things like "dear transautistics, remember that you're allistic and you'll never be autistic and if you fully want to be while knowing it's a serious disability and not all fun and games then you should kys" and "Oh you're transID?? You should be transsuicidal next"?? Would that not push you further into the "nobody but radqueers will ever understand/accept my atypical dysphoria" mindset?? Like I'm transID complex myself, I don't really like the prefix trans being used for it and tying it to transgender, I don't like the appropriation of terms like transracial and transspecies, I don't believe you can transition to a mental disorder or race or ethnicity or intersex condition, I'm very anti transharmed/transharmful. But atypical dysphoria still deserves to be taken seriously!! Going out of your way to make people with atypical dysphoria feel dysphoric because of the 'community' they've fallen into trying to cope with it is asshole behavior (and in some cases, like if the person has BIID, then it's just straight up ableism). I know from personal experience that it can be hard to let go of transIDs that felt important to you when you were radqueer.

I'm just gonna take this opportunity to say, since I used transautistics as an example and I'm 'cis'austistic, people who have atypical dysphoria about not having autism are valid, it's okay to be dysphoric, hell it's even okay to use fidget toys or noise canceling headphones and use terms like desirautistic if it makes you happy, you don't need to be radqueer to have your experiences validated and to get some dysphoria relief.

I actually have a theory that pressure from the radqueer 'community' to use transIDs and MUDs and developing new paraphilias because of the radqueer 'community' and aggressive behavior from antis is somewhat intentional?? Even if just subconsciously. It's strange how much untagged graphic smut and encouraging people to use (more) transIDs and use transIDs for any reason and transID transition tips there are. It certainly makes it harder to leave. Also the sheer number of radqueer BAH blogs that come with harmful transIDs and paraphilias built in?? The sheer amount of transplurals and transDID and transOSDD generally?? The sheer number of 'cis'systems in the radqueer 'community'?? It almost feels like they want you to split headmates to drag you back into the radqueer 'community' again.

1. Have proof they're a teenager first. More than just a picture, have a video call with them.

2. If you want to meet up with them, have your parents or a trusted adult come with you. Even if they are a proven teenager, its still good to have supervision in case any issues happen.

3. If you are talking to an adult, and they start being sexual in any way, you run the fuck away. It doesn't matter if they're 40 or 20. An adult inherently has a power dynamic that teenagers do not. And its up to the adult to act responsible about it. There's exceptions of course, if you're 16 and dating an 18 year old, that's not a problem, we're not talking about that.

4. Being in a server with adults or ran by adults is not inherently bad. Talking to adults is not inherently a problem, and will likely happen in any number of Discord servers. It is only an issue when they are acting sexual and show predatory behavior.

5. Look out for grooming behavior. It can be difficult, because at first it seems like innocuous behavior, like complimenting or giving gifts. Especially if you feel lonely and have low self esteem. And groomers actively target people like that.

If they start trying to isolate you, talk sexual with you, state they depend on you for emotional needs, blame you for their own actions, try to be secretive about the relationship- Then you need to talk to people you trust, block the perpetrator, and call the police on them.

“trans nazi” Go fuck yourself

“transabled” Go fuck yourself

“Antiphile” Go fuck yourself

“autiphile” Go fuck yourself

'We have Enough Dead Friends --- Lena Oleanderson' thank you @lena-oleanderson for making this poem, was a good read!

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Hellloooo my name is Tails/Angel (she/he/it)

This is my id/mogai coining blog!

I coin everything from sexualities and genders to transids / desridaes / alterids

Requests are currently open

I design labels AND flags, so feel free to request both!

I do NOT coin anything under the transharmed / transharmful umbrella and I have the right to refuse these labels, other than that, I will coin everything!

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AlterID/AlteredID (TransID alternative)

Wanting to have/being an alternate/altered version of your current state.

- BornID (CisID atlernative)

Being born with/Already having the identity.

- CentraID (TrisID)

Being in the center of BornID and AlterID.

- UnID (NullID alternative)

Wanting to rid of/wanting to un-identify yourself with something.

- EternID (PermaID alternative)

Wanting to/being eternally an identity.

- PleneID (FylolID alternative)

Plene means fully in Esperanto. Being fully transitioned/Finally reaching the desired state.

- MimiID (MutolID/DissilID alternative)

Mimicking AlterID/Calling oneself AlterID when is actually BornID. Or other way around. (Can coin seperate term for DissilID)

- AlteragaID/AgaID (IterID alternative)

Feeling like one should identify or want to identify with an AlterID but going against it for no/some reason.

- SynthID (FauxID alternative)

One's id is synthetic, one is only using it because it's fun.

- EtherID (SpiriID alternative)

Identify with something due to being connected to it in an etheral/spiritual way.

- MalID (SpiteID alternative)

Identifying with something out of malice towards another.

- EsteID (AisthesID alternative)

Estetika = Aesthetic. Identifying as something as/for the aesthetic.

- SurgeID (SpikeID alternative)

Otherwise not identifying with something but occasionally feeling a surge of said identity.

- RootID (SourceID alternative)

Identifying as something because the origin of other identity [fictive/factive, fictionkin/factkin, etc etc] identified with said something. Other identity being the root of this identity.

All listed alternatives are anti-radqueer, anti-harassment and pro-recovery!! Do not use these unless you align with these stances.

They have no other stances otherwise. I want them to be inclusive and used by people who generally want people to get/feel better.

You know what? Fuck the rules. I had enough of you.

Guys, everyone point and laugh. It's the radqueers again.

God this is why i hate radqueers. You put labels into my mouth like it's nothing and expect me to believe i am one. No I am not a radqueer. I am a radical queer. An actual queer person who realises the goverment is fucked up, that it should be abolished and that gender norms, the term minority and every oppression shouldn't exist. I am not the same as you guys. I don't go around whining and bitching about how pro-contact paraphiles should be accepted and that "xenosatanism" and all those fucked up labels you make up to make others believe grooming young children is okay should be accepted into the LGBTQ+ community. You want to include yourselves so bad it's so funny. Yes i accept people who identify with transIDs because of mental health issues.

Yes i accept paraphiles who actually have the disorder and are anti contact.

Yes i accept darkshippers who ship things for a coping mechanism.

Yes i accept endogenic system.

So what? Do you want me to turn into magical fairy and believe your group's abuse on me was okay?

Please, you sound pathetic. I am not a fucking closeted radqueer, I am a RADICAL FUCKING QUEER PERSON. It's not RADICAL to believe GROOMING KIDS is a SEXUALITY and should be ACCEPTED. It's called being MENTALLY ILL. Skip along you dumb fucks and get some help. There are planty emergency lines and websites that provide help.

This a sign to SHUT THE FUCK UP. You will be welcomed with HATE and HATE ONLY.