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I'd rather get attached and get hurt than to never feel again
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Note to self
I'd rather get attached and get hurt than to never feel again

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everybody has an opinion about my life and wants to share it with me
i have food, shelter, and can do thins i enjoy
i don't make a lot of money and don't have a career
i just go to work and then go home
i read my books and hang with my friends
what is so wrong with this?
maybe in the future i will get a career
i am trying
i am sorry my failure is something you have to point out
maybe you do it out of love
but it feels like shame
it hurts me too that my attempts don't succeed
but at least i am surviving and can experience some joy
is that so wrong?
but i guess it is also on me to not take their comments to heart
for they don't might not know how i feel or not care
both those reasons should show me why their comments should bear no weight
why do they still hurt then?
i want to give them something
not because i want them to like me
but because it reminded me of them
i fear that it might be too much to just give
but i don't want to wait
now the connection is fresh in my mind
what to do
what to do
i feel like they give me the space to dare face the unknown
so dare i shall
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in my attempt to temper my unrequited feelings I seem to be more cold in my goodbyes.
my hugs are shorter and my waves are without a look.
i wish this was because i was uncaring.
but sadly my soul lingers longer with you than i like to admit.
i feel bad at every goodbye.
i want to hold you tight. i want to hug longer. i want to see you walk away.
but for my own sake i cannot do these.
you will find the one you will also care for and i will always care for you.
but who will care for me when my heart can't take it anymore?
i want to be quiet with someone.
just be able to look at them and then do my own things.
i want them to be comfortable and i want to be me.
i don't know how to say this without saying it however.
someone came by the store today and told me about a bad situation they are in now.
i am impressed they were able to tell it to me without crying.
there was a lot of uncertainty, love and doubt in their story but they stood their ground.
i told them things i also need to accept in myself.
everybody has their own speed and that's okay.
it really is. why is that so hard to grasp.
I've been on the internet for most of my life now. I've seen thousands of memes, reaction images, etc and to be honest it is becoming tiring. The images contain too much information, lore, context, or whatever you want to call it. Text posts give me comfort. Leaves space for my own imagination. My own interpretation.

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I like enjoying my friends in different ways.
Some I enjoy more with company. When at a party or a small group.
Others I enjoy alone. Just us, sitting talking, listening, and doing stuff.
Sadly most of the times, the way I hang out with these friends is in the opposite ways.
Regardless of all this, I'm glad we are friends.
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And well... 1 normal home. But yknow, mostly my house-turned-person >_<
i love these doodles! so wholesome. this inspires me to try these kinds of doodles <3
We are still here, so we're winning!
You can be direct in your communication and still be kind. I find a lot of people think it’s one or the other. It’s not. And direct communication is so much better for the long term health of your relationships.
It is difficult for me to be direct and kind I think. It requires a lot of thought before speaking and the moment I start properly thinking about my words I forget to talk. I don't talk a lot for this reason but more than years ago. I hope to one day find a middle ground of thinking and speaking.
It's okay if you don't feel hopeful about the future right now. If hope is out of reach, try curiosity instead.

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Green Flags in Communication 💚💬
"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."
This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.
"I don't want you to feel alone in this."
This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.
"I've been struggling with ___”
This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.
"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."
This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.
"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"
This is an example of constructive communication.
"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"
This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.
"I appreciate when you ___.”
Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.
"I didn't handle that well."
This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.
"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."
Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.
"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."
Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.
"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"
It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.
"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."
Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.
"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."
Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.
"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"
Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.
"I trust your judgment on this."
Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.
"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."
Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.
"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"
Validates the other person's feelings.
"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."
Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.
"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."
Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.
you don't always need to be working towards big goals or trying to radically change your life.
you're allowed to just take time to exist, learn about yourself, what makes you happy, and enjoy being here.
taking time to rest and recover does not make you any less then people that doing different things.
It is hard for me to determine when i should be working towards big goals and when to just live life. I want to start a career but it is all tiring, scary, exhausting and unknown. I like my here and now but also crave more/better. For now, I'll do at least a little towards the goal in the hopes it's not completely wasted potential within me.