High School Advice

It’s ok to be scared I’m sure they are going to be upset, but if you feel it was toxic you will feel so much better. Dropping all your friends is tough, but you’ll find people that are good for you and develop new friendships it will be ok.

To anyone out there going through something like this I apologize. For the past 6 months I had been harassed by this boy my friends brushed it off like it was nothing that same " oh he is just being a boy". He would say things like I was madly in love with him and proceed to threaten me. He would ask to meet up and say that he was gonna rape me. Telling me that he had to "try before he bought it" like I was something to be used. To anyone going through sexual harassment or have been sexually harassed it is not ok. I felt like saying something made me the issue not him. I felt like I had done something wrong, but in reality it wasn't the case. It's not ok for someone to say things like "I'll attack your ass because you can't stop me" I felt helpless and didn't want to open up about it. I found that talking to more and more people made me feel better. You never know what someone else has gone through until you share your story.

I say you support her decision even if you don't like it. She is gonna try to go for the f boy most girls/people do in hopes that they'll (the f boy) change for them. The best thing you can do is be there for her and subtly hint that you like her. Tell her he acts funny and you don't like it or there is something off about him.

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Get closer and closer to him, but don't become he relationship or life counselor or you'll be friend zoned. The closer you get the more you know. Also if you haven't already casually ask for his number. Everyone gets crushes best of luck

People are different in every school but it's never like the movies high school full of stress large work loads and being irresponsible. You shouldn't have to worry about the popular girls be diverse and different you always friends that way.

Taking the easy route isn't always best but hurting your chances at college isn't good either. Do a pros and cons list about both schools. On what would make you happier.

The best thing stay organized and on task. Budget your time and always try to make room for fun that's how you unwind from all the work.

The guys you are describing are looking for the easy target or girl with low self esteem. Usually the more attractive girls are intimidating and seem confident, but ultimately a guy wants a girl that is approachable and willing to do anything for them( I am making assumptions about these guys that you are talking about in particular) such as easily sending nudes. Honestly most guys in high school can be dusches and even in college I wouldn’t go looking for guys that are looking for a girl to send nudes most likely they share or talk about those girls with their buddies. They also are just looking for a booty call or a hook up not a girlfriend or relationship. so ultimately be careful if you do send nudes don’t include your face because the guy couldn’t prove it was you and it can’t go viral as easily. Most guys want a confident, independent, beautiful girl with a sense of humor guys find it attractive if you can make them smile and laugh. Your looks can attract but your personality and who you are is what they love. Some guys look for shy quiet girls. It depends on their type sometimes it doesn’t hurt to ask them what they like in a girl.

AP classes are very detail oriented classes they cover lots of information in a short amount of time. I took AP European History and our book had napoleons life in 200 pages as to the remedial classes had his life in 2 pages. I took five AP classes this year it took a lot of my time up and was stressful during exams, but overall I'm glade i took them. I think the best thing to do is not burn out during the year so make time for other things such as making plans with friends watching movies etc because AP classes take up time for studying and work. They are a lot of reading (analyzing paragraphs) and writing. Ultimately make sure you have fun outside of AP work to make it a more enjoyable year. Also make sure to stay organized and be on top of assignments.

I think you should do what is best for your future. If boarding school is best for you there is ways to communicate with your family and see your friends. Skype, calling, txting, etc I feel boarding school is better preparation for college, but the education is important and where your comfortable at is also.

of course you should tell your crush your interested, but be careful how you do it. if he is like a best friend or friend be cautious. please message me more details so I could respond better.

Response- don't overwhelm your self your first year because its an adjustment. this year is the year that most people who have never had to study before have too. Take the classes that set you up for success in the future whether you want to go to college or not. High School can be ruff or easy depending on the mindset you go in with being positive and staying on top of your work helps you have an easy year. Every teacher and high-school is different you have to stay positive stick with your friends and adjust together I hope this answered your question if not please ask more and I’m sorry for the delay on answering.

Response- I know you already understand homework is important but maybe you can schedule everything and create an reward system. Like if I finish this portion with of homework I get to watch a few YouTube videos or just chill for a bit. Take breaks so that you’re not overwhelming yourself. All this being said, if you don’t complete whatever work you set for the day, don’t be too disappointed in yourself; just set more goals and go from there. Best of luck! I’m sure you’re doing great as is 😊

Since everyone has most likely gotten in the groove of classes and friends. I thought I would do a question of the week about grades since not everyone is the same and has perfect grades. I can’t stress enough on how important strong grades are to get into college. Does anyone have a question about how to study or bring up your class grades?

This is easier said than done, but you do you and don't worry about your appearance for the sake of others. Especially if anyone anyone is being a jerk about the way you dress, forget them. But if you're looking for sweet clothes for decent prices, go to your local thrift store. Even goodwill is fine. The brand doesn't matter if your clothes are cute, and you can definitely find cute clothes there for super cheap if you dig. Otherwise, I guess just remind yourself that you dress and look how you look for you and that comparing yourself to others can be counterproductive. Hope this helps <3

Have you guys ever had a bad teacher or a ridiculous class you had to take?