hi, i'm vivian

Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. If a person wants to be with you, they prove it. Period.

i deeply desire someone to hold me and keep me safe

i just want someone to look at me and just think “she's worth everything”

if you want me, act like it.

i wanna build a relationship with someone who cares about "why" i've been quiet all day. not someone who gets mad cause i'm "acting different"

can men please stop saying "stop overreacting, you're being so sensitive" and maybe try to figure out why she is so upset.

date someone that makes you roll your eyes and smile right after

both from pleasure and because they said sth silly

Be with someone who chooses you. And continues to choose you over everyone else.

*drowns myself in romanticized idealizations*