as a fellow CCer, I wish you guys would stop referring to t/s/g as âthe strip jointâ. It gives haters so much ammunition. I donât like M or the bar, but I do agree that the way some in the fandom demonise it is crazy. Itâs a tongue-in-cheek, trashy place, they exist all over the world. Fair enough if itâs not to your liking, but you sound naive and childish by being offended by it (esp if youâre not offended by h/edwig, for example). I love you guys, but sometime you do yourselves no favours.
Hello again anon. Â I do wonder why you are not talking directly to me as I answer most of your asks and Iâm not getting much in return?
Interesting ask, in that you say youâre  supportive, and love us, but call me and (fellow CCârs) naive and childish and then accuse us of demonising M and fuelling the haters.  HmmmmâŚâŚ.To clarify we are not naive or childish, but have a lot of life experience between us as well as holding down professional jobs.  Thing is we know when we are being sold a dud and that bar and Mia**en are.
You mention itâs not unlike other bars that are trashy and tongue in cheek. Â I agree, if I wanted a hen night that might be the type of bar Iâd go to, but those bars are not trying to build a business off the back of a closeted actor at the expense of his acting/music reputation, Â so excuse me if I sound annoyed occasionally that the cocktails have names that lack any wit. Câmon anon - tug and blow, really!!
Please donât compare Hed/wig. Â When you see that show and you know what you are in for. Â You know it will be loud, dramatic, raucous, sexy and with a stack of double entendres. Â Hed/wig doesnât to sell itself as something it isnât. Your know what you are getting and itâs brilliantly tragic. Â The show doesnât pretend to be a dis/ney princess one moment and have strippers on the bar at a private party the next. Â Itâs not about being a prude, itâs about a lack of identity for that bar overall.
And you shouldnât even be surprised by this given the team that are promoting this mess of mixed messages for t/sg are also responsible for the absolute mess they have made regarding Dâs racial identity and sexuality. Â
Hey, anon, maybe itâs referred to as a âstrip jointâ because peopleâŚstripped there?






















