breathe.

tell me everything that's on your mind, i care

one day I will meet a person who won’t find my mind a little too heavy. who won’t tell me to stop thinking and overthinking. someone who understands that loving people so much is who I am. someone that won’t call me a handful. someone who is ready to love with all they have too. someone who wants to take on this world with me by their side. that will be a happy day.

People fandom to find the perfect person to love them. But that’s not how love work. Love is giving. No one talk about learning or improving themselves to love others better. Since the Disney princess movies our perspective of love has shifted to the other side. We lost focus of our own part of love. We want to remain the same and expect other people to love as we are. We never blame ourselves for our own faults in the relationship. If we focus on giving love, all of our relationship will improve.

slow kisses and long hugs are needed

One thing I’ve noticed about people in or entering their 30s is they don’t make as many compromises anymore. If someone doesn’t meet them halfway, is not up to standard, is just not where they’re needed to be, they’re just like “ok cool” and they move on from the person. Which is not to say they’re less empathetic or understanding, but more that they have learned that time is their most prized possession and they’re not willing to make massive compromises on it. They are not obsessed w the idea of fixing someone (bc the concept of fixing a person doesn’t really exist). They simply move on to someone who is up to par. I want that. I want to always move w the awareness that time is my most priceless belonging and I can never buy it back. Ever. So I have to use it wisely