What Impression Do You Make?
No matter how many times youâve heard this growing up; the defiant side always chewed gum to annoy our parents. But did you ever wonder why it was considered âobnoxiousâ? After all gum is readily available in all vending machines, checkout counters and gas stations all over the world and gum is marketed to clean breath, help reduce cavities and even get you âcloserâ to that special someone after polishing off your pastrami on rye with grilled onions.
This all sounds good but unfortunately the other part of the rant says that âchewing gum makes you look like a cow chewing a cudâ. After watching some recent interviews with athletes, not only is that a true statement, you can actually spot people chewing from across the room. There is nothing worse than staring at a program and the person is chomping away mindlessly on gum.
It doesnât look very good and itâs distracting.
By now you're wondering how this applies to Job Hunting or Business Ownership? By you already know, unless you are friends with the owner of a company or their family, walking into an interview chewing gum will get you dropped off the radar - PDQ!
But that one is an obvious one. Here's some other nice tidbit that have fallen by the wayside with today's advancement of technology but regression of social order in business.
1.   Aside from the obvious distraction, itâs not professional. The receptionist is the first person that interviews you; if thereâs no receptionist then itâs the administrative assistant that sees you first. They will inform on you, and yes it can affect your being hired.
By all means freshen your breath; halitosis wonât win an interviewerâs merit either; but use a mint or breath strip that will dissolve or that you can take out and re-wrap or swallow prior to meeting with these people.
1.   Do your homework. If you are interviewing you can contact the companyâs reception to inquire about the dress policy prior to the date.
2.   If you are meeting with clients check out their attire policy in advance and dress one notch higher. This even applies to all professions whether corporate, construction, retail, sanitation or industrial. Appearance counts, sadly people draw all kinds of conclusions from the way you present yourself. Donât show up to client meetings, work or to interviews poorly groomed or in inappropriate attire.
And yes those actors on TV may be wearing high stiletto heels to crime scenes but unless you are a hooker or escort and your John want to play dress up; save it for Hollywood and their un-realistic views of the world.
Donât be late, never keep anyone waiting
Showing up late for appointments will not only make you look bad, but it can also have a negative impact on your success. Be mindful of peopleâs time; theirs and yours.
¡        If you are a business owner being late can be costly; for example a service provider who was late to two separate meetings with the same client lost an account worth millions.
¡        I personally was kept waiting for over an hour past my appointment unattended in a reception area by a dentist. I had left the building and was back at my office, which was a 30 minute walk from the dentistâs office; approximately 30 minutes after I arrived back to my office I received a phone call from the dentist's office inquiring why I left and offering up something resembling an apology. That was 2 plus hours of my life that I wonât be paid for and sadly neither will that dentist.
¡        If you are a job-seeker being late can be costly in terms of you not getting hired.
Occasionally we all run into circumstances beyond your control. You can try and circumvent life and avoid this costly gaffe by always giving yourself extra time to make the trip. Remember, itâs better to be 30 minutes early than 5 minutes late.
1.   Avoid using slang and expletives at all costs; even when your interviewer does it. Yes, interviewers have been known to bait incumbents by using incorrect grammar or cursing. Iâve witnessed it first hand during an interview. Â
If you are the interviewer and something slips out; be courteous enough to apologize to the incumbent. Â If you are the incumbent make sure that you donât succumb to this and start doing it yourself.
You always want to project an image of competence, character and commitment. The only place to hear such things should be in the local bar on game night, a construction site or on a slow tuna boat with your friends. Â
Listen, Assess, then Speak
1.   For the job-seeker resist offering quick opinions during an interview. Listen to what the interviewer is saying, really saying. Their body language, demeanor, and use of vocabulary will tell you a lot. If you are good youâll be able to assess the style of the company youâre interviewing with; what kind of personality the office has based on whom they chose to represent it as HR/interviewer.
Sadly enough offices are like elementary schoolyards. Still very cliquish and their choice of representatives reflects this. If you get bad vibes from the interviewer remember someone working for that company had to hire them, ergo youâll never know this unless you listen and assess before you speak.
If you are the business owner/manager or boss in charge of handling clients, you will also learn about them and what they are âreallyâ looking for by listening not only with your ears but your eyes (evaluating visually the body language, demeanor and cues), then assess what youâve âheardâ and âseenâ then speak accordingly.
Youâll gain respect by listening and absorbing what your interviewer or clients are telling you.