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The fourth house in Astrology deals with comfort, home, and family but it is also an important house angle known as the imum coeli or nadir. The nadir pairs with your childhood and points to your inner child and what might have harmed you growing up. You can use this house to heal from the trauma that tainted you. 

Aries on 4th: When it comes to holding this ferocious sign on such a gentle house, the native had a rough childhood growing up. They might have been known as the abrasive or aggressive ones and now hide that part of themselves because of it. They want to be seen as kind because they assume that is the only way to gain love. To honor your inner child, you must remember that your passion, your heart, is beautiful. You are made of resilience and there is no need to hide your power. 

Taurus on 4th: With Taurus on the fourth, these natives have deep wounds when it comes to feeling loved and appreciated for who they are. They often had to prove themselves early on and now think they have to give, give, give, to gain an ounce of love. Please remind yourselves that you are deserving of love because you are you and not because of what you do. To honor your inner child, release what does not serve you, and welcome those into your life who see you for all your beauty. 

Gemini on 4th: Oh how these children had the busiest minds and the most excitable hearts! Why do you cover this part of yourself now? Who told you to keep your voice suppressed? Your innocence is refreshing, the optimism you hold for the future astounds and inspires those around you, do you see your power? Often these natives are forced to “mature” their minds and are forcibly removed from their daydreams. To honor your inner child, make sure you take a dip into those daydreams and relax in the pool of your own mind. You hold so much mental power, release it. 

Cancer on 4th: You were put in the maternal role at quite an early age weren’t you? It is beautiful that you know how to take such good care of those around you but early on you missed out on how to take care of yourself! There may be issues when it comes to self-care and making sure you are putting yourself first as you ultimately deserve. You cannot take care of others if you are not okay. To honor your inner child, take some time to sit with yourself, how are you mothering your identity? Are you being kind to yourself? Treat yourself with tenderness, stop being so hard on yourself. 

Leo on 4th: It must have been so hard to have your light dimmed at such an early age. You were meant to shine out like the sun angel you are but you weren’t allowed that, forced to live in the shadows of others or circumstances or just life itself. You are worthy and you deserve to be as effervescent as you desire. None of your light should hide under a bushel. To honor your inner child try to find what makes you shine and dive into it. You have so much skill and your confidence should shine out and stimulate others, you are an influencer. 

Virgo on 4th: Were you allowed to authentically be yourself ever? It pains me how restricted you were when it comes to finding your identity, so much so, you may even search for it now. Your childhood, to put it bluntly, was a mess. And it was a mess you were in charge of cleaning up, so now you go about life cleaning up after everyone to fill some void in your soul left open from the wounds of your childhood. To honor your inner child, make sure you tell yourself you are not in charge of anyone but yourself. You only have to be mindful of your actions and that is all. 

Libra on 4th: You aren’t in charge of making everyone feel good about themselves. I know in the past, you were the peacemaker, the peacekeeper, everything runs smoothly under you because conflict is stressful and easily affects you and it’s just easier to take control but sometimes it’s okay to simply release. Not everyone can be saved and you are not in charge of saving everyone. To honor your inner child you have to learn to set boundaries and not take on others’ issues as your own. Your energy is precious, keep it protected. 

Scorpio on 4th: Out of all the signs on the 4th, I worry for you the most. You have deep repressed wounds that tend to fester because once you open up, you may be scared of getting more hurt in the process. Please do not fear the idea of vulnerability, people want to love you, people want to know you but they cannot unless you open up at least the smallest part of yourself, you are blocking yourself from beneficial opportunities. To honor your inner child, you have to learn to be vulnerable and find the power in vulnerability. You are lovable, let people fucking love you. 

Sagittarius on 4th: I think it’s very cute how you joke yourself out of the pain that stems from your childhood but there is no progress in simply skimming over your trauma with jokes, why not analyze it? The planet Jupiter urges you to dive into what has occurred in the past as it wants you to build into your new expansive and optimistic future but can only do so if you stop fearing what has been. To honor your inner child you must welcome what is to come by dealing with the past by analyzing and embracing it. 

Capricorn on 4th: You have been old ever since you left the womb! You came out with responsibility and simply took it and kept running and running with it. You haven’t really ever taken a break, have you? It’s simply been go, go, go. So much so you missed out on your childhood completely! That sucks! However it is not too late to get your childhood back and I hope you know that. To honor your inner child, simply be a child. Whatever that looks like, go on a swing, eat ice cream at 10 a.m., dance in the rain! Give yourself that childhood pleasure. 

Aquarius on 4th: You were shamed out of being yourself for quite some time, forced to hide a part of you that yearns to shine, your eccentric and individualistic side that makes your own rules and follows them as well, and now have to find out how to navigate this part of yourself without overwhelming yourself with the possibilities of you are and who you can become. To honor your inner child, do what makes your heart happy. Im so serious, don’t think, just do, be impulsive! No more shame, only embracement. 

Pisces on 4th: You had such intense dreams early on, you dreamt of your future and your life and were forced to come back down to earth earlier than you like, yet your power is found in your subconscious, and to be stripped of that connection could have easily sent you down a dark path of unawareness when it comes to authentically knowing yourself. Now you have to search for something to fill the hole in your being. To honor your inner child, relax into your subconscious and find out what you ultimately desire from the life before you. Figure out what fills that hole.

The MC (midheaven) is the point in your birth chart that showcases your professional success and public image; your reputation. The IC (Imum coeli) is the point in your birth chart that showcases your private self, the self you don’t show to anyone except people who are close to you.

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Mars/venus first house overlay: gets a bad reputation, because people feel like this overlay is ‘superficial’ due to the fact that the first house signifies what people show of their personality to the outside, aka their ‘looks’ and also their physical appearance. They forget that what you externalise in the house of the externalised ego is you, your ego. That’s you! Your ego is a very deep and important thing about you. For some people it’s a more important than for others of course. The way you dress, laugh, look and walk and look, that *is* a deep aspect about your personality. Like those things *are* personal. For some people like mars or venus dominant people it’s the ideal placement, because this is a fiery placement keeps people from being ~bored~ with who the other is, which often happens in a bad marriage. It’s why this aspect is called thee great aspect for marriage. It’s great!

Venus opposite saturn: does not pose as big of an issue if the people have either venus in 10th house or saturn in 7th house natally. There is more acceptance, understanding and ‘seeing things the other way’ that way. It can also manifest in the honeymoon stage just being enlonged and the problems showing up later.. with the ‘honeymoon stage’ in this aspect I mean that this bond feels pretty karmic and paternalistic and awesome in the beginning, in a way that feels super attractive, safe and interesting to the venus person who’s in awe of saturn, and super intense, fulfilling and a little anxiety inducing for the saturn person involved, who enjoys venus’s quirks and air for themselves so much that they become against it and will call them things like ‘childish’ as time goes on. This doesn’t happen if there’s good trust and communication in the relationship. Most often the ‘emotional pain’ that is seen as inevitable with some synastry aspects according to some people, are only inevitable for people who really don’t know how to deal with other people in relationships. You’ll be alright when you have some supporting aspects to this.

Mars-lilith: mars and lilith have a lot in common: they are independent, sexual, feisty and go after their own fleeting pleasures. Only mars isn’t a social pariah, stays on earth and lilith is so she’s up in the air like a bird. Lilith, as the outcast, is someone who wants to impress mars to prove something to herself. Mars is someone wants to dominate lilith, to prove something to himself and also to her. You can see they have a lot of natural (sexual) chemistry but they’re sh*t for the long term lol. Mars is still part of the ‘ordinary world’ and lilith is still traumatized by that world. In harsher aspects, the empathy towards each other will be non existent. The same can even go for sympathy between the two. Also, the ‘colour’ of this union will of course depend on the signs they are in.

Moon conjunct jupiter: Why does my pisces moon have immediate soulmate-like crushes on men born in 1962/63? Oh, that’s why. I’ve had it the other way around too and I’ve seen a lovely couple with this, but I feel like this definetely gets exalted in pisces. Jupiter ~loves~ the moon person. Moon person’s entire emotional/private self fuels and twinflames jupiter person’s entire inspirational and idealistic self. The moon person feels safe while still feeling inspired and adventarous with the jupiter person. Jupiter basically adores the moon, and even that gets expanded due to the expansive and almost indulgent nature of this aspect. The moon person wants to be with jupiter. They feel their emotional self inspired and exalted when they are with them and it can be for some (for me) a very rare feeling of being so comfortable and happily understood and inspired by the other. I’ve always found this one of the best relationship aspects you can have, for me at least it’s the best because with my scorpio sun pisces moon and sag rising, that optimistic jupiternan energy on my most vulnurable side is exactly what I’m looking for.

Mars conjunct chiron: the only sexual aspect that will make a man want to marry his female partner.

Sun/venus/mercury fifth house overlay: ever had that feeling of ‘ooh this person is going to be here, now this occasion is worth it/interesting/~a party~’ and you almost saw it as like a crush? Did it feel a little juvenile? That’s this one.

Mars fifth house or in that mix^: oh and you do have a crush on this person, highly likely. Are you going ‘oh my god, oh my god, it’s him/her’ when he arrives in like an almost funny and very juvinile way? That’s this one. Okay so now I’m taking a girl reading this as the norm, but for a guy that crush would happen with venus added in the fifth house. This/these overlay(s) cause butterflies and first love vibes for the house person, giggling like a teenager and thinking the planet person is soo cool and fun and attractive. The planet person releases their inhibitions around the house person and becomes leo-esque, like the party version or radio-edition of themselves.

Saturn conjunct an angle: weirdly enough, this aspect is not much talked about on the internet but I assume that is because people don’t have a lot to add to this one. I do. I believe this aspect can be extremely significant in reading a synastry chart romantically. So, to begin with I feel like this aspect, like a lot in synastry, plays out differently irl based on the genders of the people involved. What I’ve found is that saturn conjunct an angle in heterosexual relationships, where the guy is saturn and the angle person is a girl, the guy is easily bound to fall in love with the angle girl. This is because saturn imposes their mix of care, ownership, restriction responsibility, security, dedication, reality, commitment and karma on your angle which basically stands for a fundamental part slash pillar of your existence. Aka, this aspect is a patriarchal wet dream. The hero-instinct is immensly triggered here. This guy’s (who I also had a pretty large age gap with for our early twenties) saturn was tightly conjunct my IC, the most vulnerable angle, standing for my fourth house of the home and, using other astrologer’s phrasing, where ‘my soul is seated’. We were not together yet, but would unsolicited go “yeah, that’s important that you do that” and after some inquiring about anything “be careful that you don’t” blabla like it mattered to him. The vibe was very much like he could say “look, as your husband” and me reacting like “excuse me??” Same guy also had his saturn tightly conjunct my even younger friend’s ASC and it’s like he picked her to be like his little sister! even though they didn’t know each other that well. He would be very protective of her (although i think he could have done more, but that’s another story) and hype her up whenever she walked into a room, it was very cute. Conjuncting DSC I’d imagine it would play out like saturn worrying about the people DSC hangs out with and feeling a sense of dictatorship(?) over her social angle and who she’s seeking love from. Brooding protectiveness over the fact that DSC has been going out again with many guys who may not be up to good. Like I said, this aspect is the patriarchal wet dream. Conjuncting MC it would be exactly like jiwoo and sungmin from Age of Yourh. Making sure he’s right behind her in her goals at all times to protect her, almost like a cynical bodyguard, but somehow equal-ish partners that compliment each other. Back to saturn conjunct IC, the IC is the ingebakken way of managing things and the way you close your eyes for rest. Saturn conjuncting this part of you is like them barging into your house and giving you pills while you’re, like, there in your underwear. This angle aspect does create a deep kind of bond I’d guess. It’s still lunar! With the AC I think it’s the physical air and appearance that someone gives off that makes saturn think that they’re smol and need guidance. This is what I imagine a first impression would be like! Not getting into the relationship itself but like, you could guess. I’d say the ASC and MC conjunction will flourish as platonic and be doomed when it gets romantic and the DSC and IC conjunction will flourish as romantic and be doomed as platonic. In the right kind of relationship these conjunctions can be like ‘ahww’ and wholesome but in the wrong kind of relationship, these conjunctions could cause a major, and I can’t describe this any other way, ‘f*ck of!!!’ 😂

Moon trine mercury: I call this the best friend aspect because I’ve shared this aspect with every friend I could talk with for hours and enjoy it. Even if you don’t share the same kind of humor you can still laugh and communicate and basically enjoy each other’s brain ! I like this aspect in romantic relationships, too, because this aspect kills the potential awkward silence and it adds that green flag communication with e/o when official. This isn’t like the conjunction were the two bodies are so bang on alike that it becomes like a battle between the one person’s mind and the one person’s emotions. There is a harmonious distance that actually brings the people closer together and creates that intimacy. With the trine you constantly greatly appreciate what the other person adds to the table. This is communication that flows non-verbally as well, like through touches and looks.

Moon opposite mars: chrissttt, not to be vulgar but you both know you just want to.. do the deed together 💀 almost as if after 10 mins of talking you’ve already decided that in your head

Mars sextile moon/venus I feel like the energy that flows through the trine causes sexual arousal and through the sextile it causes a very wholesome emotional arousal. Great aspect no matter which gender.

The new moon in Scorpio was placed at the onset of November to represent the inevitable need of self-transformation.

Scorpio is ruled by two celestial bodies, the personal planet Mars and the mysteriously dark planet, Pluto. Before you judge Pluto’s darkness, remember that everyone has Pluto energy spiraling within their spirit and natal chart. Although the lunar eclipse will be in Taurus, its opposing sign will be just as powerful and influential in our atmosphere. Pluto may be the “dark planet” but even so, Pluto still believes in bringing things into the light which means that our skeletons and shadows will be dragged out of the closet. Our shadows represent the traumas, wounds, mistakes, triggers, and pains that we have endured in our past and current lifetimes. Due to the lunar eclipse on the 19th of November, our closets will continue to release our hidden shadows. Your initial response may be to run away but if you do then you will only delay your growth. Stop hiding and begin to heal your wounds!

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Scorpion Energy ♏️

You may have recently experienced: the loss of a loved one or a known person, a broken heart, relived unhealed wounds, experienced a breakup from a friendship or a romantic union, ended an old cycle, endured a life changing experience, began a new cycle, or recently had a birthday. The universe is giving you a final exam to see how much you have truly evolved. In order to pass this test you must break bad habits, embrace positive energy, release people and things that no longer serve you a purpose, react differently, and entertain different energies.

Taurian Energy ♉️

Congratulations, you’ve made it! The dark moon from the beginning of the month has flourished into a beautiful super moon. Although the new moon has brought harsh lessons and experiences, we must not forget how beautiful life is. No matter how many lemons life throws at you, do not weep and make lemonade instead. You are a strong person who is capable of achieving whatever you desire. You can do this. Since the dark ages are only a memory, it is time for you to create a new reality where you return back to taking care of yourself, having your own voice, and feeling beautiful or handsome again.

  Things you can do during this full moon:

Recharge your crystals

Be yourself

Wear your favorite outfit

Be extra in a good way

Create or view art

Add a dazzle to your appearance or personality

Meditate

Set intentions

Bring in a new attitude

Change your style

Stand up for yourself

Admire your appearance

Be a different version of yourself

Compliment others

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How to pick a pile? : close your eyes and take a deep breath. Ask your guides to show you the right pile for you and then open your eyes. The first pile that catches your attention is your pile.

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Pile 1

Your destined one is someone who likes to have things their own way. They have a very bossy energy around them and likes to use authority. They might have a somewhat scary looking resting face but is nice when you get to know them . They are a family oriented person and always put their family before anything else and would do anything for their family. They might have one or two pet dogs. They are always ready to fight others who insult them or their family. Probably an earth sign. They might have Aquarius or Capricorn as their rising. They don't like when people try to put them down and won't ever let people tell them what to do. They have a very unique way of talking , like once you get comfortable with them or they get comfortable with you, they'll make you laugh even at the smallest things. It's like the way they talk is very funny and the words they use. They are like a complete child with the people they love and always need attention from them. Lol that's cute. And also they are very very possessive. They don't like when people take what's theirs. It's okay as long as they don't see you as their property. 

Messages that might resonate : counterparts, city life, a white dog, right handed or their hands are very beautiful, a little older than you, dark skinned /tanned, athletic and adventurous, number 3 or March month.

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Alright! So what I'm getting is that they are into the occult or a very spiritual person. They have a lot of knowledge about various things and are always curious. I'm getting that they might be from a different place than you. Like a different state, city or even country or continent lol. They are also very cunning and can be manipulative when needed. Though they might have confidence problems or just in need of a trustworthy person. They have a hard time trusting people. I'm getting that you might meet them in a hospital or a place for treating people. Could be a public place for some. They are a workaholic or just have a lot of burden on them. They might be the only child and if  not them the oldest child in their family. They try to come off as reserved and cold hearted but on the inside they're very emotional. But not overly emotional . I'm getting that they'll definitely pamper you a lot and they also need a lot of pampering. They need like , NEED words or encouragement like "you're doing great " and "I'm proud of you". They are also very attractive and might be very popular. They have a lot of energy 💀 like always running, doing something weird with you. 

Messages that might resonate : Pisces, Leo, Taurus, moon 🌙 , B, J, E, L, U, R , hard exterior soft interior, gold, a lot of yellow, blue and vertebrates 

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Pile 3 

Alright, so first thing first they are very hardworking. They might come from a poor family but they have worked very hard to achieve what they have right now. They don't like asking people for help and have a hard time believing that they can't always be in the first place. They are also very artistic like they could sing, draw, paint or do something creative. They like spending their time alone. And simply they don't care about their surroundings like the world could be collapsing but They wouldn't give a fuck ( sorry for cussing) . They can stay calm even in a chaotic situation. They like doing a lot of things at once . They don't like inequality and are very law abiding. They always treat people equally and don't like when people discriminate or judge others. They can speak a lot of languages and know about a lot of things. This is definitely a Soulmate / twinflame relationship. You two mirror each other and can have a lot of things in common. Even right now as I'm describing them you can feel like I'm describing you. Also they require a lot of rest as they are always tired. And I'm also getting that some of you are going to meet them soon. Like in the next month. You can meet them near a lake, river or on the beach. Somewhere there is a lot of water. 

Messages that might resonate : Sagittarius, 222 , disquiet, security, fire sign and air sign, cyan / blue, church, red clothes, a fish , pink palms, dove. 

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This is an old post that i love so much and had to bring back

It includes all venus signs. Lets go

ARIES

“the mind of a five year old imprisoned in a body that’s on fire”

These sunshines like how independent they can be in most situations, even though they come off as selfish. They like their partners to be someone who is as independent as them, having their own beliefs where they stand by with strong and logical justifications. It doesnt matter if both of them have very opposite views, what matters is to see someone that isnt a sheep, but has their own critical thinking. Aries want someone that will believe in them faithfully but most importantly someone that will never judge aries’s own beliefs and opinions! They are reckless and they can acknowledge it on their own, they don’t need someone that will make them drown more in their mistakes and flaws. Physical appearance plays such a big role in this placement. Aries is a progressive sign and they like to move on fast. That doesn’t mean though that they don’t want someone by their side. All they need is a passenger in their life journey, not a burden.

Aries love to be competitive, it’s in their nature to hit up situations and be playful. Most may hide it but the truth is that they really think competing and fighting with their partner is a huge turn on. That’s why they like people with strong beliefs that they can debate, fight without hurting each other’s feelings and make up as if nothing ever happened. They love intensity in their partner. P a s s i o n. Intrigue them oftenly, rage them all you want; they fuckin love it.

Compatible with: Venus in Scorpio, Gemini, Sagittarius / Venus in 1st, 5th or 11th house

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TAURUS

”hurt me deeply and believe me, there’s no turning back”

One of the signs that I find so friendly and seriously so calm. Taurus seek comfort, some say that they are afraid of changes and like to do planned things that aren’t beyond their limits. It can be true, but only if you make a Taurus feel insecure with you. They can be playful, funny, competitive but only if they know you well enough to feel like you have accepted them and made them feel like home. They are not as clingy as many say, they are not as homesick as others say and they are not as traditional as another one would say, all these happen only if they deeply don’t trust you. Taurus have it in their nature to be affectionate, easily possessive and jealous, but they rarely express their jealousy due to pride and stubbornness.

They don’t get easily in love and most of the times they just have “seasonal” crushes. For someone to grab their attention and for taurus to fall in love, that person has to give them the feeling of anticipation and loyalty. They can be attracted to quiet people that you can see are mysterious. They like to discover people. Taurus is the sign that if they actually like someone, they will never leave them. They feel special when their partner opens up only to them about what is bothering them. They like to feel that their partner is trusting them and it automatically makes them trust their partner too. They like intelligent and serious people that have more of a sarcastic sense of humor. Most taurus have a slow-burn love life.

Compatible with: Venus in capricorn, virgo and cancer / venus in 7th, 8th and 10th house

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GEMINI

“i want you firstly to be my friend, my psychologist, my teacher, my companion, my teammate and then be my lover. Just loving each other is boring.”

As one of the three air signs and a mercury ruled sign, we all know that the key about Geminis is communication. If a Gemini finds interest in you but both of you cant actually talk about anything without arguing or keeping a flow, then don’t expect Gemini to be that loyal. They may stay in that relationship cause they find themself attracted to you but if Gemini’s mind isn’t satisfied, the end is coming near. Stimulating their mind is the way for them to get interested in someone. They like weird and strong-headed people that are really loyal to their opinions and are not afraid to be open about them. Their first reaction may show you that your weird opinions made them feel uncomfortable and that things were awkward, but you should know that it did the exactly opposite. They like people that are not feared of embarrassment cause that’s when they will feel free and comfortable with someone.

Geminis can overthink stuff a lot and sometimes they feel insecure. They would never show it to anyone, even if you’re in a relationship together, since they don’t want to provoke their insecurities. They want to heal them with you but without you knowing that you actually helped them. In return, they are very giving and affectionate with you. But they are known about their mood swings. One day they will be all over you but the next day they will just ignore all affection. Air signs in general are more based in logic other than emotions. They can love deeply ofc but many times they think frequently if all they are going through is actually worth it from an unbiased perspective. So the key for a Gemini to who they fall in love with is the mind. Geminis like to grow up with their partner

Compatible with: Venus in Sagittarius, Leo, virgo / venus in 3rd, 9th and 11th

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CANCER

“I never asked for too much, just your whole body and soul belonging only to me”

As one of the three water signs, Cancers are truly carried by their emotions and instincts about a person. They love the idea of a relationship, loving how they can have someone to make them feel special and love them in return. But their expectations get so high. They are too romantic inside their head but their actual approach to someone can be somewhat aggressive. The thing with cancers is that they are very inner people and they feel too much energies and emotions. To the point where they get numb to the feeling. Though this whole defensive appoach towards someone is until they feel safe with you, then they can give you all the love from the whole world. They are not the signs that run for a good chase but they like someone that will show them confidently their liking on cancer venus.

However, if they indeed get interested in the other person, then cancers can deeply love them in the point where their love is kind of ‘obsessive’(?). They will stay with that person, fighting for anything that comes between their way. They don’t like the idea of staying alone. They are known as the “mothers” of the zodiac circle and that they actually take care of everyone but they too need someone to take care of them as they are in the “baby” zodiac sign category. Showing them you are someone they can trust, that is caring, can show them love, be next to them even when they are moody, then the Cancer will surely open up their romantic side totally.

Compatible with: Venus in Pisces, Taurus and Capricorn/ Venus in 4th, 8th and 12th