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So I’ve posted this on Fetlife, but it seems relevant to put it here too.

If you’re someone who does rope bondage and posts photos, it’s almost a given that you’ve received comments like this: “Is no one going to comment that she’s turning purple? Loosen it up!” “Those arms are way too tight! You’re causing cell death!” “Are their legs supposed to be that color?” “That’s so scary, watch that purple leg!” These usually come from (what I assume are) well intentioned but uninformed people with little to no knowledge of rope bondage and suspension. I’d like to offer a response I’ve used before. *“Repeat after me: purple limbs do not necessarily indicate danger. Purple limbs do not mean rope is “too tight.” Purple limbs are a minor concern comparedy to some of the actual physical risks of rope bondage and suspension. Discoloration is not a good indicator of nerve damage. Purple limbs do not give you the right to yell at someone on the Internet because you think you know better than them.” Ties often need to be tight because that actually makes the tie safer, especially regarding suspensions. Any time you restrict circulation, you’re going to get some discoloration. It’s how blood flow works. Some people turn purple, red, or blue at the slightest pressure - some don’t. ITS ALMOST NEVER A CAUSE FOR ALARM. There are other, much more pressing risks associated with rope than some discoloration. If you know nothing about rope, please don’t leave these comments. They’re annoying, repetitive, and condescending. Most experienced bottoms and riggers are extremely risk aware and know what they’re doing. All you’re doing is making yourself look ignorant. Find a better way to channel your “concern”. Or better yet, ask questions and educate yourself! Shrimp out. (NOTE: since it’s been mentioned a few times, I will clarify: this is NOT directed at people who are genuinely trying to learn and understand. I will never tell people not to question things they’re unsure of or curious about, and in fact encourage it.

This is my favorite class about my favorite kind of play with one of my favorite people to tie with, @heathawk13

All photos by @twisted-view 

Here is every costume I wore for Halloween since 2004, I’m missing 2011 I think I didnt go out that year. As you can see I’m a big ol’ dork. 

Crazy 88

Speed Racer 

Ed Wood

Lt. Dangle 

Storm Shadow 

Lederhosen/Scout from Team Fortress

Old West Marshall/Old timey cat burglar

Generic Pulp Hero

Fox Hunter

Han Solo 

Mad Max with partner at the time as Furiosa

Castro and Kim Jung Il 

Fallout 4 vault dweller