let yourself feel

we dated 3 years ago and it ended because we were too young and not emotionally mature enough, and going through too much in our personal lives to put on the other person. we recently found eachother again and are in much better places, but he still doesn’t feel ready for a relationship yet. i am going to wait for him as long as i can and do everything possible to show him that he is loved. this is either going to be the person i end up with or the biggest heartbreak of my life.

I am a bi-romantic lesbian and I had this incredible girlfriend. We live on opposite sides of the country and she was planning to move here. Even bought the plane ticket. We had this great foundation of communication because with us being long distance there wasnt any physical pressure. We both have relationship fears. Hers won out and she ended our plans and broke up with me. I miss her. I can't breathe. I just want her back so bad. I feel gutted.

мy crυѕн нaѕ вeen ѕнowιng тнaт нe lιĸeѕ мe, and нe'ѕ even ѕaιd нe loveѕ мe, вυт a gιrl нe υѕed тo тalĸ тo ѕwooped ιn тoday and тнreaтened тo end нerѕelғ caυѕe нe "cнoѕe мe" over нer even тнoυgн ѕнe leғт нιм. ι'м вυммed. ι waѕ ѕo нappy, and тнιѕ нappenѕ. ι тold нιм ι'd тreaт нιм lιĸe a тaĸen мan ѕιnce нe тold мe нe cared aвoυт вoтн oғ υѕ and ѕнe ѕpoĸe тo нιм ғιrѕт. нe тнen вecaмe υpѕeт wιтн мe and aѕĸed ғor a poly. ι'м a jealoυѕ perѕon and don'т lιĸe ѕнarιng and ι don'т ĸnow wнaт тo do.

Time: 10:58 pm, secret I’m keeping: I broke up with my gf because I knew I couldn’t give her what she deserved or needed, but fuck I hate myself so much bc I made her cry. I hope her and that other boy will be turn out well. I can tell he really likes her, and I can tell she likes him too. She has such a big heart, I was so damn lucky. I’m just glad she’s not gonna be alone. But dear god I wish she wasn’t alone with me. Right person, wrong time. I just wanna run back to her.

Time : 12:48 pm Secret I’m keeping: I think I’m pregnant

how do i accept the fact that my ex will hate me forever and i will never get closure

I had sex with my boyfriends friend after we broke up (I was intoxicated), he wanted me back before I told him but now he hates me and I don’t know what to do, I’m a mess

I used to have a good male friend. But when I hooked up with his friend everything changed and we lost touch. Now I feel so damaged and broken. I miss him and want him back in my life. I think I’m in love. Every time I see him in the club or hear anyone mention his name my heart beats way much faster. I think about him almost 24/7....I have those days when I can’t even sleep....our friends make jokes about this whole situation and I don’t know what to do.......

i just broke up with my girlfriend. we were together earlier this year and then she ended it, and then she reached out and we got back together, but it just fell right back into the same patterns we were in before. and i’m just so heartbroken cause i really love her and in the end i don’t think she loved me as much.