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mutual aid means no hierarchy between givers and receivers

a new mutual aid org, Bridge of Solidarity, has been established in the gaza strip by 17 year old poet yazan mohammed in response to the exploitative practices conducted by some charities and encouraged by the existing charity-based model of fundraising for gaza. according to BoS: "the western attention economy and pity economy plays a large role in who lives or dies in gaza." essentially, people need to make themselves marketable in order to receive lifesaving aid; people who are not marketable die. yazan himself wrote about the damage this can do to one's self image, which you can read here.

after trying for a year to respect his own privacy, my friend siraj was also pressured into posting images of his son's emaciated body in order to gain sympathy from westerners.

we cannot keep forcing people to do this anymore.

here's a declaration of their values from bridge of solidarity's most recent post:

Our organization is against the Western gaze. We refuse to humiliate people. We refuse to force people to take photos. We refuse to force people to take photos with our flyer or logo. People will receive aid freely without being forced to pose. We will respect people's privacy completely. Our principles include autonomy, dignity, sovereignty, mutual respect, and mutual aid.

this org will prioritize giving aid to people without phones or social media, who do not speak english, and who do not have outside support or living parents. these are the people who are not palatable to westerners but who deserve to live with as much dignity as everyone else

as of five days ago, BoS are working on a water truck delivery

Emptiness of Godhood - Miquella, the Unalloyed ✧

Two College Roommates, Dorm Room Argument, Gay Man's Collection, 1980s

The Dubai Penthouse Bedroom set, from Mara Lepere-Schloop's Instagram

these design choices are in conversation with the historic architecture of dubai (pictured below), but they're also a pointless simulacrum of something practical. the penthouse is already a temperature-controlled environment, and for obvious reasons these rooms don't need protection from the sun.

the apartment's layered archways and corridors with differing light sources also create the illusion that one of the exits leads outside like a normal building. but ultimately armand and louis are still sealed away inside a 21st century tower block.