there’s a spider-man and an ant-man?

I keep seeing posts about anon hate, and taking haituses and deleting blogs….

But I haven’t seen/received any anon hate. (might jus be cos I’m inactive etc. etc.) And not that I think I deserve it or anyone else does but

WOW.

The state of /the fandom/ is in shambles. Relationships between fans, blog to blog, and to our own favs is strained and wilting. How can we claim to support and praise Tom & Co. if we can’t even get along? How can we feel free to enjoy their work if we can’t even feel safe saying our opinions, writing fics, making edits or talking to one another? How do we become better than this? How do we learn?

I’m no authority over what you do with your life or how you spend time on the internet but keep your salty-ass off blogs that are just having fun. Keep your toxic trigger fingers off the keyboard. Spew the hate and gossip on your own damn blog if you feel so compelled to do so. And at least step off anon if you’re gonna be a musty bitch.

We don’t have to like the same things, or be present in every aspect of the fandom. BUT we do have to share this space with one another. So be polite, clean up after yourself, and pay the fucking rent bro.

Cost of living here is to jus be nice.

If you’re a blog struggling with anon hate or fandom drama, feel free to reach out to me. I’ve got your back. I’m here.

And if you have a problem with me??? Or my blog?? Or my boys???

Send me your @

Spider-Man: Far From Home (2019)

1. I love Peter Parker more than I thought I could

2. Peter Parker is gonna be fangirling over fury 40% of the time

3. May and Happy

4. Tony wasn’t there and that’s not okay

5. Peter and MJ actually have chemistry now and I’m happy about that

6. Secret identity who?

7. May helping Peter with spiderman is something I never knew I needed

Aries: becomes less talkative, watching others and observing, irritated easily, might give up on things or seem lazy

Taurus: irregular eating habbits, more quiet and thinking, tired, if you see the, crying it’s really bad

Gemini: might come off as rude or ignorant, tends to isolate themselves from others, talks much less then usual

Cancer: sometimes they can become very angry, screams and pushes people away from them, emotional rollercoaster, either binge eating or lack of food

Leo: angry, looks like they don’t want to talk to you and they don’t, can come off as rude, not as talkative/loud as usual, doesn’t really laugh and can be very pesimistic

Virgo: lack of sleep, might avoid people and overally talk much less, looks and acts tired, can be rude, doesn’t care about other people’s feeling at that very moment

Libra: looks tired, will probably try to talk to you about their problems but then will say something like “ahh don’t worry about it :)”, not as happy and optimistic as they usually are

Scorpio: will take everything personally, might be sarcastic or rude, complains, might actually cry in front of you, won’t tell you if they need help or a hug, tries to act normal

Sagittarius: stops caring, almost doesn’t laugh, distant from people, doesn’t really talk, might as well just disappear for a few days and you won’t know where they’ve gone

Capricorn: you can see it in their face, doubts everything they do, wants to talk about it but doesn’t know how, very quiet

Aquarius: can be rude, becomes more introverted; stays at home if they can, doesn’t talk to people, irregular sleeping

(this is not directed at you specifically, anon) but you know what? i hope the trailer doesn’t come out tomorrow.

i don’t want tom’s harassment to be overshadowed and washed away like it was nothing and never happened. — honestly he seems like the kind of guy that would be okay if “this drama” just went away and got covered up without him commenting on it. but as a fandom i think it’s an important conversation and realization to have.